Oh crikey. It really gets on my nerves when people start accusing others of homophobia just because a woman doesn't find the idea of a man who has sex with other men as an attractive prospective partner.
First off the bat, just google "STI's higher in gay and bisexual men" and you will find multiple agencies (including the UK Health Security Agency and the CDC) and medical studies across numerous countries all verify that sexually transmitted diseases are currently and historically, hugely disproportionately higher in gay and bisexual men. They actually have partners whose sex drive matches their own and are pretty notorious for risk taking sexual behaviour. How many straight women or lesbians could have thought up the mind boggling "glory hole" in a public toilet as a way of having a casual sexual encounter.
So, it is NOT homophobic to recognise that you would potentially be at a higher risk of contracting an STI if you were in a relationship with a bisexual man, it is basic common sense.
Secondly, when a man leaves his female partner for another female he is generally thought of as a cheating bastard, but when a man leaves his female partner for another man he is pretty much resoundingly applauded and supported for being "courageous" and "his authentic self".
Thirdly, I find more and more that people who lack any particularly interesting or attractive characteristics, turn to exploring the "sexual spectrum" in an attempt to make themselves terribly avant garde or cool. I think some people honestly believe that the actually turn into David Bowie by putting on some lippy and nail polish and shagging someone of the same sex. No. David Bowie was a Rock God, they broke the mould.
Fourthly, call me a prude but anything that involves even the suggestion of faecal matter in a sexual context gives me the almighty heave, whether it is male on male or male on female or vice versa. This man has admitted to rimming.
Hang on, just having a dry heave and I'll resume typing...
He literally has stuck his tongue up another mans bum. I don't care how many times he's brushed his teeth and gargled since, that tongue has been inside an anus then inside her mouth!
I once dumped a man because I met his ex girlfriend and adjudged her to have a shockingly awful problem with personal hygiene, and after that, every time his tongue came anywhere near me (which admittedly, was only briefly) I pictured her and shuddered at where it had been before and his incredibly low standards of where he'd insert his personage.
My God! When did having standards become such an awful thing. Only idiots that believe everything they see on TV try to shame people for having personal standards. Each to their own. Go out, have fun, live your "best sexual life" (as long as it doesn't involve children or animals). But don't let people bully and shame you into having a relationship with someone you're not comfortable with.
And please buy some listerine.