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To feel utterly miserable about a future with Andy Burnham as PM?

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OneWarmHazelQuail · Today 01:23

I feel like I'm being stung in every possible way at the moment- £15 a day on tube to work, high mortgage costs, high energy costs, private schooling for SEN child (I was told state wouldn't be unlikely to assist him as he isn't mute or violent). My parents have had to help fund schooling it felt like my only hope as son has behavioural issues.

I also have an unsold old home that I have to rent out as it wouldn't sell. Buy-to-let mortgage costs, agent fees, maintenance and tax put me in a loss position.

I can't bear what the future holds with Andy Burnham. I have no doubt that he will find new and imaginative ways to keep me in this financial nightmare. I'm literally struggling from food poverty but regarded as rich by policy.

YABU- Andy Burnham is actually going to make things better

YANBU- I'm screwed

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rainingsnoring · Today 06:11

SummerPeonies2026 · Today 06:03

Labour has crashed the economy spectacularly.

There has been a bloodless coup to install a far left Corbynite. It’s no wonder you are so miserable op, every working person will feel like you. The only posters on here celebrating this development will be the freeloaders on benefits.

The silver lining will be that Burnham has no mandate, he does not have the consent of the people, so unless he is utterly flawless and has a master plan to genuinely salvage the country from this carnage he will be out - and we will have a General Election much sooner than anticipated.

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That's total nonsense. Multiple worldwide economies are tailing downwards over the same time period. We are very likely to hit a worldwide recession, made worse by Trump's stupid war on Iran.
People have such short memories of the 14 years or stagnation under the Tories. The reality is that many people have seen their quality of life deteriorate for over 20 years under a mixture of politicians.

nam3c4ang3 · Today 06:13

I mean - it’s still a Labour government - we’re all fucked. Doesn’t matter if it’s KS or this dude.

Redpaisley · Today 06:15

purplepuffa · Today 05:11

You had me until you talked about your buy to let mortgage putting you at a loss.

Unless you are renting your primary home, you have two places and are in a position to eventually own two properties. That's not a loss. Even if you are paying more now, that's going towards your own property.

I can't feel sorry for someone who stands to eventually own two houses.

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Even if you don’t feel sorry for op, we cannot expect magical solutions from Andy Burnham. Labour should have let Starmer finish his term. 2 years are not enough to deliver given the funding deficit and major global issues impacting all countries across the globe. Not sure there was a need to add political instability to the already difficult situation.

SummerPeonies2026 · Today 06:19

Meadowfinch · Today 06:03

When it became clear that Rachel Reeve really was that incompetent, two years ago, I battened down the hatches and limited myself to essential spending only. Saved every penny I could. It was clear the economy would drop and I would need every resource just to survive.

I was right. My employer is halving their work force, mothballing a factory and we are being made redundant in two weeks.

My approach remains the same. Grit your teeth, live on as little as possible, cancel all discretionary spending, and we will be rid of Burnham and Reeve and their wasteful, spite-led politics in 2029. It can't come soon enough.

I understand that Reeves is as ‘conservative’ as they can be in the Labour Party, so the markets were comfortable for her to stay, that’s why she wasn’t removed. If they had replaced her with anyone more left leaning it would have blown up the markets. Our borrowing costs are absolutely sky high as it is.

The problem is Reeves and most of the Labour Party are utterly useless, they have no idea how to stimulate growth, they have no plan whatsoeve and we are stagnating as a country in a pool of talentless, helpless incompetence.

Things will get much worse with Burnham before they get better. I hope we can survive however long that takes, and they don’t bankrupt the country in the meantime. There is already talk of IiMF intervention.

Redpaisley · Today 06:22

rainingsnoring · Today 05:49

You can sell pretty much any home if you price it correctly (cladding issues, etc excluded). If the OP did not want to reduce her asking price, that was her choice. The other problems followed on from this choice.

How do you know she is asking too much? You are making assumptions.

OneNewLeader · Today 06:23

I don’t think one man can reverse what appears to be a nation in decline. I don’t understand how change can happen, but I’d be prepared to listen to someone with a thought through plan. Anyone promising short term gains would worry me..

rainingsnoring · Today 06:24

SummerPeonies2026 · Today 06:19

I understand that Reeves is as ‘conservative’ as they can be in the Labour Party, so the markets were comfortable for her to stay, that’s why she wasn’t removed. If they had replaced her with anyone more left leaning it would have blown up the markets. Our borrowing costs are absolutely sky high as it is.

The problem is Reeves and most of the Labour Party are utterly useless, they have no idea how to stimulate growth, they have no plan whatsoeve and we are stagnating as a country in a pool of talentless, helpless incompetence.

Things will get much worse with Burnham before they get better. I hope we can survive however long that takes, and they don’t bankrupt the country in the meantime. There is already talk of IiMF intervention.

Why do the two of you assume that things will get better once Labour are out of office? Were things good under the Tories?! Do you think Reform will do anything better and, if so, what?! There has been a very long decline in the UK economy. This is not something that has come about in the last 2 years.

Redpaisley · Today 06:25

DeftGoldHedgehog · Today 05:49

What absolute bollocks.

Who do you want as PM, OP? Nigel?

This poster you are quoting is not Op. Op did not say last 2 years were the worst government period in recent times.

rainingsnoring · Today 06:26

Redpaisley · Today 06:22

How do you know she is asking too much? You are making assumptions.

Why do you think the house would not sell? Either there is something seriously wrong with the house or area (unlikely as she is renting it out) or she was unwilling to lower the price enough, which is far more likely. If there was an issue such as cladding, she would likely have mentioned it.

ToffeeCrabApple · Today 06:28

Honestly the country is skint. We all need to pay more tax. All of us. The only way to raise enough is for us all to pay.

1p on the basic rate this year.
1p on the basic rate next year
1p on the basic rate in 2028.

Its honestly the only way to get enough money in.

And stop yakking on about large corporates or the rich paying more.

Large corporates are not responsible for the tax gap. Small businesses amd sole traders are. There arent actually that many rich people and they are already paying a lot.

Mespher · Today 06:28

He is too Manchester focused, he is not for the country, just the middle band he calls the north

Redpaisley · Today 06:29

ExtraOnions · Today 05:51

“ £15 a day on tube to work” - nothing to do with the PM

“high mortgage costs” - you can start with the govt of Thatcher for that, and successive governments failing to build enough homes. Coupled with high immigration, and a financial policy that has encouraged houses as “assets” not “homes”. However, the % cost of your mortgage has to do with multiple factors, many of which are nothing to do with govt. You have a BTL - nobody has forced that on you.

“high energy costs” because our energy companies were sold by the Tories. Andy wants to look at renationalising things, but the takes time. He took out bus network back into private ownership, and that has been a huge success.

“private schooling for SEN child (I was told state wouldn't be unlikely to assist him as he isn't mute or violent). My parents have had to help fund schooling it felt like my only hope as son has behavioural issues”. - your choice, you made an assumption, plenty of children with SEN thrive in State schools.

“I also have an unsold old home that I have to rent out as it wouldn't sell. Buy-to-let mortgage costs, agent fees, maintenance and tax put me in a loss position” You could have sold this at any point, the main reason a house doesn’t sell is because of the price.

Take some ownership of your own decisions, spend a bit of time studying history, find out gear the government can (and can’t) do, and stop expecting systemic problems to be sorted overnight.

So why did your party want Starmer to go if most of the problems were created by Tory and external forces? Why Andy B was needed to replace him?

tttigress · Today 06:29

Imagine a government with Ed Milliband as chancellor!!

Will be interesting to see where the economy is in 12 months.

Redpaisley · Today 06:30

rainingsnoring · Today 06:26

Why do you think the house would not sell? Either there is something seriously wrong with the house or area (unlikely as she is renting it out) or she was unwilling to lower the price enough, which is far more likely. If there was an issue such as cladding, she would likely have mentioned it.

Or the market is such that she would be forced to sell at a loss?

ruffler45 · Today 06:31

Looks like a bloodless coup, 20000+ people vote for an MP, 300+ MPs voted for 1 PM , 1 PM picks a cabinet and shazam a new government,

Did anyone ask 40+ million UK voters what they wanted?

KuanKaKu · Today 06:31

OneWarmHazelQuail · Today 01:23

I feel like I'm being stung in every possible way at the moment- £15 a day on tube to work, high mortgage costs, high energy costs, private schooling for SEN child (I was told state wouldn't be unlikely to assist him as he isn't mute or violent). My parents have had to help fund schooling it felt like my only hope as son has behavioural issues.

I also have an unsold old home that I have to rent out as it wouldn't sell. Buy-to-let mortgage costs, agent fees, maintenance and tax put me in a loss position.

I can't bear what the future holds with Andy Burnham. I have no doubt that he will find new and imaginative ways to keep me in this financial nightmare. I'm literally struggling from food poverty but regarded as rich by policy.

YABU- Andy Burnham is actually going to make things better

YANBU- I'm screwed

I’d say there’s a much better chance he’s a lot more in touch with the average person than anyone who precedes him… hopefully true labour through and through

rainingsnoring · Today 06:32

Redpaisley · Today 06:30

Or the market is such that she would be forced to sell at a loss?

That happens sometimes. There is no guarantee that says everyone will always make a profit. Some people are having to accept losses. If she has been able to buy another house since then, she clearly has a large degree of financial flexibility!

bigboykitty · Today 06:32

redange · Today 01:35

In about 4-8 Weeks we will be asking can we have the previous worst 'Prime Minister' back. Please.... Yet we still have posters on here singing the praises of a Government and Labour Party that have moved the Overton Window and the Country more Left wing then in the previous 50 years ! The 'Blob' which started the cultural Economic and the Societal erosion of the UK with the near destruction of Grammar Schools are nearing their complete victory !

You think we'll be demanding the return of Boris Johnson? He should be in prison.

Sartre · Today 06:33

Well I like Burnham and have a lot of time for him. The man donated part of his salary to the homeless in Manchester for years, he did an awful lot for the Hillsborough families, he’s helped Manchester an awful lot and I think it’ll be great to have a fresh face with a regional accent in charge for once. I find him humble and real, he isn’t poncey and elitist. Always appreciated the fact his kids went to state school too, he isn’t fake humble.

Redpaisley · Today 06:33

malificent7 · Today 05:55

I thpught we were on this mess partly because of Tory austerity...and Brexit?

Yes but still labour wanted Andy B to replace Starmer. Makes no sense.

Comeinsideforacupoftea · Today 06:34

OP your post is so out of touch with the problems that affect the majority of the country that I'm not even sure if it's a windup tbh

AbzMoz · Today 06:36

This is either satire or a stark reminder that financial literacy and basic comprehension is severely lacking in this country…

Two-homes Quail, with her private school educated child (and parents who can help foot the bill), doesn’t like that the choices she has made are expensive and is blaming a man who hasn’t even started the job yet.

Somesuch · Today 06:36

YABVU

You own two homes when many can’t afford one and can afford private edification.Both should be expensive, second home owners stop others from owning one home and private education causes huge inequalities.

I have 3 children with SENs and reserve my concerns for people like us who could never afford private education and those who struggle to afford one home that is their own. Burnham is far more likely to help these groups than anybody else. The Tories/ Reform who caused the SEND crisis and only care about their rich friends definitely won’t.

DreadedInn · Today 06:38

This is a such a silly conversation.
Andy Burnham isn’t going to radically change anything, he’s not some messiah in any way, whether you want left or right reforms.
He is literally just a new leader of the Labour Party.
I voted Labour because their policies align to my opinions about society and looking after the vulnerable.
If your strongest feeling is about individualism you are not going to be better or worse off just because the Labour Party changed its leader. You are going to be constantly pissed off anyway. You are going to spend the next three years frothing about how hard done by you are. That’s individualism for you.
Andy Burnham isn’t not going to be better, or worse for you.

Lugol · Today 06:39

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · Today 05:48

Completely agree that inventives to work hard are being eroded.

I own a big house, it’s my only asset. we sacrificed a lot to be able to get it, I feel like the rules are being changed after we already started playing the game.

what worries me more though are businesses. So much damage done to my high street in the last 2 years

Labour are rapidly kicking the aspiration out of this country one day at a time.