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White working class children

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NotAnotherScarf · 29/06/2026 08:27

The bbc has a report about a review of the academic system failing white working class children. The bulk of the population.

It's brilliant that this has been looked at but the recommendations are appalling.

Basically its saying that wcc's are only fit for manual jobs. That schools should push towards offering for vocational courses.

That's where my education went 40 years ago. One child from my year group of 242 went to university at 18. We had at most 6 kids from non white backgrounds. Many went subsequently. I have always maintained the school saw us as shop assistants, factory hands and dockers.

The other recommendations will help children of all races...free travel under 22. Promoting reading etc.

One of the reasons why kids from other backgrounds are doing better has been the push to get them into university...ie black boys being actively recruited and bursarys being given solely to them. Places sponsored etc etc.

Whilst I welcome the move to vocational training. And for many people thats a brilliant move, ts disappointing that the report thinks that that's the main option for wcc's. Basically its says "we don't think your good enough for anything else " .

BBC News - White working-class children 'failed by schools system' - BBC News
www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cq51j10q601o

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Jane379 · 29/06/2026 18:34

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 18:20

Ugh let’s fall into us v them.

you cannot hold up a few disgusting individuals and say it’s so many. It simply isn’t and to insinuate otherwise is pretty racist

No, it's not racist.

There clearly WERE huge problems in the Pakistani community in Rotherham-most prominently among the men, but probably among the women too.

By your logic, it would have been racist to say in 1960s South US that there were huge problems with Southern white attitudes to black people.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 29/06/2026 18:35

JLou08 · 29/06/2026 18:33

This has been an issue for years, even 30 years ago when I was at school. I'm glad it's recognised now because I really believe this is what led to so much racism and far right views. We all know the stereotypical person involved in it is a white working class man. They've seen all the talk of BAME groups being disadvantaged and seen them get extra support when they see themselves that they are also disadvantaged but it was completely ignored, well not just ignored, it was actively denied.
I think more vocational courses is actually a positive. Some people do amazingly well in vocations, it's not lesser than academics. I've got a degree but most trades people are far out earning me.

Nah, the racism was there first. 30 years ago you'd have thankfully missed the National Front of the 1970s and 80s - and they learned it from the racists of the 50s and 60s.

Jane379 · 29/06/2026 18:36

JLou08 · 29/06/2026 18:33

This has been an issue for years, even 30 years ago when I was at school. I'm glad it's recognised now because I really believe this is what led to so much racism and far right views. We all know the stereotypical person involved in it is a white working class man. They've seen all the talk of BAME groups being disadvantaged and seen them get extra support when they see themselves that they are also disadvantaged but it was completely ignored, well not just ignored, it was actively denied.
I think more vocational courses is actually a positive. Some people do amazingly well in vocations, it's not lesser than academics. I've got a degree but most trades people are far out earning me.

when they see themselves that they are also disadvantaged but it was completely ignored, well not just ignored, it was actively denied.

  • this isn't fully true though. There is financial support available, contextual offers etc for people of all lower economic backgrounds, including white boys. But yes, the problems of white wc boys were not specifically addressed and that nuch change. Also working class white girls.
ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 18:37

TeenLifeMum · 29/06/2026 17:55

Okay but I’m telling you that in 2012 it was accurate. The fact you don’t want to accept that doesn’t make it less true.

No valid study is going to conclude that "white parents from certain backgrounds don't value education". I mean that is ludicrous. It's not even measurable.

Machinemasoluem · 29/06/2026 18:37

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 29/06/2026 18:32

I don’t doubt that people of all races face racism is specific places and circumstances.

That’s what they said during the aftermath of George Floyd, it was considered racist to say all lives matter or to mention white people who’d been killed by police.

But when it’s about grooming gangs as one example where victims are mainly white and perpetrators non white the same people are quick to obfuscate with stuff about how anyone can be a rapist

JLou08 · 29/06/2026 18:41

TeenLifeMum · 29/06/2026 09:03

I worked on a project in my county about 12 years ago called narrowing the gap and it was based around white working class boys. The biggest issue that separates them from other ethnic groups is the fact their parents do not value education and the work ethic is very lacking. Not encouraging homework, not backing school discipline etc. It has a huge impact and I’m not sure schools can fix it. There are groups of parents in society who cannot imagine their dc achieving and would be unhappy if their dc did better than them (eg went to uni). I’ve seen it.

The same used to be said about black boys. It's still said that the crime rates are linked to more black children growing up without father's. It didn't stop society trying to fix it.

TeenLifeMum · 29/06/2026 18:46

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 18:37

No valid study is going to conclude that "white parents from certain backgrounds don't value education". I mean that is ludicrous. It's not even measurable.

and yet it did. Big traveller community is part of that picture but not all. We have one of the lowest average reading ages for adults in the country. There are a lot of white, traditional working class families who hated school and put those views on their dc - tell dc not to bother with homework, don’t back teachers. I’m talking about the families who demand school don’t confiscate their 13yo’s vape because it undermines their parenting choice and they’re fine with them having one (actual thing that happened).

you can deny stereotypes all you like but evidence exists that there are patterns. Not all but most.

Honeyhonay · 29/06/2026 18:47

So many of these suggestions don’t address why it’s boys and not girls though, so ultimately it must be down to parenting because societal view and norms start at home.
The structure and formality of schooling hasn’t actually changed all that much since the time when boys outperformed girls.

ClarkeandNewman · 29/06/2026 18:48

TeenLifeMum · 29/06/2026 18:46

and yet it did. Big traveller community is part of that picture but not all. We have one of the lowest average reading ages for adults in the country. There are a lot of white, traditional working class families who hated school and put those views on their dc - tell dc not to bother with homework, don’t back teachers. I’m talking about the families who demand school don’t confiscate their 13yo’s vape because it undermines their parenting choice and they’re fine with them having one (actual thing that happened).

you can deny stereotypes all you like but evidence exists that there are patterns. Not all but most.

I mean there's zero chance that it did but ok, have it your way.

Backedoffhackedoff · 29/06/2026 18:50

TeenLifeMum · 29/06/2026 18:46

and yet it did. Big traveller community is part of that picture but not all. We have one of the lowest average reading ages for adults in the country. There are a lot of white, traditional working class families who hated school and put those views on their dc - tell dc not to bother with homework, don’t back teachers. I’m talking about the families who demand school don’t confiscate their 13yo’s vape because it undermines their parenting choice and they’re fine with them having one (actual thing that happened).

you can deny stereotypes all you like but evidence exists that there are patterns. Not all but most.

why don’t you just link us to the outcomes so we can see for ourselves?

Jane379 · 29/06/2026 18:53

JLou08 · 29/06/2026 18:41

The same used to be said about black boys. It's still said that the crime rates are linked to more black children growing up without father's. It didn't stop society trying to fix it.

Probably black boys in those situations are more likely to be Carribbean. Funding has helped esp boys in London, but as pp said, improvement is also due to higher achieving boys from arriving African immigrant families. I'm not sure how much father absence and educational underachievement have improved among working class Carribean boys, though definitely somewhat.

Carribean boys also have a gender gap- girls tend to do better. Why? I do think boys' peer culture can be part of the issue maybe?- without strong parental reinforcement maybe boys are more likely to disengage. Also if father is absent or not very involved, there's less modelling even if mother tries very hard. Moreover, working class boys may see trades or other options as ways to make money without academics, whereas girls have less of that.

thestudio · 29/06/2026 18:55

SheMon · 29/06/2026 14:13

The victims of rape gangs? If non-white person abuses someone simply for being white?

That's not racism - they don't choose the girls because they want to punish white people, they choose the girls because they are vulnerable and unprotected and it's easy.

Leopardprintbikini · 29/06/2026 18:56

wishingonastar101 · 29/06/2026 08:55

But we do need skilled, manual workers in this country.

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Jane379 · 29/06/2026 18:56

Grammarnut · 29/06/2026 13:56

This so annoys me. I have just read an article praising the V and A's East London branch for being tilted to encouraging local DC by basing the exhibitions around current culture among the young (read w/c and some diverse groups unspecified as target groups). Which means giving them things they already know about and like but not introducing in material that they might be interested in and probably should be interested in if their schools were not so 'relevant' to the local culture. Dumbing down for the hoi polloi, basically. I have heard these arguments over and over again: Shakespeare isn't relevant, they don't know what the words mean in (add text of choice) so we can't use it/teach it, we don't do classical music because the children are not interested...It infuriates me, a working class woman whose school (and actually also parents) introduced me to and encouraged me (and my brothers) to be interested in what apparently is high culture which we didn't need (two of us went to university).
I have seen lives wrecked by this attitude to especially bright w/c DC.
Every child should be introduce to Shakespeare, Chaucer, classical music and dance, art (not just Van Gogh, wonderful though he is), the theatre, the AV of the Bible (as literature rather than for study, I think - study requires a more recent translation, but the AV weaves into English literature so that its lack makes understanding more difficult), classical history and myth, as well as the sciences and sport. That's a rounded education.
NB New V&A East is in a hideous building as well. V and A must be turning in their graves, esp A.

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Excellent post!

I will say that I've seen stuff on here & in other places more generally about stuff like Shakespeare or Dickens being too hard or distant to appreciate. Apparently similar issues in some US schools. But saying that about wc kids adds an extra classist angle.

Jane379 · 29/06/2026 18:59

Leopardprintbikini · 29/06/2026 18:56

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Edited

Exactly.

And this should also apply to female working class jobs. As TempestTost said, hairdressing isn't automatically easy. And it's disgraceful that nursery work, elder care of society's most vulnerable is often seen as something people do if they can't do anything else etc

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 19:02

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 29/06/2026 18:21

It was me who said it was a lot.

It’s enough for tens of thousands of girls to be systematically raped in one town.

Still it is white men that are statistically over represented as sex offenders

5MinuteArgument · 29/06/2026 19:07

TempsPerdu · 29/06/2026 12:24

OK then, let’s look at how this stuff feeds into schools in practice, regardless of what in their purest sense CRT and ‘white privilege’ ideology set out to achieve

One small anecdote from the school I know most intimately (no longer involved there as we’ve relocated, but my daughter was until recently a pupil, I was a governor and I volunteered there twice weekly so was in class a fair bit). School is about 50% white British and 50% other ethnicities. London suburb, very socially mixed.

In Year 1 my daughter did a topic on space discoveries from their new, freshly decolonised, curriculum. Neil Armstrong and Buzz Aldrin were mentioned in passing; Yuri Gagarin not at all. Tim Peake and Helen Sherman - actual British astronauts - completely glossed over. The main focus - PowerPoint presentations, online research, work in books, homework task set- was on Mae Jemison. Year 5 did a similar unit the same year, and their focus was on the film Hidden Figures - watched the film in class, set homework task etc.

Later the same year came a unit on famous aviators: Bessie Coleman discussed at length (another follow-up homework research task set on black aviators); the Wright Brothers mentioned in passing; Amelia Earhart and Amy Johnson (again, British) completely omitted.

The space topic was actually raised in a governors’ meeting, as the school was very proud of their new curriculum and used it as an exemplar. It was explicitly stated by the SLT that the expectation was that children would learn about the more obviously famous pioneer astronauts either via parental input or by some kind of ‘cultural osmosis’ because they lived in a majority white culture. Of course, we filled in the gaps with DD through books and museum visits etc, but this doesn’t work for the working class white kids, who don’t have access to these things and don’t have parental expertise to draw on, so many of them would have remained none the wiser.

The school library was also decolonised - I volunteered there too. Enid Blyton, Roald Dahl, Rudyard Kipling and The Secret Garden were thrown out (problematic), as were Shirley Hughes, Judith Kerr and Jill Murphy (twee and old hat). Most of the old picture books were replaced by new issues-based ones, all bought from the same ‘diverse books’ website. Many of these were extremely didactic and lacked any kind of story or humour. When I volunteered with KS1 they spent most of the time asking where the animal/dinosaur/funny books had gone. Eventually some of them stopped coming to the library entirely.

Whether it’s well-intentioned or driven by political ideology this stuff has real-world impacts. The white working class issue aside, a particular issue for me is that, because they are lifted directly from American political ideology, these decolonised curriculums heavily feature black role models at the expense of other groups, and often actually fail to reflect the minority groups within the school (our main ones where Turkish/Kurdish, Albanian and South Asian, not Black).

Agree 100%, the impact of all this is that kids switch off especially white working class kids. They know when they are being fed BS, and like you say, mostly this ideology is coming across the Pond.

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 19:07

Jane379 · 29/06/2026 18:34

No, it's not racist.

There clearly WERE huge problems in the Pakistani community in Rotherham-most prominently among the men, but probably among the women too.

By your logic, it would have been racist to say in 1960s South US that there were huge problems with Southern white attitudes to black people.

No you’re extrapolated that out to mean a lot of Pakistani/ Muslim men think poorly of white women which is racist.

and no by my logic it wouldn’t have been racist to say white people were vile to black people in America in the Deep South or frankly at any point because you can’t be racist towards white peoples. Racism exists due to white people and white supremacy. White people benefit from racism they aren’t victims of it

Nyata · 29/06/2026 19:11

@5MinuteArgument
I totally agree that it is wrong to favour one race over another but why do you assume that these black boys came to this country. What if they were born here? Its interesting how a black or brown person is automatically put into the category of someone who “came here”

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 19:12

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 29/06/2026 18:28

Also, out of interest, would you be as outraged if I said lots of white people have prejudices against other races?

No because white people, try as we might to play the eternal victims, are not a marginalised community.

muslims in the UK get a tough run of it in the press and whilst we should definitely call out that misogyny we can’t allow that to drift into a Tommy Robinson style of thinking. We also have to remember that as outsiders to a specific community some conversations aren’t for us, us wagging our finger from the outside and telling them how bad they are will do nothing

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 29/06/2026 19:15

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 19:02

Still it is white men that are statistically over represented as sex offenders

That doesn’t mean the girls weren’t targeted because they’re white and seen as less than.

White people abuse other white people, that doesn’t mean that some white people aren’t racist and target people of other ethnicities to abuse.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 29/06/2026 19:17

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 19:12

No because white people, try as we might to play the eternal victims, are not a marginalised community.

muslims in the UK get a tough run of it in the press and whilst we should definitely call out that misogyny we can’t allow that to drift into a Tommy Robinson style of thinking. We also have to remember that as outsiders to a specific community some conversations aren’t for us, us wagging our finger from the outside and telling them how bad they are will do nothing

So a white girl can be forced to have sex with a dog while ten non- white men laugh and call her a “white slag” and “white scum” and tell her “this is all white girls are good for” and you don’t believe there is a racial element to their hatred? Or that she cannot claim to have been racially abused (along with every other manner of abuse) because some white people are better off?

That makes me really sad.

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 19:19

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 29/06/2026 19:15

That doesn’t mean the girls weren’t targeted because they’re white and seen as less than.

White people abuse other white people, that doesn’t mean that some white people aren’t racist and target people of other ethnicities to abuse.

But were the other girls targeted because they were white or because they were vulnerable or exploitation and non Muslim and happened to be the largest demographic available?

to me this says more rampant misogyny than it does about race

but my point is, this line of thought gets very brown men= problem and ‘we need to protect ‘our’ women and girls from these Muslim men’ very very quickly

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 29/06/2026 19:21

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 19:19

But were the other girls targeted because they were white or because they were vulnerable or exploitation and non Muslim and happened to be the largest demographic available?

to me this says more rampant misogyny than it does about race

but my point is, this line of thought gets very brown men= problem and ‘we need to protect ‘our’ women and girls from these Muslim men’ very very quickly

Well, when the girls were being raped and being forced to have sex with dogs for large numbers of the perpetrators, they were frequently told that it was all white girls were good for.
Which leads me to believe they were targeted because of their race. Yes.

My point is not to say that brown men are bad. They aren’t. And they absolutely do face racism.

My point is that white people can and have faced racism.

DeafLeppard · 29/06/2026 19:21

Conundrummum123 · 29/06/2026 19:19

But were the other girls targeted because they were white or because they were vulnerable or exploitation and non Muslim and happened to be the largest demographic available?

to me this says more rampant misogyny than it does about race

but my point is, this line of thought gets very brown men= problem and ‘we need to protect ‘our’ women and girls from these Muslim men’ very very quickly

It doesn’t naturally follow that it leads to “we must protect our women” and we cannot allow fear of that conversation to stop us asking awkward and unpleasant questions about behaviours in any community.

I find it deeply concerning that so many people on this thread think that white communities can’t be marginalised, or that white privilege trumps any other perceived ill.

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