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AIBU to think the Weasleys were not actually poor?

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Jane379 · 21/06/2026 16:40

With the HBO show coming up I've been rereading the books and on several forums discussing them I've noted people describing the Weasleys as poor, saying they're a good portrayal of a poor family etc
I'd seen this before and assumed I must have missed those details but rereading (although not fully finished the series yet), they don't strike me as particularly poor. They have 7 kids which means money is tighter, Ron has hand me downs etc but overall they seem comfortable. Arthur has a steady job, Molly is a SAHM - presumably if they were really in financial trouble she would get a paid job too. A lot of families might find 7 kids financially tricky, rely on hand me downs etc, not holiday abroad much but is that necessarily poor?

I will say my own experience growing up with a single mother in fairly low-paid work was that we did scrimp on various things including holidays (which we never did when I was a child), but we could always afford good enough food, necessary clothes, had a warm house & books etc that I wanted (living in a place with good libraries and various cheaper services helped). A bit like Ron, I went to a school where a lot of people were much more well-off, but I'd never have considered myself poor. That would have felt insulting given far too many people (even more now) lack money for essentials or have enough for basics but not much else.

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Dontlletmedownbruce · 21/06/2026 17:10

I often wonder what Mrs Weasley did all day. Being a mother of 7 is incredibly busy, but her kids were all boarders so not home most of the time. She used magic to clean and tidy and prep food. I presume she wasn't doing the food shop every other day, could she conjure food? I'm not sure. She could use magic to bring kids to and from activities and they all left home at 11 anyway. By the time Ron started there was only 1 kid left at home. If they were short of cash she could have gotten a job.

She homeschooled 7 kids until Ginny went to Hogwarts and only 2 years after that she started running an underground rebellion to take down fascism. So I’d say she was quite busy really.

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