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Should I pay neighbours vet bill in this situation?

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Sheandhercat · 30/07/2026 17:55

My neighbour has gone away for 4 days and she asked me to pop in to feed her cat while she’s away, which I agreed to. Today is the first day, the cat was out all last night so I let him inside this morning, gave him some food and then left him in the house to sleep. I have gone in this evening and as I opened the door to enter, he was waiting by the door to go outside so I let him. When I walked into the kitchen I saw that he has eaten through his Felix pouches. The box of Felix was on the kitchen side, unopened. This morning I opened it to give him a packet but I just left the box where it was, I didn’t put it away in a cupboard. So he has eaten through the pouches to get to the food. A LOT of the actual packets are missing. It looks like he has eaten big chunks of the plastic because there’s nothing on the floor. 5 packets have been chewed through and there’s hardly anything even left of the packets it looks like he’s swallowed so much.

I contacted my neighbour straight away and she is a bit worried but said he will probably be fine because he has done this before but only with one or two packets, not five.

I am really worrying because he is outside now, I have been out shouting him to get him to come back so I can keep him in and keep my eye on him but he’s already gone. Ideally I think he should be taken to the vets to be checked out. If he ends up being ill from this, is it only fair that I pay the vet bill as he was in my care when it happened? Or does the owner still pay the bill? I am worrying not only for his welfare, but also because I don’t have that kind of money to cover vet fees if he ends up with a blockage or even for a check up.
its my fault for not putting the food away but I just left it where it already was and I didn’t even imagine he would do this! Is this on me to take him to be checked and pay the bill?

OP posts:
TreeDudette · 31/07/2026 14:45

Not your bill, owner should have told you to put pouches away in a cupboard. I look after my sisters cats and they get hungry but don't eat through cat food pouches!

EmeraldShamrock000 · 31/07/2026 14:53

No. If she was concerned about the cat she would have insisted you brought him asap. Not free of charge.

WiddlinDiddlin · 31/07/2026 15:22

Sheandhercat · 31/07/2026 14:40

My question isn’t whether I should take the cat to the vets if they need to go, it’s whether I would be expected to pay for it in this situation

No, your responsibility would be (if there were symptoms) to take to the vet - it would still be her responsiblity to pay, its her cat and she didn't supply instructions that would have avoided the problem.

If the injury/illness were caused by you not following instructions, that's different but you have it in writing that she admits she knew he'd do that.

But if she is a CF... then you would likely have to pursue it in SCC to get it back.

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