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Tourists 24/7 365 days a year..

246 replies

IsawwhatIsaw · 27/07/2026 11:03

I have lived in a tourist town for several decades.
And we always had tourists but it felt manageable with a quieter time during the winter.
But now there is no quiet time at all, and I actively avoid the centre as so many coach loads of people arrive daily . It’s so busy it feels oppressive.
So it feels like there is no let up at all. I spoke to a friend in Edinburgh who had a similar story - she is now looking to move out.
Just wondering if other cities experience this?
we are wondering about moving elsewhere, but like where we live.
Is it unreasonable to resent how our City has changed?

OP posts:
Isittimeformynapyet · 27/07/2026 14:09

IsawwhatIsaw · 27/07/2026 12:52

Can’t reply to everyone individually….
But of course I knew it was a tourist city when I moved here. Back then I liked to see people come and visit.
I used to welcome tourists, give directions, occasionally - if they wanted to- recommend places to go.
But we have over tourism now. The place has changed , it’s unpleasant and people don’t seem to have respect - I’ve been pushed into the road recently by a big group.
too many coaches, day trippers not spending much .
i wish we could reduce tourism numbers.

Can’t reply to everyone individually….

I don't think anyone expects you to.

Jenkibuble · 27/07/2026 14:12

IsawwhatIsaw · 27/07/2026 11:03

I have lived in a tourist town for several decades.
And we always had tourists but it felt manageable with a quieter time during the winter.
But now there is no quiet time at all, and I actively avoid the centre as so many coach loads of people arrive daily . It’s so busy it feels oppressive.
So it feels like there is no let up at all. I spoke to a friend in Edinburgh who had a similar story - she is now looking to move out.
Just wondering if other cities experience this?
we are wondering about moving elsewhere, but like where we live.
Is it unreasonable to resent how our City has changed?

When it prices locals out of living where they grew up then it IS a problem. I know in some areas they have caveats on buying property.

WhosGotTheKeysToMyBimma · 27/07/2026 14:13

I live in a tourist area on the coast, but it's not as popular as some areas close by. It does get busy in summer but I like the buzz. If it wasn't for the tourists spending money over the summer a lot more businesses would close. We've lost a children's theme park and a watersports business this year.

I have visited really popular towns in the summer and it's unbearable. I have real sympathy with some of you. You can welcome tourists at the same time as recognition that it's negatively affecting the QOL of people who live there. Once the residents go, it's just a Disney theme park, no soul.

RandomUsernameHere · 27/07/2026 14:17

I think we probably get quite a lot (beautiful cathedral) but it doesn’t bother me and I can’t tell the difference between tourists and local people walking around anyway. Everyone has an equal right to be there and I’m sure the local businesses are glad to have the tourists.

MirandaWest · 27/07/2026 14:18

I live about 2.5 miles south of York. There’s times where York gets full especially near Christmas. And there are a lot of hen and stag dos. But overall I love it here and I don’t find it hard to find somewhere less crowded.

MaturingCheeseball · 27/07/2026 14:22

I don’t think anyone objects to a reasonable number of tourists. Obviously some places are attractive and/or historical and many will understandably want to see them.. But it has become ridiculous and has particularly exploded since the pandemic.

Is it that people have more money? Is it the soaring popularity of cruises? Whereas people used to sit in Benidorm for two weeks now they’re hopping all over Europe and Fjords and beyond.

I went to NY last year after 25 years. Omg it was chronic - and at a low time of year! The Staten Island ferry used to be a hidden gem…no longer. It was rammed with jostling tourists. Pity the poor commuters.

ScotiaLass · 27/07/2026 14:23

MaturingCheeseball · 27/07/2026 14:22

I don’t think anyone objects to a reasonable number of tourists. Obviously some places are attractive and/or historical and many will understandably want to see them.. But it has become ridiculous and has particularly exploded since the pandemic.

Is it that people have more money? Is it the soaring popularity of cruises? Whereas people used to sit in Benidorm for two weeks now they’re hopping all over Europe and Fjords and beyond.

I went to NY last year after 25 years. Omg it was chronic - and at a low time of year! The Staten Island ferry used to be a hidden gem…no longer. It was rammed with jostling tourists. Pity the poor commuters.

I think it's probably a combination of increased number of cruise ships and airbnb accommodation which dramatically increases the number of people who can feasibly visit a place in a day. The latter also makes it more expensive for local people to live in their city driving out young people and making it more of a. tourist attraction than somewhere people live.

chemmie · 27/07/2026 14:28

I went to NY last year after 25 years. Omg it was chronic - and at a low time of year! The Staten Island ferry used to be a hidden gem…no longer. It was rammed with jostling tourists. Pity the poor commuters.

So you’re a tourist complaining about other tourists!

maybethisyear · 27/07/2026 14:30

I feel like this about my city. Not because it’s a tourist centre but because it feels like a crime ridden dump. I’ve only been to the centre once in the last 6 months, possibly longer.
I do however go to the ‘tourist’ areas where the theatres etc are as that at least feels a bit safer.

we all have our crosses to bear

ThreadGuardDog · 27/07/2026 14:32

Midlifecrisis2026 · 27/07/2026 11:09

With so many shops closing on our high streets, I think I’d feel blessed that people are helping your town’s economy so much.

I live in a seaside town in the north west and believe me I don’t feel blessed about the behaviour of many of the tourists we have here. Rude and entitled are on another level much of the time.

MaturingCheeseball · 27/07/2026 14:32

chemmie · 27/07/2026 14:28

I went to NY last year after 25 years. Omg it was chronic - and at a low time of year! The Staten Island ferry used to be a hidden gem…no longer. It was rammed with jostling tourists. Pity the poor commuters.

So you’re a tourist complaining about other tourists!

Yes of course - but I was noting the difference. Not just double the number of visitors - thousands of times more such that the experience becomes really unpleasant.

Pollyanna87 · 27/07/2026 14:42

zurigo · 27/07/2026 11:09

Cambridge has got like this now, Oxford too, Stratford, Edinburgh, York - year-round tourists. It must be unbearable for the people who live in the centre.

I live in York city centre and it’s honestly completely fine. The Christmas market is the only problem.

Pinkchickenwine · 27/07/2026 14:42

SadiraOfTyr · 27/07/2026 12:06

I have never seen any evidence to the contrary. The worst are the ones who have to wear big badges so that they can be easily rounded up by their handlers and ushered back on to their floating petri dish cruise ship.

You think putting a badge on removes their competency?

Not a fan of cruises?

PhaedraTwo · 27/07/2026 14:46

ScotiaLass · 27/07/2026 13:48

Do you not find going about your day to day business frustrating because of the crowds? I commute into Edinburgh for work rather than living there, but I things that annoy me include having to queue for ages to use the toilets at Waverley Station (and not being allowed to use the side entrance which is closer to where my train comes in), struggling to get on the pavements after crossing the road because they're so crowded (particularly bad around Picardy Place), it taking longer to get anywhere due to the crowds so having to factor that into my commuting time, almost getting run over by an out of control oversized wheely case at least once a week - honestly I would ban the things from the city centre because they are worse than e-scooters! I quite enjoy going into the city at the weekend and enjoying the atmosphere when I can move at a slower pace too, but I do find travelling to work really annoying.

No I don't find any of that annoying or frustrating. I live in central Edinburgh.

Tbh a lot of what you're saying sounds very exaggerated. I've never once been run over by an out of control oversized wheely case.

PhaedraTwo · 27/07/2026 14:47

Pollyanna87 · 27/07/2026 14:42

I live in York city centre and it’s honestly completely fine. The Christmas market is the only problem.

The Edinburgh Christmas Market looks bloody awful but it's easy enough to just not go there. It doesn't impact on me at all.

ThatWriterInTheCorner · 27/07/2026 14:48

Midlifecrisis2026 · 27/07/2026 11:09

With so many shops closing on our high streets, I think I’d feel blessed that people are helping your town’s economy so much.

My parents live in a tourist town and they hear this a lot. It's true tourists and visitors do boost the local economy. However, a tourist-heavy economy doesn't make for a good balance. Tourists want to dine out, buy souvenirs and eat ice-creams. If that's all you have on the high street, you end up with lots of shops that are no use to the locals and a surfeit of not-very-well-paid jobs.

Also, tourists need somewhere to stay. That used to be hotels and pubs, but now it's more likely to be AirBNBs. Plus, tourist-related jobs generally don't pay well and the roles are insecure. The accommodation shortage means it's harder for anyone to build a life in the area. After a while the schools, GP surgeries, pharmacies, council offices and banks all become non-viable and the gorgeous, charming destination town or village is completely hollowed out and basically becomes another version of Butlins.

It's not that tourists aren't welcome. But you simply can't build a healthy, stable community if the tourists massively outnumber the residents for the majority of the year.

MyNeedyLilacBird · 27/07/2026 14:48

Used to live in Edinburgh and It was delightful in the early days post pandemic when there was few tourists. It's hit home then the mass problems of over tourism and I agree with the posters who say it causes as many problems as it solves. August as a resident in Edinburgh is horrible and we tried to say the fringe needed scaled back but like most corrupt councils it fell in deaf ears. A lot of these tourists forget that these towns are people's homes and they are trying to live their lives.

Airbandb needs to be banned worldwide in my opinion as it just awful and i side eye these cruise ships and coach loads that come to all these towns- i feel a lot of them don't bring much benefit to the towns they Infest

Barryselection · 27/07/2026 14:49

I live in an incredibly touristy city, I actually see it as a compliment that people want to visit a beautiful city that I can call home. Is it annoying when you are trying to get into town and there are hundreds of tourists blocking your way? Yes. But I figure we are tourists when we are traveling so I don’t let it bother me. I certainly wouldn’t move to another town because of it and when I get home it’s not like they’re outside my house!!

Naunet · 27/07/2026 14:49

I used to live in Windsor so feel your pain. When Diana died, it was hell on earth for weeks!

Sesma · 27/07/2026 14:52

PhaedraTwo · 27/07/2026 14:47

The Edinburgh Christmas Market looks bloody awful but it's easy enough to just not go there. It doesn't impact on me at all.

DS lives in Manchester, quite near where the Christmas market is and it's awful apparently. I think it must be on his route to work

Pollyanna87 · 27/07/2026 14:52

PhaedraTwo · 27/07/2026 14:47

The Edinburgh Christmas Market looks bloody awful but it's easy enough to just not go there. It doesn't impact on me at all.

I should say that York has a massive problem with day drinking visitors on Saturdays etc (largely from the NE), but I wouldn’t regard them as tourists.

Also, I can’t avoid the markets, as they’re too close to where I live.

RhododendronFlowers · 27/07/2026 14:54

IsawwhatIsaw · 27/07/2026 12:52

Can’t reply to everyone individually….
But of course I knew it was a tourist city when I moved here. Back then I liked to see people come and visit.
I used to welcome tourists, give directions, occasionally - if they wanted to- recommend places to go.
But we have over tourism now. The place has changed , it’s unpleasant and people don’t seem to have respect - I’ve been pushed into the road recently by a big group.
too many coaches, day trippers not spending much .
i wish we could reduce tourism numbers.

Where do you live? It won't be "outing", I suspect other people live there too.

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 27/07/2026 14:56

Even my unremarkable market town is snided with visitors. My main bugbear is every single terrace house (sorry, artisans cottage)that comes up for sale becomes a holiday let, pricing locals out.

Flamingojune · 27/07/2026 14:56

IsawwhatIsaw · 27/07/2026 12:52

Can’t reply to everyone individually….
But of course I knew it was a tourist city when I moved here. Back then I liked to see people come and visit.
I used to welcome tourists, give directions, occasionally - if they wanted to- recommend places to go.
But we have over tourism now. The place has changed , it’s unpleasant and people don’t seem to have respect - I’ve been pushed into the road recently by a big group.
too many coaches, day trippers not spending much .
i wish we could reduce tourism numbers.

Or you could wish to live somewhere less beautiful. You can't have it both ways

PhaedraTwo · 27/07/2026 14:56

MyNeedyLilacBird · 27/07/2026 14:48

Used to live in Edinburgh and It was delightful in the early days post pandemic when there was few tourists. It's hit home then the mass problems of over tourism and I agree with the posters who say it causes as many problems as it solves. August as a resident in Edinburgh is horrible and we tried to say the fringe needed scaled back but like most corrupt councils it fell in deaf ears. A lot of these tourists forget that these towns are people's homes and they are trying to live their lives.

Airbandb needs to be banned worldwide in my opinion as it just awful and i side eye these cruise ships and coach loads that come to all these towns- i feel a lot of them don't bring much benefit to the towns they Infest

I've lived in Edinburgh since 1987 and always less than a 10 minute walk from the Usher Hall. I couldn't disagree more what you're saying.

August in Edinburgh is brilliant.