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Teacher hand delivered certificate usually given out in class.

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howmanycorners · 26/06/2026 14:35

I don’t know what to make of this, dc is in primary school and every week someone gets a certificate.
Suddenly I saw my child’s teacher walk past the lounge window at about 8 pm and post a certificate through the door.
Aibu to find it a bit strange and wonder why she did this having had to look up our address and purposely drive to our house when all certificates are handed out in school and she would see my child in the morning?

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StudyinBlue · 26/06/2026 16:37

My sons’ schools used to send congratulations postcards to our home address. We thought it was lovely and certainly didn’t start worrying about GDPR breaches. Children live receiving mail! 😂😂

CaesarAugusta · 26/06/2026 16:37

Crunchymum · 26/06/2026 16:29

How did she get their address? Why did she feel the need to come over for something that could (seemingly) be done in school the next day?

I expect it's something along the lines of the teacher promising the child they would have the certificate that day and forgetting, so they popped it in when they remembered but the bothering to dig out the address in the first place would hit my radar. It just feels a little inappropriate.

I am a lifelong Londoner though so naturally suspicious of everyone and unfriendly to boot.

Edited

Maybe she just remembered the address, e.g. because she knows someone else in the same road.

EverythingElseIsTaken · 26/06/2026 16:38

I’ve hand delivered a letter to a child’s address in the past. It was information that I knew the parents needed and the house was less than a minute deviation from my walk (plus it saved the cost of postage).

No GDPR rules broken, just a kind gesture.

NotAnotherScarf · 26/06/2026 16:38

Because she's a nice person who wants to recognise your child...she walked past your window to post it oh what a bitch...fuck me how dare she do something nice.

Here's a bet...in 8 years you are on here moaning that your child has been excluded and it really wasn't their fault...it was all the teachers, every single one of them had it in for her

In 20 years you are moaning that your daughter has been in and out of prison because other people made her do things.

I exaggerate and god I hope I'm wrong, but if you bring your child up to see kindness and consideration as a personal affront then she is in for a shit life

catslovehairties · 26/06/2026 16:38

You're being absolutely ridiculous, OP.

FudgeFudy · 26/06/2026 16:39

Whorulestheroost1 · 26/06/2026 15:08

It must be the weather because I can't believe how many threads I have read today with people taking the time to post about the most mundane shit like it is a huge deal.

I was just thinking this. MN can be pretty mad anyway but it's definitely been madder this week, and this may well be the maddest of the lot. You really cannot win with some people.

Nocameltoeleggingsplease · 26/06/2026 16:39

howmanycorners · 26/06/2026 15:00

It’s very unusual, I have two other children that have been to that school and never had a teacher come to the house.

The teacher didn’t ’come to the house’. They posted something through the door.

Overreacting much?

Cardomomle · 26/06/2026 16:40

When I send out congratulations postcards to students in my classes, I look up the address to write it on.
I hope those parents aren't paranoid. They always seem to be received well.

VickyEadie · 26/06/2026 16:40

Soontobe60 · 26/06/2026 16:26

How do you think! I have access to the addresses and parent phone numbers of all the children in my class as I’m their teacher.

And - depending on each child - quite a lot of very personal information! Quite why anyone would get paranoid about a child's teacher knowing their address is beyond me.

I haven't RTFT - has anyone brought up "GDPR breach" yet?

LawrieForShepherdsBoy · 26/06/2026 16:41

VickyEadie · 26/06/2026 16:40

And - depending on each child - quite a lot of very personal information! Quite why anyone would get paranoid about a child's teacher knowing their address is beyond me.

I haven't RTFT - has anyone brought up "GDPR breach" yet?

Yep!

Cardomomle · 26/06/2026 16:43

VickyEadie · 26/06/2026 16:40

And - depending on each child - quite a lot of very personal information! Quite why anyone would get paranoid about a child's teacher knowing their address is beyond me.

I haven't RTFT - has anyone brought up "GDPR breach" yet?

Oh yes 😄

Chickenandegg8 · 26/06/2026 16:44

My son’s teacher did this once, he’d forgotten to bring home my Mother’s Day card. Teacher realised and brought it round on the Saturday to make sure I had it for the Sunday.
I didn’t think anything of it to be honest! Except what a lovely thing for her to do!

howmanycorners · 26/06/2026 16:44

Newusernameforthiss · 26/06/2026 16:30

Did you not have a home visitor when they started reception??? OP I think you needed to discuss anxiety with someone

No

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KilkennyCats · 26/06/2026 16:45

ClairDeLaLune · 26/06/2026 16:28

Some odd replies on here, people seem to be ganging up on you to have a go, probably addled by the heat!

I think it’s extremely weird. Part of getting a certificate is being congratulated in assembly and your friends clapping. Also, if there is no assembly why wouldn’t she give it to your DD in class? Also, it’s probably a GDPR breach - using your data for a purpose other than what you’ve signed up for. Your DC’s teacher shouldn’t know your address.

It’s not a bloody GDPR breach 🙄
What is wrong with some people?!

Cardomomle · 26/06/2026 16:45

Chickenandegg8 · 26/06/2026 16:44

My son’s teacher did this once, he’d forgotten to bring home my Mother’s Day card. Teacher realised and brought it round on the Saturday to make sure I had it for the Sunday.
I didn’t think anything of it to be honest! Except what a lovely thing for her to do!

That's so thoughtful! How kind.

Cardomomle · 26/06/2026 16:45

KilkennyCats · 26/06/2026 16:45

It’s not a bloody GDPR breach 🙄
What is wrong with some people?!

I don't know. It's mad.

aintnothinbutagstring · 26/06/2026 16:48

How do we find student adresses? Well there is this magical futuristic portal in schools called Arbor...

Dancingsquirrels · 26/06/2026 16:48

Cardomomle · 26/06/2026 16:45

I don't know. It's mad.

Hmm, I think it could be a data protection breach. I wouldn't necessarily expect a class teacher to require / have access to pupils' home addresses

Cardomomle · 26/06/2026 16:51

Dancingsquirrels · 26/06/2026 16:48

Hmm, I think it could be a data protection breach. I wouldn't necessarily expect a class teacher to require / have access to pupils' home addresses

It is not a data breach. They know details about the children in their class. The address is only one thing. I know who is in care, or that there's a court order, or who has asylum status, religion and similar. I can see the parents/carers phone numbers.
It's fine.

MrsHamlet · 26/06/2026 16:51

Dancingsquirrels · 26/06/2026 16:48

Hmm, I think it could be a data protection breach. I wouldn't necessarily expect a class teacher to require / have access to pupils' home addresses

I have access to the home addresses of every student in the school. We all do.

I'm not in the habit of popping round (or being nice!), mind you.

Moonnstarz · 26/06/2026 16:51

It can be quite easy to find an address. As a former teacher if I needed to call home (which we were expected to do in secondary for things like behaviour or any concerns) then the page that would bring up contact numbers did have addresses on it too.

Personally it sounds like she dropped it off as thought the assembly would be cancelled and wanted to ensure it was received.

If that worried a message could be sent saying thanks for dropping off the certificate, just wondered if this means she won't be celebrated at school in assembly like her friends

Ohthatsabitshit · 26/06/2026 16:54

TeenLifeMum · 26/06/2026 15:51

I’m assuming that poster is one of the many on mn who don’t open their doors when someone dares to knock.

Nope, I’m one of the posters on mn with normal boundaries and good manners. I employ multiple people in many roles. I can obviously look up their home addresses and pop by, but I wouldn’t. Why? Because I respect their privacy.

Imseriouslyyouguys · 26/06/2026 16:56

howmanycorners · 26/06/2026 15:00

It’s very unusual, I have two other children that have been to that school and never had a teacher come to the house.

Well no, it not usual (other than reception home visits). But it does happen occasionally for unusual circumstances (a heatwave that closes down schools being one).

During Covid our primary school reports came out during a period where only children of key workers were attending, so the teachers and TAs hand delivered them to our houses.

You’re creating a problem where one does not exist.

CountFucula · 26/06/2026 16:56

Dancingsquirrels · 26/06/2026 16:48

Hmm, I think it could be a data protection breach. I wouldn't necessarily expect a class teacher to require / have access to pupils' home addresses

Are you quite well? Of course we have access to their home details.

Also their bank details and their knicker drawers. (Only one of these is true)

Cardomomle · 26/06/2026 16:56

Ohthatsabitshit · 26/06/2026 16:54

Nope, I’m one of the posters on mn with normal boundaries and good manners. I employ multiple people in many roles. I can obviously look up their home addresses and pop by, but I wouldn’t. Why? Because I respect their privacy.

The outside of the house, and the postbox, isn't private. Otherwise the Postie, Amazon and DPD would be constantly breaching your privacy.

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