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People trying to carry on the drama after a heatwave

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Summerbreezeplease · 12/07/2026 20:40

I know this is probably a stupid thing to get annoyed about but aibu to think it’s ridiculous when people keep trying to carry on after the heatwave is over.

Over the past few weeks we’ve had two mega heatwaves here, well over 30 degrees. I really struggle with the heat myself. I can happily sleep with the bedroom window open all year round and never have more than a 9 tog duvet on as I run hot.

But even when temperatures have dropped to a perfectly reasonable Summer temperature.(it’s 19 degrees here), some of my friends are still complaining how hot it is and that they can’t cope.

Dh is refusing to put the 4 tog duvet back on the bed as we will be too hot apparently and has not only the windows but the front door wide is open.

People are asking if the schools will be back open.

It’s forecast to be 25 degrees tomorrow even during the hottest part of the day.

My friend got annoyed with me when I said it had cooled down, she said it hasn’t. Surely there’s an enormous difference between 34 degrees and 25 degrees?

Aibu to think some people are just trying to carry on the drama?

OP posts:
FFSItsTooHot · Yesterday 02:22

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 12/07/2026 20:50

YANBU. It’s heat. People should just grow some balls and deal with it.

Easy to say if you don't have any medical issues that affect your ability to deal with extreme heat.

Monetsbridge · Yesterday 06:32

DrRylandGrace · 12/07/2026 23:56

You are saying properly installed aircon is only lowering the temperature in the room by 0.5°C? Did you purchase an appropriate unit for the size of the space you are trying to cool? Unless the room is the size of a concert hall and your aircon unit is much too low powered to cool the volume of space in whoch you are using it, or your aircon unit is broken, it is difficult to see how this is possible given the laws of physics.

It’s not installed, it’s a portable one, but yes. I think the room itself is probably slightly cooler than that while it’s on but the thermostat just in the corridor doesn’t change. Standing right in front helps. But impossible at night because I can’t leave windows open on ground floor (small open plan new build flat). And very noisy. The building itself heats up so much and radiates heat back into the room, and its dual aspect South and east with lots of glass and insulated walls. There is lots in the media and how hard it is to cool this type of flat down, and it’s not a joke. It’s really lasts for weeks after the heat wave seems over outside.

Rpop · Yesterday 08:09

Summerbreezeplease · 12/07/2026 20:43

Some of my friends are still saying it’s going to be so hot.

It’s forecast to be 25 tomorrow where I am.

I’m with you.

i hate the humid heat here. Anything over 28-30 and I feel unwell and get hard to shift migraines. I also hate when people say ‘oh you’d complain if it was cold’. No I wouldn’t.

however, it is very different now. Nothing like the past couple of weeks. Plus there’s been more of a breeze where I am. It’s much better.

Rpop · Yesterday 08:09

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 12/07/2026 20:50

YANBU. It’s heat. People should just grow some balls and deal with it.

Sadly growing balls won’t help my migraines.

Anyahyacinth · Yesterday 15:23

DrRylandGrace · 12/07/2026 22:24

The UK is not anywhere close to those places in temperature. It’s not remotely comparable. Human beings cooling mechanisms are overwhelmed at an internal temperature of 40°C. In 50% humidity it would take an adult 4-6 hours of being exposed to a 46°C air temperature constantly for their internal core temperature to reach 40°C and become dangerous when relatively inactive or carrying out normal daily activities. In 38°C air temperature an adult could do 2-3 hours of more active physical activities before this happens. Obviously it they were trying to run a marathon it would happen far faster, in under 60 minutes, without regular breaks to cool and rest/ rehydration, but nobody sane would do that.

Sitting in a house/ flat with an air temperature in the mid-30s isn’t going to kill anybody unless there is extreme humidity approaching 100% or they are very elderly, very sick already or a very small child, and with proper ventilation opening and closing windows at the appropriate times of day/ shielding windows from direct sunlight etc at the appropriate times of day it will be nowhere will be as hot inside as it is outside so even if the outside temp is 35°C in the hottest part of the day that isn’t the case all day and night and it is possible to keep inside significantly cooler with just some common sense.

As I said, a lot of the world would be totally uninhabitable if everyone died as soon as there are daytime air temperatures of 35°C. And OP has said that where she is now they are mid to high 20s! People making a fuss about that as if it is some kind of extreme are being silly.

You'd better tell our Public Health specialists because they disagree with you...that you can dismiss the elderly and already sick (as expendable) says a lot

ConverselyAttired · Yesterday 16:34

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 12/07/2026 21:39

Crikey. You were like this on the dentist thread too yesterday.

"The more I repeat myself, the right-er I am!" in action.

21ZIGGY · Yesterday 19:57

DrRylandGrace · 12/07/2026 21:16

But why? These are very nice, pleasant, mild summer temperatures. In many countries in Europe such temperatures are very frequently from April to late Sept/ early Oct. I really don’t understand what the fuss us about?

Ok. So you don't understand what the fuss is about, but I understand what my fuss is about.So why does it bother you?

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