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Highgate Cemetery

13 replies

Queenovdanorf · 28/07/2026 09:27

I’ve always wanted to visit Highgate Cemetery. I’m in London for work in a couple of weeks and was thinking of taking the afternoon off to visit. However, I recall a few threads on here in the past where people have found it a really strange, unsettling place, and I will be visiting alone. I’m not easily spooked but AIBU?

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DreamingOfGeneHunt · 28/07/2026 09:30

It's beautiful. I went as part of a tour and it was so interesting. Not at all spooky. Some of the stories the guide told us were a bit sad but it's really not spooky.

Willowskyblue · 28/07/2026 09:30

It’s an amazing and really interesting place to visit - go!

BMW58 · 28/07/2026 09:31

It's really interesting and not remotely "spooky"

bunnypenny · 28/07/2026 09:34

Eh? Why would you be unreasonable for wanting to visit Highgate Cemetery?

BauhausOfEliott · 28/07/2026 09:36

It’s an old graveyard. It has all the features you would expect of an old graveyard.

Personally I think it’s absolutely gorgeous and not remotely unsettling. It’s fascinating and atmospheric. I love it. But l love all historic cemeteries.

What do you think is actually going to happen to you?

mynameiscalypso · 28/07/2026 09:38

I went on a walking tour and I was glad that I did - it’s the only way to get into some parts of the cemetery and it’s so much easier to have someone explaining the history and giving the context. I didn’t find it that spooky though.

Madcats · 28/07/2026 09:44

I went with DH a couple of years ago (wet summer afternoon), not terribly clear who was where IYSWIM. I don’t think the guided tour was that much extra to pay. You need to go on a tour to visit the catacombs, which are otherwise locked (I certainly wouldn’t want to be down there by myself, but I have a pigeon phobia!).

Our tour just covered the west cemetary, which was a bit slippery in parts (what with the rain). We were left to explore the east cemetary, which had much better paths.

friedaddedchilli · 28/07/2026 09:51

The most interesting bits are only accessible with a tour, which is well worth doing. They are run by volunteers who often have special interests/connections with the cemetery. But they book up quickly as they have limited numbers. I would highly recommend it if you can get on.

ChimneyPot · 28/07/2026 09:51

I also did the walking tour.
not at all spooky.

Bunnyofhope · 28/07/2026 09:54

Definitely do the tour, then when it is finished explore on your own. I loved it.

Kirys · 28/07/2026 09:56

Beautiful uplifting place. Go to Waterlow Park next door for stunning London skyline views and a great cafe in a Georgian House.

Daleksatemyshed · 28/07/2026 17:05

If you like graveyards you'll love Highgate. It's not a sad or spooky place, there's something very peaceful about it

WhereAreWeNow · 28/07/2026 17:19

Why would it be spooky? I guess if you find graveyards spooky in general then it wouldn't be a good place to visit. But if you're not spooked by graveyards, it's a beautiful place to visit. Waterlow Park next door is lovely too.

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