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AIBU to think cats should not roam unsupervised like dogs?

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estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:42

AIBU to think that if you dont leave your dog to roam streets unsupervised, then you shouldn't let other pets (cats), for the same reasons.

It blows my mind that people let their cats out because their sleep is disrupted and I wonder why they think its OK, when its highly unlikely they would put Fido outside if he kept the family up.

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Howmanycatsistoomany · 02/08/2026 22:23

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Just to add to this - isn't encouraging birds to use a bird feeder when you know there are cats around a bit cruel @Pippa99999 ?

Aluna · 02/08/2026 22:24

Pippa99999 · 02/08/2026 20:48

Couldn’t agree more. Why do cat owners think it’s okay that their cats just go and shit on other people’s property and kill for fun? If they can’t be controlled to stay within the boundaries of a garden, then they are clearly not suitable to be domestic pets.

I’m sometimes tempted to invest in an air pistol for when the neighbours cats come into our garden and shit all over it or hide in the bushes next to the bird feeders.

Great idea, you will be arrested. And while you’re in police custody you can consider how grim life is without the freedom to roam outside.

hourglass2 · 02/08/2026 22:24

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:51

Who says they NEED to roam? Is this not just an excuse to absent yourself from the irritating and painful parts of pet ownership.

Sod the wildlife or the risk to the cat.

Its the same just with different parameters

Cat instinctively want to roam..

hourglass2 · 02/08/2026 22:29

Greywizardtotherescue · 02/08/2026 21:07

Then don’t complain when they get knocked down! We have a catio! Especially because I want cats to live!!

Who's complaining? That's the risk of having an outdoor cat, I would rather have my cat mooching about coming and going as she pleases than cooped up, she loves it, she comes back at all hours smelling of bonfires covered in bits from wherever she's been exploring....

ILoveCats89 · 02/08/2026 22:48

SorrellNightwind · 02/08/2026 09:46

Is that due to cats being in danger?

Cats need to be able to go out

I think its due to cats killing off birds

Lyndy74 · 02/08/2026 22:54

Ridiculous post! 🙄

Pippa99999 · 02/08/2026 22:57

Any cat owners able to offer advice on how best to keep cats out of my garden? I find that the high frequency noise things don’t work.

PigeonDuckGoose · 02/08/2026 23:07

Can't see you answered the question about whether you are a vegan or not?

ScaredButUnavoidable · 02/08/2026 23:09

Aluna · 02/08/2026 22:20

Dogs have to be supervised because they’re stupid; cats can look after themselves.

Pretty much this 🤣🤣

sequinmoon · 02/08/2026 23:13

Femalemachinest · 02/08/2026 21:43

"🙄 at posters saying that because their cats don’t roam, cats don’t need to roam."
Surely this can go both ways. Just because your cat needs to doesnt mean every cat needs to. My cat does not desperately try to get outside.

You actually can buy large wheels for cats to run on, mine loves his. And you can also lead train cats, same as a dog you make them comfortable with it from a young age. Just as you would with anything, brushing for example.

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Well obviously! But many do, and those are the ones people are having an issue with.

And neutered cats roam too. Not as far, but they still roam out of their gardens.

Do you mean the recommended 43-48 inch wheels that I mentioned in my previous post? The ones that many people in the UK would not be able to fit in their houses? Lucky you if you live in a large house or have a large garden, but many people don’t.

As I said, we’ve had cats on leads at times but they refused to walk anywhere! Again, great for you if yours is happy to go for a walk on a lead.

NewYear2026NewName · 02/08/2026 23:13

Limeandfigs · 02/08/2026 09:46

So do dogs, that's why most owners walk them twice a day.

That’s not roaming that’s exercise

Ladygodalmighty · 02/08/2026 23:17

Sahara123 · 02/08/2026 09:48

I do remember in the 70’s my parents used to “ let the dog out” - it used to roam around our village and come home when it felt like it !

I also remember most dogs being allowed to roam on their own.(So were most children) I don't ever remember seeing adults walking their dogs. The only down side was dog poo everywhere 🤮

Howmanycatsistoomany · 02/08/2026 23:21

Pippa99999 · 02/08/2026 22:57

Any cat owners able to offer advice on how best to keep cats out of my garden? I find that the high frequency noise things don’t work.

Your bird feeders will be attracting birds which will be attracting cats so remove the bird feeders? Or try a motion-activated sprinkler.

pinkstripeycat · 02/08/2026 23:23

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:47

But why do they need to roam? Would you let your domesticated dog roam?

Dont you worry the cat will kill the hedgehog babies?

Cats don’t kill hedgehogs 😂

LadyBeatriceBeaHiggins · 02/08/2026 23:25

pinkstripeycat · 02/08/2026 23:23

Cats don’t kill hedgehogs 😂

no people do and their cars, maybe we should have people be banned from driving

BiteSizedLife · 02/08/2026 23:28

BirdsongSunshine · 02/08/2026 19:55

I agree!

during breeding season I would love cat owners to possibly adhere to the not letting them out during dusk and dawn. This is when the newly fledged birds generally fledge.

Just to give a bit of perspective, fledglings such as our beautiful robin and blackbird, can’t fly initially when they fledge. Instead they search for ground cover, while their parents still feed them on the ground. Over those critical first few days of fledging, they gain strength in their wings which enable them to eventually fly!

What boils my piss is your cat, full on their lunch, being let out and they piss about playing with a weeks old robin fledgling, which is newly fledged and trying to gain that strength to be able to fly, therefore never having a chance to do that! Same with blackbirds and many others!

I spend so much time in my garden watching birds courting, pairing up during spring, care for their young, see off magpies, Sparrowhawks, all kinds of natural predators, they work so hard raising their young! It’s heartbreaking when your domesticated cat comes along and takes a youngster, who is newly fledged, can’t fly but is trying to survive! It’s fucking shit tbh!

Nature is harsh but domesticated Tibbles is a fucking Twat!

And for no other reason other than "Tiddles thought it was fun..."

Cats have a real dark side to them - maiming and torturing things just for entertainment.

I'm not keen.

At least if my dog takes off after a rabbit it'll be cause she wants to eat it !

Howmanycatsistoomany · 02/08/2026 23:43

Oh my lot definitely eat what they kill. We live on a farm and would be overrun by rodents without them.

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 02/08/2026 23:48

Femalemachinest · 02/08/2026 21:58

Because you can...

That's really sad. Look at it looking at the fence 😡 it really wants to climb which is it's natural instinct.

Floatlikeafeather2 · 02/08/2026 23:51

Bananacrepewithnuts · 02/08/2026 13:29

When was the last time you saw someone taking their cat for a walk on a lead?

You aren't comparing like for like.

X

Twice, very recently.

HRTQueen · 02/08/2026 23:53

Boreded · 02/08/2026 21:06

I love this…good on your princess for knowing just how important a service she is providing. I hope she is adequately paid in dreamies and strokes

Oh she does

and judging by her waistline she is getting extra dreamies elsewhere 😬🥰

Floatlikeafeather2 · 02/08/2026 23:56

Sahara123 · 02/08/2026 13:29

I’m pretty sure you’re not my neighbour, I only have two and one of them is a vet and isn’t the least bit bothered by my cats. Neither is the other one.
My cats are free to roam in the countryside and are no bother to anyone. They have the best life.

No, I'm very glad to say I'm not your neighbour. I'm also glad to say that none of my current neighbours have cats.

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 03/08/2026 00:02

How on earth can you supervise a cat?

They usually supervise you.

CypressGrove · 03/08/2026 00:24

Olive123456 · 02/08/2026 19:42

If it helps, my cats only kill grey squirrels and rats.

I was just answering the question on why we have cat curfews in Australia. We don't have any native animals that are as effective natural predators as cats are so they had a significant negative impact on native marsupials, birds and reptiles here (effectively all sitting ducks).

dogsmaid · 03/08/2026 00:33

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:59

Again just completely patronising, completely ignoring a really logical question.

Why are cats the only animals we routinely put at risk?

Because it’s not the same level of risk. If I let my guinea pig out a fox will get it asap, if I let my dog out it could injure someone. Despite all the protections around dogs many are still injured or killed on the roads.

I wouldn’t have a cat if I lived near a fast road but i’m in London & it’s 20mph here, my cat wears a bell & stays in at night.

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · 03/08/2026 00:36

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:50

What is judgemental about asking why we care more about a dog, rabbit ir Guinea pigs safety than we do cats. Not a judgement. An observation and a question about the logic.

I think people deliberately dig their heels in because my point stands - letting their beloved cat wander about puts them at risk, that we wouldn't think was acceptable for another species. That makes people feel uncomfortable.

Letting teenagers wander about puts them at risk.

Should they be locked up because of that? If not, why not?