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AIBU to feel helpless about a large asylum camp in our village?

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putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 16:15

My village has been chosen for a 1500 open asylum camp for single men. It will be an open camp (as the men haven't done anything wrong so aren't detained.)

The thing is the village only has 700 people and it is pretty isolated. it's about 10 miles to the nearest city and you can walk to another small village. There is a playpark, a pub and a primary school.

It has to go through planning, but the government have changed the planning laws so that they grant themselves planning and you can't see it as it is deemed sensitive. So they will just grant themselves planning and you can't oppose it without a judicial review--by which time it will probably be already open.

They want to reduce the number of people in hotels. But am AIBU to think that this puts the burden of sorting these issues out on one tiny community? Feels like we are collateral damage to be honest. The community will be outnumbered 2 to 1 and it feels too much. There is nothing for them to do or places to go. Also the fact that it is all single men put in one massive place with no money or means or anything to do is going to lead to problems

Apparently the camps cost £10 less a night than the hotels. But they don't count the set up costs which are astronomical (the one in Essex was £47 million to set up). So it seems like it's not not even cheaper than the problem it is trying to solve but much more expensive.

AIBU to feel a bit helpless? It seems so unfair but there is nothing I can do. We wouldn't be able to move from the village anyway as no one would buy a house here.

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EasternStandard · 29/06/2026 18:01

Goldenbear · 29/06/2026 17:53

If it's where I'm thinking, it's near a very liberal and wealthy town where presumably the men will frequent as it isn't that far away. I mean I'd don't really understand why that's an issue. People are people. People in the nearest City are no different to your well healed town near to your village or indeed, the people in the village.

Would you welcome similar near you?

suburburban · 29/06/2026 18:01

Beamsss · 29/06/2026 17:56

Why? Far more women are harmed by British men than by assylum seeking men, but no one's rioting (or making petitions) over that.

So why do we want even more people here who could do us harm

Lemonraider · 29/06/2026 18:02

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The usual nasty stereotyping from the inclusive.

Marieb19 · 29/06/2026 18:03

Dispite a few flag waving supporters the vast majority don't want asylum hotels or camps anywhere near them for obvious reasons. Asylum and migration systems are broken and grotesquely exploited. The vast majority are here for a better life, not asylum and are in no more danger than anyone else living in their home country. They are exploiting poorly drafted legislation which us no longer fit for purpose and cowardly politicians who won't tackle it. There are over two Billion people in the countries we won't repatriation or deport to.

putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 18:03

Negroany · 29/06/2026 17:46

Are they definitely all men?

I'm in a bigger village, but still a village, and we had a hotel housing asylum seekers until last week. The local Facebook page was raging when it came. Going on about them all being men, we were all going to be raped. And anyone who said anything positive about would be "hopefully the first to be raped or murdered" etc.

That was about four years ago I think. I barely saw a man from there. Heard nothing about increased crime. No rapes that I'm aware of. I saw people from there walking in the village but they were predominantly women with children. Also, all the "these guys broke into my house, does anyone recognise them from the security camera footage" posts, continued to be very much NOT asylum seekers.

It definitely is all men. I think i would feel differently if it was mixed/families. Although I still think the scale is too much for a small community.

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BaliByName · 29/06/2026 18:03

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/06/2026 16:38

I agree but I think it’s interesting that people in general (including British men) only acknowledge that men are a danger as a class when it comes to asylum seekers.

We know it’s true of men as a class in general but it gets swept under the carpet otherwise.

What is getting swept underneath the carpet is all the rapes, assaults and murders these illegal immigrants are doing

ButtercupYellow26 · 29/06/2026 18:04

ExtraOnions · 29/06/2026 16:18

People don’t want them in Hotels or HMOs, so where are they supposed to go?

The govt are reusing ex-military bases, as I assume this is the cheapest option.

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Back to where they came from. Or France.

Lemonraider · 29/06/2026 18:05

suburburban · 29/06/2026 18:01

So why do we want even more people here who could do us harm

Equal opportunity in Britain for the world's rapists.

There's a surprisingly large number of British people that consider women and children providing opportunities for rape for illegal immigrants is a necessity.

putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 18:05

frazzled1 · 29/06/2026 17:52

I'd be worried about this OP (teenage DDs).

I asked ChatGPT for an email to your MP, got the following:

“I understand that the proposed accommodation of an all-male cohort may be mandated or directed through central government policy, with limited local discretion. However, I would like clarification on what Equality Impact Assessment, safeguarding assessment, and community impact assessment have been undertaken in relation to its local implementation.

In particular, I am concerned about how any potential impacts on women and girls’ perceived and actual safety in the local area have been considered, including pedestrian routes to school, public spaces, and general community use.

I would be grateful for details of what mitigation measures, supervision arrangements, and community safety provisions have been put in place locally, and how these have been assessed as sufficient to address any identified risks.”

That's really good. Thankyou :)

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ISnoggedYourMum · 29/06/2026 18:06

Men are dangerous. Some men are violent at higher per capita rates than others.

Grammarnut · 29/06/2026 18:06

Sigh. Everyone seems to moan about how difficult planning is and then they discover what happens when the government relaxes planning laws to allow the development the government (or their friends) want to build.
But you are not being unreasonable. What an utterly stupid thing to do, to settle 1500 young, single men in a small village, where is nothing to do. It will cause manifold problems.

MsGreying · 29/06/2026 18:07

They're economic migrants with clever gangs who make money to get them here and give them all.the information they need to stay.

We actively have organisations using our legal aid to keep them.here.

Goldenbear · 29/06/2026 18:08

EasternStandard · 29/06/2026 18:01

Would you welcome similar near you?

There is similar near me.

ISnoggedYourMum · 29/06/2026 18:08

Goldenbear · 29/06/2026 18:08

There is similar near me.

Are you the person who says "oh but me and my DD have never had an issue".

putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 18:09

Goldenbear · 29/06/2026 17:56

But it's a village near a town that is very liberal, I would imagine most men will frequent this town not being stuck in the village.

I think they probably will go to the town (if you are thinking about the right place) but it is ten miles away and there is 1500 of them so I don't think they'll all be able to go every day. I don't think being ten miles away from a nice city negates the issues with the village

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BoredZelda · 29/06/2026 18:09

ExtraOnions · 29/06/2026 16:18

People don’t want them in Hotels or HMOs, so where are they supposed to go?

The govt are reusing ex-military bases, as I assume this is the cheapest option.

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I doubt when all the sums are done that it will be the cheapest option. It is the popular option though, cos it’s not “5* hotels” innit.

nellly · 29/06/2026 18:09

LumpyandBumps · 29/06/2026 16:37

Whilst I agree that it all being men seems a worry, the premises was previously used by the RAF, so mostly men, and it’s harder to argue against.
I am fairly local and am concerned, but it’s hard to object just because they are men. There may be an argument that the previous male occupants were highly trained and disciplined professionals I suppose.

Yes and had homes and lives to go to and focus on. Visits to parents/wives/kids etc

it’s madness to put so many men in one place with nothing to do, as a former prison worker I promise it’s a bad idea. Humans need a focus and a purpose not to be dumped out in the middle of nowhere indefinitely .

we have a hotel on the outskirts of our city, it’s been no bother, the men have access to wide ranging facilities and at 270 ish are tiny fraction of the local population meaning more options to integrate into charities and groups and programmes etc

it’s not racist or anti asylum seeker to say this is a bad option!

Goldenbear · 29/06/2026 18:10

putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 18:09

I think they probably will go to the town (if you are thinking about the right place) but it is ten miles away and there is 1500 of them so I don't think they'll all be able to go every day. I don't think being ten miles away from a nice city negates the issues with the village

Actually, I don't know if I have the right place as I'm thinking of a village near a wealthy, liberal town and then a City further away.

Grammarnut · 29/06/2026 18:10

BaliByName · 29/06/2026 18:03

What is getting swept underneath the carpet is all the rapes, assaults and murders these illegal immigrants are doing

We don't know this. We only hear of immigrant rapes etc. How many ordinary British men are committing rape and it's so normal now it hardly gets mentioned - like the DH who drugged his wife, raped her and filmed other men raping her? How many of those rapes are going on and the women are unaware?
To get an idea of whether immigrant young men are more likely to rape one needs to have % of offending against numbers.
Not that I agree with all these asylum seekers being put in small village - it's a bad idea.

Goldenbear · 29/06/2026 18:10

ISnoggedYourMum · 29/06/2026 18:08

Are you the person who says "oh but me and my DD have never had an issue".

No

putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 18:11

Goldenbear · 29/06/2026 18:10

Actually, I don't know if I have the right place as I'm thinking of a village near a wealthy, liberal town and then a City further away.

wrong place then!

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EasternStandard · 29/06/2026 18:11

BoredZelda · 29/06/2026 18:09

I doubt when all the sums are done that it will be the cheapest option. It is the popular option though, cos it’s not “5* hotels” innit.

It’s not popular. Most people agree with the op.

Goldenbear · 29/06/2026 18:12

putupwhatever · 29/06/2026 18:11

wrong place then!

Yes, sounds like it.

ISnoggedYourMum · 29/06/2026 18:13

Grammarnut · 29/06/2026 18:10

We don't know this. We only hear of immigrant rapes etc. How many ordinary British men are committing rape and it's so normal now it hardly gets mentioned - like the DH who drugged his wife, raped her and filmed other men raping her? How many of those rapes are going on and the women are unaware?
To get an idea of whether immigrant young men are more likely to rape one needs to have % of offending against numbers.
Not that I agree with all these asylum seekers being put in small village - it's a bad idea.

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No need to import more in if we have people bad enough here

JoaNiic · 29/06/2026 18:15

It’s abominable, I’m so so so sorry. I hope they send them away soon. It’s such an infringement. Truly awful.

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