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Sleeping / Bed arrangement

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SorryExcuseMeThankYou · 25/06/2026 18:18

To install a standard bunk bed in a small room. Myself and partner can't seem to agree.

He wants a fancier bunk bed, with shelves, measuring 197cm L x 137cm W

I think a smaller, standard and detachable bunk to give them a bit more room - 196cm L x 102cm W

Room size is 2.90m x 2.44m

If it makes any difference, we're considering a move in 3 years to hopefully a bigger property.

Hopefully that's clear, happy to answer questions. Thanks

YABU = Go for fancier bunk
YANBU = Go for standard bunk

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Sarahelisa · 25/06/2026 18:20

Where is door and window and how are you positioning the bed? I don't think it will make that much difference but feel like it depends on room layout and what else needs to fit in

Fridgemanageress · 25/06/2026 18:22

I personally would go for the one with shelves if you want them to feel their bed is their bed. If you want a first come first serve basis with the beds then beds with no room for personal/individual items

SorryExcuseMeThankYou · 25/06/2026 18:23

Attached is the layout. Double doors are built in wardrobe, storage beside it and other door is the exit.

There's a small radiator under the window as well, for the room.

The longer side of the beds 197cm will be against the wall (with no window) and the W (137 or 100) will be against the window.

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Fridgemanageress · 25/06/2026 18:29

Not changed my mind on my original text, but how tall are the ones who will be sleeping on these?

Could you go for a bunk bed set that is 5’10” in length? They range from 2’6 wide to 3’6 wude

DandelionClockSeeds · 25/06/2026 18:40

How long is that wall without a window on? Because the floor plan suggests the dimensions measure to the door - and that will make quite a difference!

SorryExcuseMeThankYou · 25/06/2026 18:42

Thanks @Fridgemanageress. They're 4 and 7 year old.

Do these sized bunks have shelves And are they single mattress size? I've just done a quick search and can't seem to find these sizes with shelves.

Do you mind sharing a link please?

I appreciate the response.

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SorryExcuseMeThankYou · 25/06/2026 18:47

You're right @DandelionClockSeeds

The wall without window is actually 210 and the other one to wardrobe is 244.

You can probably tell I'm new to all these 😔

Just to add another layer (if it makes any difference) - it'll likely be for 3 to 4 months each year I.e. summer period when there'll be another family in the extra room. When that person's gone they can split up if they wish to.

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Fridgemanageress · 25/06/2026 18:52

Hope that helps abit. I looked on Amazon briefly and just clicked on the smallest sizes. An array of “shorties” came up.

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DandelionClockSeeds · 25/06/2026 18:54

Ok, so id get the tape measure out, measure the 137 width of the bigger beds, put a line of boxes / toys etc at that point, and then try and open the wardrobes. I think it will be tight.

Fridgemanageress · 25/06/2026 18:54

The mattresses will be shorter than single bed size.

MatildaTheCat · 25/06/2026 19:03

I’d go for the narrower option as more floor space gives you a bit more flexibility.

We did this for a few years when kids were roughly 3&5 and it was just their sleeping space plus a bit of clothes storage.

The bigger bedroom was their playroom with a sofa bed for when we had guests. It worked really well.

RandomMess · 25/06/2026 19:10

I would get offset bunks where they are at right angles to each other.

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