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AIBU to sell my ex husband's tools after four years?

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CatsangDogs · 29/07/2026 18:11

Hi sorry that I have probably posted in the wrong bit, I was hoping someone might know and save me another trip to a solicitor. My husband left 4 years ago and when he left he didn't clear out the garage with his tools in. My dilema is that I'm quite short of money and I have had someone take a look at some tools and stuff thats in there and I could sell the stuff for about £750. I asked him when he done a bunk years ago to come and get his stuff, I also messaged my MIL to say the same thing when he first left, I gave him 3 or 4 chances to get his stuff but he didn't come. I know that he was constantly looking for tools on marketplace so I'm wondering if he can kick up a fuss if he sees his stuff for sale. I'm not sure what could happen or if the stuff is legally his. Sorry for this rambling post, I hope someone can help.

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Sparklybanana · 31/07/2026 00:26

I may be wrong but this could be being an involuntary bailee. Its not as simple as just getting rid because you could have to repay the value to him. Please look into this before you do anything with them.

Blondeshavemorefun · 31/07/2026 00:38

PashaMinaMio · 29/07/2026 18:40

There are laws in the UK about disposing of another’s property.

Contact him in writing, email & post, give him a dead line of say 4 weeks and tell him you will dispose of them if he doesn’t collect.

Tell him you consider them to be abandoned.
KEEP copy of whatever you write to him.
Lay the tools out and take photos so you have proof of what you’re storing.

Don’t say you’ll sell in case he comes looking for ££.

This

he has to have notice

AIBU to sell my ex husband's tools after four years?
AIBU to sell my ex husband's tools after four years?
DoYouThinkAbout · 31/07/2026 01:04

I'm in the same situation but 7 years later and his crap is still in the shed and tools taking up cupboard space!

I'llBuyThatForADollar · 31/07/2026 01:10

Sell it and do with the money as you wish! 🙏❤️

caringcarer · 31/07/2026 01:44

Sell them on eBay and charge for postage. He won't know. If he'd wanted them he'd have got them by now. Anything he didn't collect by time divorce through he doesn't want. Make yourself a bit of money.

hcee19 · 31/07/2026 18:51

When it comes to it, tools aren't as valuable as you think. My df had 3 garage loads of tools, l had people just help themselves to what they wanted and then asked colleges if the wanted any, which they did. The rest went into a skip

CombatBarbie · 31/07/2026 18:56

Blondeshavemorefun · 31/07/2026 00:38

This

he has to have notice

Hes had 4 yrs! I think any court would see that as more than reasonable.

Nearly50omg · 31/07/2026 19:08

if he comes back for his tools after you have sold them and kicks up a fuss tell him you will take the £ off the amount he owes you! 4 years is more than enough time to come collect your shit!

Blondeshavemorefun · 31/07/2026 19:57

CombatBarbie · 31/07/2026 18:56

Hes had 4 yrs! I think any court would see that as more than reasonable.

Yes but you need a written paper trail so for easy sake - contact. Inform and if not gone in 4w then happy days and no comeback

sobby · 31/07/2026 20:07

CatsangDogs · 29/07/2026 18:11

Hi sorry that I have probably posted in the wrong bit, I was hoping someone might know and save me another trip to a solicitor. My husband left 4 years ago and when he left he didn't clear out the garage with his tools in. My dilema is that I'm quite short of money and I have had someone take a look at some tools and stuff thats in there and I could sell the stuff for about £750. I asked him when he done a bunk years ago to come and get his stuff, I also messaged my MIL to say the same thing when he first left, I gave him 3 or 4 chances to get his stuff but he didn't come. I know that he was constantly looking for tools on marketplace so I'm wondering if he can kick up a fuss if he sees his stuff for sale. I'm not sure what could happen or if the stuff is legally his. Sorry for this rambling post, I hope someone can help.

He won’t see the. Items for sale if you swipe that you don’t want friends to see your advert . I do it all the time . Not for any other reason than what I sell is private and friends have wanted my items before very cheaply I give most of my stuff to charity but the odd item that’s worth a lot then I will sell .

chubley · 31/07/2026 20:40

My DH has bought loads of tools etc on eBay. Price varies and you can filter to see sold items and how much they fetched. Quality brands of tools especially if made in the UK will be worth more.

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