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AIBU to boycott a cleaner over a sexist advert about chores?

50 replies

Redragtoabull · 03/08/2026 01:22

Just seen a new advert for Purdey and whatever kitchen cleaner. It's a man cleaning the kitchen with the logo stating 'who said cleaning was a chore'
AIBU to boycott this product as the implications from their shit ad is that women have moaned for years about running a cloth over the kitchen work tops...

OP posts:
TrishM80 · 03/08/2026 08:31

I'm absolutely burning up with rage.

Cantwaitforwinter · 03/08/2026 11:10

TrishM80 · 03/08/2026 08:31

I'm absolutely burning up with rage.

Far too dramatic for half 8 on a Monday morning.

LostThestral · 03/08/2026 11:36

OP - seems to me you have a chip on your shoulder, I think the advert shows a man cleaning because men actually clean!

MyOtherProfile · 03/08/2026 13:25

LostThestral · 03/08/2026 11:36

OP - seems to me you have a chip on your shoulder, I think the advert shows a man cleaning because men actually clean!

Edited

Bless!
And he's cleaning just like the women do in the ads for the same company 🤔😀

Surgz · 03/08/2026 18:25

Everyone is pissed off with cleaning

WildLeader · 03/08/2026 18:27

Yanbu to boycott this product, but not for the ads, for the fact that it’s over priced and crap.

WildLeader · 03/08/2026 18:28

TrishM80 · 03/08/2026 08:31

I'm absolutely burning up with rage.

Have you tried HRT?

MyOtherProfile · 03/08/2026 18:28

WildLeader · 03/08/2026 18:27

Yanbu to boycott this product, but not for the ads, for the fact that it’s over priced and crap.

Fair point 😀

Arlanymor · 03/08/2026 18:31

They have men and women in lots of their ads. Surely it's supposed to be saying that the product is so lovely that cleaning is less of a chore? But I really couldn't care either way. I take more issue with 'period proud' products in the library I visited last week - great idea, poor execution - I've never been proud of having a period in my life. Yes I get it's about being a normal part of life free from 'shame, silence, or embarrassment' as the rhetoric ran... but 'proud' to encompass that? No.

theneighboureatmysalad · 03/08/2026 18:36

You'd moan if cleaning adverts were showing women
and you moan when it's a man

What do you want the advert to use? A cat?

MyOtherProfile · 03/08/2026 18:38

theneighboureatmysalad · 03/08/2026 18:36

You'd moan if cleaning adverts were showing women
and you moan when it's a man

What do you want the advert to use? A cat?

Who would?

kierenthecommunity · 03/08/2026 18:41

I’ve seen a few adverts where men are in ‘role reversed’ situations recently. Flash adverts have shown men cleaning and I heard a radio ad where it said something like ‘dad’s in the kitchen mum is out in the garden’

I think they’re just trying to be modern and not have woman in the kitchen roles

missmollygreen · 03/08/2026 18:45

It feels like you would be offended by anything they would have said OP

MandemChickenShop · 03/08/2026 18:52

great ad, everyone is talking about it

ColdAsAWitches · 03/08/2026 19:38

NotAnotherScarf · 03/08/2026 07:17

I doubt you boycotting them will have any effect. But I think your looking in the wrong direction. The commonwealth games have just finished. The female athletes in the main wore ridiculously skimpy and tight outfits...the rules don't stipulate they have to be that way...so why are they being worn?

Because they choose to. All athletes are given a choice of at least three different running short shapes and lengths. The same for tops. If you see anyone running with their bum out, it's because that's the style they have chosen.

SilkRoads · 03/08/2026 19:40

It's saying that it's not a chore when you use their products. It's nothing to do with men and women, beyond the fact that they probably used a man because people would say it was sexist if they had used a woman.

Nicewoman · 03/08/2026 21:05

Redragtoabull · 03/08/2026 01:22

Just seen a new advert for Purdey and whatever kitchen cleaner. It's a man cleaning the kitchen with the logo stating 'who said cleaning was a chore'
AIBU to boycott this product as the implications from their shit ad is that women have moaned for years about running a cloth over the kitchen work tops...

I’ve heard plenty of women moan they hate cleaning and the deal breaker in their life is doing the cleaning, so they hire a cleaner, regardless of whether they are single or married.

Rumpledandcrumpled · 03/08/2026 21:07

Not really seeing thay interpretation. I don’t buy their stuff as it’s shite. Not sure I’d class it as a boy cott though and announce it on social media.Confused

InterestedDad37 · 03/08/2026 21:08

If we take TV ads as representative of real life, you'd think almost all housework and childcare is done by men, and most motor mechanics are women.

JMSA · 03/08/2026 21:09

At least they’re now using men in their ads, so that’s a change!

NotAnotherScarf · 03/08/2026 21:53

ColdAsAWitches · 03/08/2026 19:38

Because they choose to. All athletes are given a choice of at least three different running short shapes and lengths. The same for tops. If you see anyone running with their bum out, it's because that's the style they have chosen.

But why? Because that's the way they get any coverage/sponsorship/media interest.

ColdAsAWitches · 03/08/2026 22:20

NotAnotherScarf · 03/08/2026 21:53

But why? Because that's the way they get any coverage/sponsorship/media interest.

No, it's just fashionable at the moment. Go to any amateur, local meeting. Everyone is wearing the same and there's no media or sponsorship involved. Go to any beach! It's just what women are wearing these days. In a few years it will be legs or boobs that are in fashion again.

lilkitten · 07/08/2026 12:08

On the basis of the title I would have said YANBU, as I thought you meant about not paying a cleaner to clean your house when their advertising is sexist.
But I can't see any issue in what you've described. I would take it as they're saying that using their products it makes cleaning easy and enjoyable.
I can't see why that is a dig at women?
However absolutely boycott them if you like, I've boycotted companies for reasons that others wouldn't agree with.

WineCharm · 07/08/2026 12:09

ShetlandishMum · 03/08/2026 01:25

I couldn't care less.

Agreed. This outrage about every.single.thing is so exhausting.

Nocameltoeleggingsplease · 07/08/2026 12:11

Wow.
Don’t buy their stuff if it bothers you, but I couldn’t get excited about this.

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