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AIBU to think the wildfire alert about barbecues was unnecessary?

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HollyhockDayssss · 14/08/2026 19:55

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AIBU to think the alert was unnecessary? I get wildfires are an issue but informing the public not to use bbqs isnt a life and death situation.

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HewasH2O · 14/08/2026 20:22

The New Forest has been on fire since Sunday. A 15 mile stretch of dual carriageway is closed from Southampton. Yesterday Forestry England found discarded disposable barbecues in fires around Lyndhurst, just a few miles from the main fire.

A fire on the Isle of Wight a fortnight ago was started by a disposable barbecue. That burnt for days and destroyed a huge area.

I think you're forgetting that a huge number of the public are idiots and think warnings & rules don't apply to them.

PashaMinaMio · 14/08/2026 20:23

Error404FucksNotFound · 14/08/2026 20:17

Really? I live near moorland and people with their bloody disposable bbqs cause fires every damned year. This year its worse because it's so dry. It absolutely is an issue when you've got twats leaving their hot bbqs behind to catch fire.

I’m not far from moorland & bone dry fields either.

This message was appreciated by me because you can’t educate pork and ignoramuses need to be reminded.

BuffaloCauliflower · 14/08/2026 20:24

muddyford · 14/08/2026 19:59

Wish he'd included fireworks and those moronic sky lanterns.

It does include fireworks and ‘any activity that could cause a fire’. Did you actually read it?

AIBU to think the wildfire alert about barbecues was unnecessary?
Itsasecretnow · 14/08/2026 20:25

Mespher · 14/08/2026 20:16

Maybe they should have had their own alert for their locality then. That would be proper use of the alert system

Gosh, you’re so right! I mean it’s not as if people holiday or move around the uk, especially in the summer! It’s lucky that no one here ever leaves their own little 2sq miles, isn’t it? Phew!

Oh, no, hold on a sec…

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Ladysodor · 14/08/2026 20:25

The barbecues will be back on sale after the heatwave has passed, withdrawing them from sale is a temporary measure. I plan to stock up for next year.

notimagain · 14/08/2026 20:25

Mespher · 14/08/2026 20:11

It is if you are near it, not if you are 100 miles away

Agreed.

I thought the idea behind the system was to alert people if there was a serious threat to
life or limb in their locality.

The danger is if the system starts to be used for blanket announcements (no matter how serious the issue) people will start to cancel the warning without reading.

Human factors/accident investigation people can bore for hours with stories of accidents that were caused by people cancelling warnings without reading because they were getting too many low level alerts....and eventually they cancelled out the one warning that really needed attention.

There really needs to be a two tier system, one lower level for announcements such as tonight's, then a higher level one for "this means you, now"

That's certainly how it is done in some countries.

Vaxtable · 14/08/2026 20:26

Have you seen the fires? All those people injured, all those homes destroyed and they believe one lot was down to a bbq

people are dropping vapes everywhere, some are still having bonfires locally we have had numerous field fires, and someone’s garden destroyed

hopefully those idiots will now realise they need to stop

muddyford · 14/08/2026 20:27

BuffaloCauliflower · 14/08/2026 20:24

It does include fireworks and ‘any activity that could cause a fire’. Did you actually read it?

I didn't get the alert on either 'phone so would have struggled to read it.

TheWytch · 14/08/2026 20:27

Armorlux · 14/08/2026 20:05

If you lived somewhere where nightly fireworks after midnight are the current norm,you may think differently. The very area that has seen all those houses gutted.

Maybe,just maybe, it will get through to the idiots who think rules are for other people.

I don't for one moment think that the firework and BBQ lighters will take a blind bit of notice.

muddyford · 14/08/2026 20:28

Nincompoo · 14/08/2026 20:11

it did include fireworks.

but if a person is thick enough to set them off at the moment anyway then I doubt they’re capable of reading it, and lantern users are beyond hope anyway.

I didn't get the alert. OP was about BBQs.

Perplexed20 · 14/08/2026 20:28

Our fire service is stretched to the limit. We've had forest and town fires. The town fires have been started by bbqs, arson and carelessness. We are not the only area of the country thats in this position so yes yabu.

Mespher · 14/08/2026 20:29

Itsasecretnow · 14/08/2026 20:25

Gosh, you’re so right! I mean it’s not as if people holiday or move around the uk, especially in the summer! It’s lucky that no one here ever leaves their own little 2sq miles, isn’t it? Phew!

Oh, no, hold on a sec…

🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

You would get it if you were in the locality, that is the whole point, they can be location based so you only get it if you are there. Maybe you didn't know this

MummyWillow1 · 14/08/2026 20:30

This is just in the last 24 hours. But just because it doesn’t effect you don’t you worry your pretty little head dear.

AIBU to think the wildfire alert about barbecues was unnecessary?
AIBU to think the wildfire alert about barbecues was unnecessary?
AIBU to think the wildfire alert about barbecues was unnecessary?
Pistachiocake · 14/08/2026 20:30

Jumped as my phone suddenly got noisier! And was just watching the Joey where his house is on fire. Not wildfire, but otherwise matches your post perfectly.

MrsOni · 14/08/2026 20:32

MrsPapillon · 14/08/2026 20:15

Then send out an alert in the Cairngorns or other areas where people are at immediate risk of death. The warnings are supposed to be to warn that lives are immediately at risk from a natural disaster or war or escaped tiger or something.

Surely they are able to send messages without the accompanying four minute warning if they just want to give us information?

I mean... vast parts of the country are basically tinderboxes at the moment. Sending out a message saying "don't be a twat" when people are still very evidently being twats seems more than reasonable.

Or would you rather someone accidentally starts a fire near you so you have to be evacuated, or lose your home, or worse?

It's just a fucking alert being sent out. Get some perspective.

Nobabyyet296 · 14/08/2026 20:32

Jcomingafterall · 14/08/2026 20:16

The second I received it… I thought “I bet there’s going to be loads of whinging threads about it on Mumsnet” and sure enough….

Totally. I generally find now that no matter what happens people need to find a way to complain about it. If there was no alert people would be up in arms saying the government need to do something about the fires everywhere.

there was a loud noise for a few seconds. It’s not a big deal.

We were told about government alerts a while ago. If people don’t want them they should have turned them off.

MummyWillow1 · 14/08/2026 20:32

notimagain · 14/08/2026 20:25

Agreed.

I thought the idea behind the system was to alert people if there was a serious threat to
life or limb in their locality.

The danger is if the system starts to be used for blanket announcements (no matter how serious the issue) people will start to cancel the warning without reading.

Human factors/accident investigation people can bore for hours with stories of accidents that were caused by people cancelling warnings without reading because they were getting too many low level alerts....and eventually they cancelled out the one warning that really needed attention.

There really needs to be a two tier system, one lower level for announcements such as tonight's, then a higher level one for "this means you, now"

That's certainly how it is done in some countries.

Edited

The whole country is a tinder box. How does this not affect everyone?

HumberSquid · 14/08/2026 20:32

I manage a woodland estate on the edge of a city. Fire brigade were in today to put out a fire started by some dick having a campfire. If it had got going it could have taken out a lot of houses on the boundary.

You would think that this sort of warning would be over the top but actually it isn't- people really are that stupid.

Edited to add: the fire was put out by a brigade from the next town over as all our local fire personnel were already attending incidents.

hds873banana · 14/08/2026 20:33

Just driven past two fire engines racing to a fire. YAB so U it’s not even funny.

IlikethoseBalenciagas · 14/08/2026 20:33

Yabu. People are thick and still using BBQ's and dropping cigarette litter. I'm annoyed they didn't include cigarettes in the warning.

Loulou4022 · 14/08/2026 20:34

Fires aren’t a matter of life and death?? Really?? I’m sure the people who’ve lost loved ones, pets and their homes wouldn’t agree with you!!!

Itsasecretnow · 14/08/2026 20:34

HewasH2O · 14/08/2026 20:22

The New Forest has been on fire since Sunday. A 15 mile stretch of dual carriageway is closed from Southampton. Yesterday Forestry England found discarded disposable barbecues in fires around Lyndhurst, just a few miles from the main fire.

A fire on the Isle of Wight a fortnight ago was started by a disposable barbecue. That burnt for days and destroyed a huge area.

I think you're forgetting that a huge number of the public are idiots and think warnings & rules don't apply to them.

Yes, and iirc there were also other instances earlier this summer, before this current fire, where they had been found as the cause of smaller fires here too, not just this one. The affect to the wildlife and valuable ecosystem the NF provides is going to be immense and is incredibly sad. I think the people who are moaning about the alert and can’t see how serious the situation is are likely those who would buy and use disposable bbqs. They’re also very lucky to not live in an area affected. I’m not actually in the NF but not far, and it is somewhere I love, it is so varied and such an important area.

Sereine · 14/08/2026 20:35

EweCee · 14/08/2026 20:05

I think it should used for IMMINENT threat to life - a national text message for this one would have been more appropriate imo. The alert service should be used for more immediate threats like flood, storm, war!!

If one of your neighbour gets a bit careless with a barbecue, you will know all about imminent threat to life.

Lunalara · 14/08/2026 20:35

I was living in uni halls and this was around the 5th November. Some children were setting off fireworks on the road, and unlucky for us, it hit the trees opposite our road. Thankfully not a building, but if the fireworks had been angled differently, the fireworks would have hit us. Scary thought.

IlikethoseBalenciagas · 14/08/2026 20:35

And if it's too dramatic for you then maybe sign up as a retained firefighter in your town and see how "unnecessary" the warning was.