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Help, am I being scammed?!

143 replies

amijustnaive · 05/08/2026 22:57

I have an Airbnb booked for just over two weeks time in France. It’s a small studio, basement, air con but no windows. It cost £350 for 5 nights.

I got a message from the hosts via the app today to say that they were very sorry but the aircon has broken. They gave me two options - stay and get a partial refund, or they would transfer my booking to another of their properties. They apparently can’t get an engineer to fix it until the end of August, after my stay is done.

They explained that the studio was unbearable without the aircon and they would recommend switching. I switched.

I am now in a much nicer property and it was more than double the cost of the original one. It’s in a better location, bigger and brighter.

The booking is now all confirmed in my app, and looks legit. But now I can’t help but wonder if they’re scamming me?! They refunded me and I booked into this new apartment for the same cost as the previous one. They had the thing turned on where you basically have to ask them to book and they decide if you can or not.

Help! Am I being scammed or are they just really good Airbnb owners?!

YABU - they’re just nice people. Chill out.

YANBU - phone Airbnb support tomorrow and get them to check it out

OP posts:
Girlwithavibe · 06/08/2026 08:18

amijustnaive · 05/08/2026 23:02

Also not being able to find anyone for the whole of August is throwing me off a bit - why is there nobody available?!

Hahaha have u ever tried to find someone in France to do a job in the month of August you would be lucky lol 😁 honestly I would believe them they haven't scammed u they have upgraded and not charged you for the inconvenience u know some people are actually decent and honest x

Jackiepumpkinhead · 06/08/2026 08:20

amijustnaive · 05/08/2026 23:02

Also not being able to find anyone for the whole of August is throwing me off a bit - why is there nobody available?!

Because it’s France, in August!

Laurmolonlabe · 06/08/2026 08:27

amijustnaive · 05/08/2026 22:59

My gut feeling is that I could turn up and not be able to get into the property

The original apartment was £350. This new one is £755, so I’ve got a £400 discount because the aircon has broken.

That is always a risk with this kind of property- scammers sometimes clone sites and the place you have paid has never heard of you- this has happened on Booking.com, I'm sure it has happened on Air BNB as well.

Sartre · 06/08/2026 08:28

SunnyRedSnail · 06/08/2026 07:56

The famous French author Marcel Pagnol wrote books about Les Grandes Vacances. Its a pretty well known cultural thing due to them placing the importance on family time.

Obviously not everything shuts due to tourism, but lots of non tourist related businesses shut for two or more weeks in August.

The French are also known for being quite rude to English people that don't make any effort to speak French.

The onions around the neck, stripey shirts and a beret thing is a myth though! 😝

They're also rude to people who speak French badly so you can’t win. I say this as someone who is half French.

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/08/2026 08:29

endofthelinefinally · 05/08/2026 23:02

It is impossible to get any repairs or similar work done in Paris in August, so that rings true.

It's true that Parisians leave the city in August, but most of them go to other parts of France. It's a big country!

There is no mention of Paris in the OP's posts.

Are you American?

user1492757084 · 06/08/2026 08:30

Phone them directly and confirm booking.

SusanJJ · 06/08/2026 08:39

amijustnaive · 05/08/2026 23:02

Also not being able to find anyone for the whole of August is throwing me off a bit - why is there nobody available?!

Because everyone is having problems with air con in this extreme weather?

notnorman · 06/08/2026 08:41

Everyone is on holiday in August in France and Spain. You can’t get anyone to do anything!

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/08/2026 08:45

amijustnaive · 06/08/2026 07:46

I’m not going to Paris.

I'm glad you've finally pointed this out to the multiple posters who've already assumed you were going to Paris simply because you said France.

Have a great holiday.

Goingmadddd · 06/08/2026 08:47

amijustnaive · 06/08/2026 06:19

That I’m concerned it’s a scam, because it doesn’t make sense that they’d lose £400

They haven't lost £400.

The apartment was empty or they would not have offered it to you.

They were going to lose your 350. Which they have retained because they have offered you alternative accomodation.

Pushmepullu · 06/08/2026 08:47

WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing · 06/08/2026 08:00

It’s pretty well known actually! Italy is the same.

Athens too.

KatharinaRosalie · 06/08/2026 08:48

I live in France, hours from Paris so it's not just there. I can totally believe you can't find anybody to do anything in August, especially air conditioning technicians after the heat waves we have had.

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/08/2026 08:50

Booboobagins · 06/08/2026 08:16

There is a known issue with booking.coms system being hacked - not sure it's sorted yet, so best to message with them or call.

However, if it's all showing OK on booking.com and you're accessing the site via the AP, it's unlikely you've been scammed.

I could have sworn OP has mentioned it's Airbnb several times 🤔

Hellohelga · 06/08/2026 08:53

amijustnaive · 05/08/2026 23:09

Yes I mean the Airbnb is owned by a company!

Most airbnbs are owned by private equity companies but they are run by local hosts. There’s no team on hand to deal with issues and repairs. The host is the person you are messaging and repairs along with all other problems are their responsibility. PP is right that France shuts down for August when everyone goes on holiday so it rings true that the repair can’t be done any time soon. So the host has done the right thing and given you an alternative accommodation. Relax and enjoy your upgrade.

SpaceRaccoon · 06/08/2026 08:54

amijustnaive · 05/08/2026 23:02

Also not being able to find anyone for the whole of August is throwing me off a bit - why is there nobody available?!

It's Paris 😂 everyone takes the whole of August off.
And with the heatwave and no windows, it would be genuinely unbearable.

I'm as certain as I can be that this is genuine and I hope you have a lovely wee break in your nice accommodation.

JahanaraBegum · 06/08/2026 08:54

Twice I have booked a place and due to leaking/flooding, they have moved me to somewhere vastly posher for no extra cost. So it does happen. I hope it works out ok for you x

ClairDeLaLune · 06/08/2026 09:03

Did the message come through Airbnb? And the link to rebook? Sounds legit if so.

We had a Booking.com place booked which was cancelled when we got there due to alleged black mould, we had a text message from some random agent cancelling it. That WAS a scam. They never refunded us (got the money back from our credit card company in the end). AVOID BOOKING.COM FOLKS! Never had a problem with Airbnb in 28 stays.

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/08/2026 09:06

amijustnaive · 06/08/2026 08:17

They’re correct.

You need to get a life.

I went and checked that thread and was ready to come back here to stick up for you, but no-can-do - you were being well over the top!

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/08/2026 09:07

SpaceRaccoon · 06/08/2026 08:54

It's Paris 😂 everyone takes the whole of August off.
And with the heatwave and no windows, it would be genuinely unbearable.

I'm as certain as I can be that this is genuine and I hope you have a lovely wee break in your nice accommodation.

Edited

It's not Paris. It's "France".

Rainbowralph · 06/08/2026 09:12

I would imagine if they put you in a non air conditioned studio without windows in the middle of a heatwave they are concerned you might die and they don’t want a manslaughter case on their hands!

Moroccogill · 06/08/2026 09:13

This doesn’t scream to me like you are being scammed, it’s quite normal for hosts (especially if they own a few properties) to do this. We had to be moved in a hotel a few weeks ago and they gave us a room that was hundreds more a night than the one we had booked - it’s curtesy and they don’t want bad reviews!

keepincool · 06/08/2026 09:15

amijustnaive · 06/08/2026 07:24

Christ, calm down love. It’s not that deep.

Ahh, I've just read your nasty responses on the other thread, a couple have been deleted you were so obnoxious. You've literally posted an AIBU panicking that you might be being scammed. You've only calmed down now that people have reassured you that August is a holiday month in France, so finding an engineer to the fix air-con will be nigh on impossible.

ImpossibleGermany · 06/08/2026 09:17

amijustnaive · 05/08/2026 22:59

My gut feeling is that I could turn up and not be able to get into the property

The original apartment was £350. This new one is £755, so I’ve got a £400 discount because the aircon has broken.

I am confident this will be legit.

It's impossible to get anyone out in a hurry (or at all) to do anything in France in August. Trust me, I know.

My hunch is that their air con has been broken for a while, they thought they could get away with letting other guests turn up, they'd apologise, make their excuses, give them a fan and a small discount and all would be well. Ordinarily that might be fine, but with the extreme weather recently I guess they've had complaints and bad reviews and people being forced to leave halfway through their stay, so they have decided not to risk it with you and take the hit on their more expensive property.

endofthelinefinally · 06/08/2026 09:18

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/08/2026 08:29

It's true that Parisians leave the city in August, but most of them go to other parts of France. It's a big country!

There is no mention of Paris in the OP's posts.

Are you American?

No I am not American. I just made an error in thinking OP was visiting Paris. Probably got mixed up with another thread. I didn't mention where residents go on holiday. I know that residents of Paris go to other parts of France in August.
I hope that has addressed all your concerns.

Isittimeformynapyet · 06/08/2026 09:19

endofthelinefinally · 06/08/2026 09:18

No I am not American. I just made an error in thinking OP was visiting Paris. Probably got mixed up with another thread. I didn't mention where residents go on holiday. I know that residents of Paris go to other parts of France in August.
I hope that has addressed all your concerns.

Perfectly 👍🏻

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