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How do you KNOW….?

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hiddeneverythin · 05/07/2026 22:34

(Light hearted) AIBU to ask how you know whether you need HRT, a divorce or both?! Or maybe some moujarno or thyroid tablets. Or several months retreat? What is the starting point, or do you just go for them all?!

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roycroppersshopper · 05/07/2026 22:38

Had everything except the HRT. I recommend, go for it!

arethereanyleftatall · 05/07/2026 22:40

Well I guess just do them in the right order. Try the retreat first (assuming logistically/financually possible since you listed it), then divorce… 😜

LongGinShortTonic · 05/07/2026 22:40

Re the divorce…when you post on MN asking if you should get a divorce.

hiddeneverythin · 05/07/2026 22:46

@LongGinShortTonicfair point 😂

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hiddeneverythin · 05/07/2026 22:48

@arethereanyleftatall but then there is lots of time to relax/retreat post divorce and would be better to save the pennies for a new house?!

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arethereanyleftatall · 05/07/2026 22:54

hiddeneverythin · 05/07/2026 22:48

@arethereanyleftatall but then there is lots of time to relax/retreat post divorce and would be better to save the pennies for a new house?!

But it’s a split cost pre-divorce…

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 05/07/2026 22:57

In the interests of science, I suggest starting them all simultaneously tomorrow.

Do post and let us know how you get on!

😁

hiddeneverythin · 05/07/2026 23:18

@JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff this is the best idea EVER! Sadly one of the reasons I need any or all of these things is that I have no TIME ever to get anything done but I will start the ball rolling on my next day off……. So, everything all at once….while on retreat 😍

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hiddeneverythin · 05/07/2026 23:19

@arethereanyleftatalltrue but less relaxing as still have all the crap to put up with after it. I like your thinking though….!

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