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Allycat55 · 28/06/2026 06:39

Has anyone ever had your man say to you, you’re always in my groin’ is this a perverse thing to say.

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AtlasPine · 28/06/2026 06:40

Are you a sex pest in his eyes or is he saying it with pride? I’ve never heard the expression.

Pockett · 28/06/2026 06:41

When you find yourself starting a thread like this about “your man”… it’s probably been over for some time and full of a pretty gross history anyway

DozyCrow · 28/06/2026 06:48

I've heard of 'in my face' or 'in my space', but not 'in my groin'. What does he mean exactly? Are you always touching his groin, or is it a kind of synonym for something else?

GreyCarpet · 28/06/2026 06:55

Well, I assume what he's saying is a sexualised version of you're always on mind or always in his thoughts.

His thoughts about you are sexual so he said you're always in his groin.

It's not a well worn phrase, it's a play on words, I suppose.

I also suppose it depends on the context in which it was said.

declutteredliving · 28/06/2026 08:22

DozyCrow · 28/06/2026 06:48

I've heard of 'in my face' or 'in my space', but not 'in my groin'. What does he mean exactly? Are you always touching his groin, or is it a kind of synonym for something else?

’in my heart’.

@Allycat55 yeah, never heard of this one, fairly perverse and he wouldn’t be thinking of potential love between you, just the sex he wants with you.
Unless of course you’re the sex-addict and are literally always in his groin and he wants you to back-off!

NoArmaniNoPunani · 28/06/2026 08:23

Closest I've heard is 'in my grill"

Allycat55 · 28/06/2026 18:39

AtlasPine · 28/06/2026 06:40

Are you a sex pest in his eyes or is he saying it with pride? I’ve never heard the expression.

Its a friend she had her hand resting on his knee and he said I know what your trying to do, she was a bit shocked but didn't show it then he said to her your always in my groin, I told her he sounds pervy and get rid, I just wanted to hear if anyone else had ever heard this expressive words,

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LasagneGoblin · 28/06/2026 18:43

Were his actual words "you're always in my groin" because I've never heard that before in my life. If he meant to say "you're always putting your hands on my groin" when what I presume is his girlfriend put her hand on his knee then he needs help (and a biology lesson).

Goditsmemargaret · 28/06/2026 18:47

FFS it sounds like a joke, either a "I know what you're after..." Or "I hold you close to my groin, sorry I mean heart". Why are people so uptight?

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