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AIBU to wonder if anti-English feeling is mostly about sport

426 replies

Batsratscatsgnats · Yesterday 22:46

If you support anyone but England in football or other sports do you dislike English people generally or is it just in sports?

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Housesellinghell · Today 11:38

Not English but live in London and generally like English people on a 1:1 level.

But I think football brings out the absolute worst side of the English, there’s an arrogance and entitlement that seems to come out of hiding.

I remember some tournament a few years ago when England made the final and lost. We were out watching it with friends and when the game finished there was a real sense that things were going to kick off in the pub and on the streets. This was in a posh part of London. In my country we would have been heartbroken but good sports about it.

JHound · Today 11:39

JudgeJ · Today 11:35

It was more to do with a South American VAR team rather than the fans' shenanigans, that's expected everywhere. FIFA need to look at the breakdown of the officials for every match.

I was making a joke about the fans letting off fireworks at different hotels trying to disrupt the England player’s sleep!

IcedPurple · Today 11:40

JudgeJ · Today 11:35

It was more to do with a South American VAR team rather than the fans' shenanigans, that's expected everywhere. FIFA need to look at the breakdown of the officials for every match.

It's 'expected' for fans to set off fireworks and blast car horns all night outside the visiting team's hotel, as the Mexican fans did?

JHound · Today 11:41

chocoluv · Today 11:11

The English have a very bad name in other countries because many act like twats on holiday.

It’s unfortunate because I’m English and don’t act like that but when enough people act like it, then some people are going to get a coloured view.

There is obviously also a lot of historical context about how the English treated people too.

England sports fans are notorious for being idiots, again it’s not everyone but they’re usually the loudest and most aggressive so it makes it seem like we’re all like that when we’re not.

I find the “some act badly so I will generalise them all” attitude rather bemusing. Especially given how inconsistently it’s applied / justified. (And I include English people who engage in this kind of thing too.)

JHound · Today 11:43

TrixieFatell · Today 11:12

My family are Scots. I do supprt England in the majority of things but not football. This is based on my experiences around fans etc and their attitudes and behaviours.

Might be pathetic to some but I think the hatred towards Germany by English fans is even more pathetic 🤷

It’s the same thing.

JontyGentooey · Today 11:47

Feetballislife · Today 11:29

No, no more than I would think that’s ok with English colleagues either FFS
Thanks for helping prove my points though 🤫

Are you aware you're massively contradicting yourself? 🤣🤣🤣

Do you think vocally resenting a whole nationality in 2026 for historic crimes is acceptable, or not?

JHound · Today 11:48

Ponoka7 · Today 11:18

Liverpool gets it. We were the black sheep of the Country. People I'd meet from down south just didn't get that were they lived had jobs and we didn't was because we were stripped of everything. As for Churchill, he turned the gun boats on Liverpool because the men just wanted a decent wage. It's really disappointing how the 'fly the flag' lot has dragged us down. If it wasn't for Scotland we wouldn't have had a Liverpool football team.
A film I'd recommend is, The Nightingale 2018, set in Van Diemen's land.
Is there hatred from the DR Congo towards Belgium?

I would assume there is. Not exactly the same but all my African friends from former French colonies are not too fond of France. At all. But they also would never live in France while constantly whining about French colonial history.

JHound · Today 11:53

Ponoka7 · Today 11:21

@PhaedraTwo I'm part Lakota Sioux, tbf, the first nation people didn't live in peace, getting along. Unfortunately it's human nature to care more about your immediate family than those you are taking from, especially when nothing has ever been given to you.

So that applies to England’s history with Scotland too….

DontBuyAnotherBook · Today 11:54

RigsbysCat · Today 11:26

Champagne still chilling for when they do finally crash out.

You can't even admit that was a great win. I have seen fans of other countries who have said well done. We were underdogs.

Bohema · Today 11:54

NeverTalksToStrangers2 · Today 01:27

The British (mostly English) army's role in the troubles wasn't that long ago though, was it?

I have nothing against most English people but I'll never be happy being part of the UK or support them in sports.

Living in NI we were ousted from the EU because of the English. We didn't vote for it. And we are essentially under the control of a government we can't vote for.

Still 44% of you voted leave so it is hardly as if all of NI was against it

JHound · Today 11:56

BlackRowan · Today 11:33

Of course there is.

there were even memes that Belgian goalkeeper shoulf only be allowed to play using one hand only

I feel very bad for laughing at that.

Bohema · Today 11:59

CountryCob · Today 08:54

How ill informed. I think you need to read up on your history. Some cooperation does not excuse or minimise colonial behaviour.

Help is understand then or post a link. You had me use Chatgpt to try and get the facts but if wrong I am genuinely interested to know. ““After the 1707 Union, the empire was the British Empire, and Scots were not merely bystanders or victims of it. Scottish merchants, soldiers, administrators, settlers, missionaries, investors, and slave-traders were heavily involved across the empire, including in the Caribbean, North America, India, and Africa. England was obviously central and larger, but historians generally describe this as British imperialism because Scots participated in, profited from, and helped administer it too.”

MrsPapillon · Today 11:59

I saw a poll last week that said British people were among the most generous in the world and most likely to help someone from another country. But conversely when asked which nation would you be least likely to offer help to, the whole world said Britain.

ClearFruit · Today 12:01

RigsbysCat · Today 00:52

Good for you, but you'd be considered traitorous and seriously weird among my friends and family. I don't identify as British and do not choose to be a part of the UK.

Not my "brethren" either.

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Leave then, surely?

LuckyHazelFox · Today 12:04

ClearFruit · Today 12:01

Leave then, surely?

She's gone back to Scotland. I was cheering on Scotland and wasn't "putting the champagne on ice" in anticipation of their world cup exit. Then again, I'm not a glass half empty kind of woman. You make your own luck and England did that last night. What a team.

JontyGentooey · Today 12:08

RigsbysCat · Today 00:08

Embarrassing to whom? And "knuckle- draggers" is pushing it a bit. My entire family and friendship group enjoy supporting anyone playing England at any football match and are almost all university educated. It's good fun and harming no one. Why exactly should I support England?

The coverage of English football is just insufferable. We take bets as to how far into any match it takes for 1966 to be mentioned.

I also blame the English for Brexit. 78% in my part of Edinburgh voted remain and yet we were still landed with that whole shitshow.

There is also a sort of entitled English tourist anyone living in rural Scotland will easily recognise.

I lived in Kent for 6 years some time ago and barely a day passed when some fucker didn't think it was "hilarious" to take the piss out of my accent. Proud to be Scottish and delighted to return here.
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Wales also had a majority Leave vote, fyi.

Sorry if that doesn't fit in nicely with your anti English narrative.

JHound · Today 12:08

Bohema · Today 11:59

Help is understand then or post a link. You had me use Chatgpt to try and get the facts but if wrong I am genuinely interested to know. ““After the 1707 Union, the empire was the British Empire, and Scots were not merely bystanders or victims of it. Scottish merchants, soldiers, administrators, settlers, missionaries, investors, and slave-traders were heavily involved across the empire, including in the Caribbean, North America, India, and Africa. England was obviously central and larger, but historians generally describe this as British imperialism because Scots participated in, profited from, and helped administer it too.”

A lot of Scottish people loathe being reminded they were enthusiastic participants in Empire. Conducting the same oppression they were subjected to.

CountryCob · Today 12:08

Bohema · Today 11:59

Help is understand then or post a link. You had me use Chatgpt to try and get the facts but if wrong I am genuinely interested to know. ““After the 1707 Union, the empire was the British Empire, and Scots were not merely bystanders or victims of it. Scottish merchants, soldiers, administrators, settlers, missionaries, investors, and slave-traders were heavily involved across the empire, including in the Caribbean, North America, India, and Africa. England was obviously central and larger, but historians generally describe this as British imperialism because Scots participated in, profited from, and helped administer it too.”

I was responding to the cooperation comment which referred to "some Irish cooperation". Which is why cooperation was referred to in my comment. It wasn't a comment about England/ Britain/ Scotland. The issue I had was how it misrepresented and minimised colonial behaviour.

CountryCob · Today 12:12

PhaedraTwo · Today 09:24

I can't speak for the Welsh involvement but the Scottish involvement was considerably more than "some co-operation"

Again, its the the Irish comment that was problematic.

IcedPurple · Today 12:13

JHound · Today 12:08

A lot of Scottish people loathe being reminded they were enthusiastic participants in Empire. Conducting the same oppression they were subjected to.

"Rule Britannia" was written by a Scotsman.

Swiftie1878 · Today 12:14

Batsratscatsgnats · Yesterday 23:11

What does this mean though? I am one of the English and an Engliah person although I mostly identify as a Londoner, so people from elsewhere in England also have a problem with 'Londoners'

Yes, they do.

SusanChurchouse · Today 12:19

JHound · Today 12:08

A lot of Scottish people loathe being reminded they were enthusiastic participants in Empire. Conducting the same oppression they were subjected to.

It was acknowledged in the Scottish Parliament recently to the absolute horror of the Torygraph! https://www.telegraph.co.uk/royal-family/2026/06/28/king-made-to-sit-through-anti-british-play-at-parliament/

I’m Scottish, married to an Englishman. I’ll happily support England playing pretty much any other sport, and even women’s football but can’t bring myself to cheer on the England National Men’s Team. They’re my footballing rivals (and there hasn’t always been a massive gap in their respective quality as there clearly is now). I wouldn’t expect an Everton fan to cheer on Liverpool in a final just because they’re nearby.

The current team aren’t so bad mind you. I have a real soft spot for Marcus Rashford.

Differentforgirls · Today 12:19

DontBuyAnotherBook · Today 11:54

You can't even admit that was a great win. I have seen fans of other countries who have said well done. We were underdogs.

That post was in response to another poster saying we're all shite except England.

IcedPurple · Today 12:19

RigsbysCat · Today 11:26

Champagne still chilling for when they do finally crash out.

I mean, knock yourself out.

But even if England 'crash out' in their next match, they will still have reached the last 8, which is a respectable achievement. Unlike the mighty Brazil or Germany who have already 'crashed out'.

nwatty · Today 12:23

As an English person living in Scotland and someone who was badly bullied because of my accent, 25 years later I truly believe it is to do with sports and will happily admit that when the world cup is on for example it is constant harping back to 1966, regardless of what match is being shown. It is embarassing. I would also say, having been away on trips with the tartan army with my husband and son, the English fans are embarrassing and rarely cover themselves in glory. Scotland trips are always great fun, very very rarely any bother and songs etc are sung in good taste. This, I believe cannot be said of England fans. I will also say that I know plenty of English people who would not support Scotland

Of course, there is an element of Scots who are inherently anti-English and this ties in somewhat with the independence movement. Again, I do think Scotland over the years have been treated poorly by Westminster and this sticks and is a hard sentiment to shift.