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spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

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Dolphinnoises · 15/07/2026 07:34

That’s brilliant x

Happytaytos · 15/07/2026 07:34

Well done!

PinkHairbrushClub · 15/07/2026 07:34

Fantastic stuff. That’s brilliant.

Noshadowsinthedarkness · 15/07/2026 07:34

That’s awesome OP 🙌

What an incredible achievement!

Nosdacariad · 15/07/2026 07:35

Congratulations🥂🍾 what's your next project? Something you've been putting off maybe? 💐

NinaGeiger · 15/07/2026 07:36

That's really great!

FatLarrysBanned · 15/07/2026 07:36

Absolutely amazing 💐

NoraLuka · 15/07/2026 07:36

Well done, OP !

rhubarbqueen · 15/07/2026 07:37

Fabulous work. Well done 👏

Dontgetstuckinthepast · 15/07/2026 07:38

Aww, that's lovely.

Cactus09 · 15/07/2026 07:38

Can I be proud of you? I feel very happy for you. Don't dwell on the past if you can help it. Live and enjoy yourself NOW.

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:39

Nosdacariad · 15/07/2026 07:35

Congratulations🥂🍾 what's your next project? Something you've been putting off maybe? 💐

To be honest it’s just to carry my confidence forward. I also went out with bare arms for the first time ever yesterday! So it feels like a brilliant 24 hours

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WhosGotTheKeysToMyBimma · 15/07/2026 07:40

Well done, so pleased for you OP.

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:42

Cactus09 · 15/07/2026 07:38

Can I be proud of you? I feel very happy for you. Don't dwell on the past if you can help it. Live and enjoy yourself NOW.

Thank you. I try to see everyday as a gift because I attempted to take my own life at 14, and very nearly attempted again at ages 17 and 23. I’m forever grateful that I failed

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Waheymum · 15/07/2026 07:45

Well done OP, that's brilliant!

ThatshallotBaby · 15/07/2026 08:09

That’s great, you have done so well! Wishing you all the good things x

NotSureNeedSomething · 15/07/2026 08:11

That’s amazing
I hope you continue to have wins and successes, no matter how small, they stack up
💕

MinnieCoops · 15/07/2026 08:11

That’s brilliant. I’m a stranger but I’m proud of you Flowers

NewDogOwner · 15/07/2026 08:54

You sound amazing. Enjoy all your success.

StrangerOnline · 15/07/2026 08:59

Brilliant! Thank you for sharing some positive and happy news on here, very happy for you

lifeturnsonadime · 15/07/2026 09:02

This is amazing OP. Just brilliant. Well done!

Sortingmyself · 15/07/2026 09:03

Aw this is amazing. I'm so made up for you. Bit tearful in fact. Huge well done x

allthiscarryon · 15/07/2026 09:03

spinninginmyhighestheels · 15/07/2026 07:33

I’m overweight. I always have been and likely always will be. I was a size 18 by age 15, and as you can imagine I was picked on mercilessly at school because of it.

From the age of about 12, I couldn’t stand to have a full length mirror in my room. I would cover them up, I covered them up at uni and would refuse to look in them. I hit a high of 26 stone a few years ago and over the last two years I have lost 10 and a half stone to get back down to a size 16-18.

For the first time in my adult life, I feel confident. So much so that I’ve just ordered a mirror. For the first time in 15 years I feel confident enough to look at my own reflection.

I know it sounds stupid, but I wish I could go back 10 years and tell my teenage self that there will be a time where I don’t hate her and don’t want to die.

I’m so proud of myself and the work I’ve done to get here 🥹

Amazing OP!!! You should be proud !

MrSchubertWhiskers · 15/07/2026 09:04

This is amazing and if not weird to say, I feel proud of you! Not simply for the weight loss, which is hard, but just how far you've come with your mental health.

Don't by shy about celebrating 😊

KazWasntEverCool · 15/07/2026 09:05

Congratulations! That’s a lot of weight loss, well done!