This is the first comment I came across that resonated with my thoughts on the issue. Especially when I saw another that said we're all working class now. Erm, no we're not.
I live in what people would call a working class area, it's a town that grew up around a specific industry, with housing stock that was built for those workers and where many people still work (though not as many as in its heyday). High levels of unemployment, low levels of education, high levels of poverty, we feature on WIMD lists. Our catchment high school is not popular and it's not an area that people want to move to, people are snooty about it in general.
I live in Wales so we have a different curriculum and our primary has done amazing things as a community focused school to build positive relationships with families. It's been a long process and it takes time to build trust with parents (and grandparents) who had negative experiences in their own education and are often not fond of people they see as being in power.
Huge impact is made in primary at getting children into nursery at 3 who are way below expected levels in all areas to getting the majority to at expected or above by the end of year 6. We have many with ALN but outside of that cohort, many children come to nursery and reception with lower than average speech and language development, they're not read to at home.
I had a pretty lower middle class upbringing, was the first of my cousins and siblings to go to university, my parents didn't go to uni. My husband had a working class upbringing in a council house with free school meals and many siblings. Sport made the difference to him, positive male role models and peers who had ambitions and instilled a competitiveness around academic achievement as well as on the sports field.
Our own kids straddle two worlds really but I see their friends, I'm a school governor, I run a local charity, volunteer at our community centre, talk with our neighbours etc. The ambition is missing at home. They leave primary buzzing with ideas and big dreams and then high school sucks it out of them.
But even if they choose uni (why? how? it's too expensive and it doesn't guarantee a job at the end, these are young people from backgrounds who don't want debt, for whom the amount of debt accrued seems unfathomable), there are more barriers. I visited open days with my son this year and we were asking about industry placements and years in industry as part of courses and the red bricks, the Russell Group unis, just kind of shrugged and went "yeah, you make your own connections". Oh right, so that girl in the video about how successful she's been and the industry placement she did as part of that is actually the daughter of some big head honcho at Coutts?! Got it. Money begets money. It's still very much a who-you-know world out there and that gets really bloody deflating.
I know plenty of lovely working class teenage boys who are bright, polite and have lovely families and they're drawn to vocational courses and careers because they work with their dads or their uncles on the weekend, the only way that they can get weekend work is through people they know and the people they know work with cars or scaffolding. They need to earn money because their parents don't have spare to give them. They want to get a trade as it's a route to success that's in their control. And they know they don't need decent A levels to get into those roles.
Alternative routes aren't being modelled to them.