Yeah my bil and sil did this, retired at 50, pensions were 50k between them, had about 500k in savings, lived very frugally their whole married lives to save it. We all thought they were solid, mortgage free, lived frugally, it would be fine, but couldn’t understand the retiring at that age bit, for him if not her.
7 years later they have blown the lot apart from 50k , all on needless house stuff, holidays, cars, socialising, as they had fuck all else to do.
Now they are worried about money, not to live, but to enjoy themselves, they don’t want to work, and are really fucking bitter and envious when anyone else is doing something fun, we booked a hol, commented we were going on hols and got met with it’s alright for some comments. Same as we went to a gig, something they’d normally jump at, we got “how much!”, “we can’t spend that. “It was a hundred odd a ticket, we were all suggesting doing something in London. She suggested we stay at a fucking hostel. Nothing wrong with hostels, but I’m not doing that, neither were the others, we can afford a hotel. So we ended up all not going. We all went to a local community thing, was a 20 min drive away, she wanted us to get the bus. I had to explain a taxi with 4 in it was just as cheap and even offered to pay it. Nothing wrong with the bus, but it’s a ridiculous way to save money when you’re splurging the rest of the time, it was performative and no more.
the bitterness is shocking, we are all still working, they’ve been sitting on their arse for 7 years spending like the world was ending. They keep going on about having no money left. They literally spent their savings every week to fund their daddy warbuck lifestyles. Didn’t even attempt to live off their pensions.
Now they can’t keep doing it and are pissed off.but if you suggest getting a job they look at you like you’ve grown an extra head and suggested they invite their neighbours round to watch them take a shit in the drive.
the remaining 50 k will be gone soon enough, they are already talking about doing more unneeded house shit. It’s just bizzare, it’s like they worked all their lives, saved, lived frugally and now all they can to to entertain themselves is spend spend spend.
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