Thanks for replying. Firstly, I do think it's a highly politicised and artificially created definition of poverty developed in a way that is statistically very dubious. Households with children are always going to be poorer than those without.
BUT, and it's a big but, I do not disagree with you or disbelieve you for a second about your own experiences nor the individual cases of deprivation you come across. It is scandalous.
While I don't find the sweeping use of dodgy stats very persuasive and I dislike the insistence of some that vast tides of other people's money are the only answer. I don't doubt the problem.
However as you know there are parents out there with equal (lack of) resources in the same streets and the same schools. Some bring up their children decently and successfully. Some not so much.
Money is part of the issue but parenting is a bigger one. It is not fashionable to call out bad parental decision making (absentee fathers, no child support, money spent on the wrong things) but, if you are honest, such things underpin a very large number of the homes you talk about.
People don't have the moral courage to call these things out enough. I want to launch a moral crusade for to the benefit of children against bad parents. Will you join me?