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AIBU to think this intimidating house buying letter should be reported to police?

386 replies

Blopi · 14/06/2026 15:17

Friend’s elderly neighbours came back from holiday to find a letter delivered by person. It has made them upset and frightened.

It was addressed to them personally Mr and Mrs (surname)
They said that their home is too big for the couple and would be suitable for a 5 bedroom HMO. Willing to pay £Xk for it (properties have been selling for 10-15% more) and will visit them on Thursday at 11am to discuss things. Signed by Mr (common surname). No phone number or email address.

Her neighbours have zero intention of moving home as they have lived there for 58 years. They are upset on how they are targeted and wondering how did they get their names?

In the past I had these letters which have been sent to others down the estate. Though not intimidating like this letter, nor personalised.

Unfortunately my friend is working on Thursday. She would have loved to have seen if the person turned up and told

Should my friend phone the police on the non emergency line about this? As maybe something else dodgy going on

OP posts:
Besafeeatcake · 16/06/2026 14:33

There is a lot of detail missing. Every upsetting thing isn't a police matter. Their names were almost certainly on the electoral registry. The letter was probably sent to a number of people.

Mountain out of a molehill. Let the little things go.

ProfessorSlocombe · 16/06/2026 14:43

NotThisShitAgain121 · 16/06/2026 13:30

Here is a letter template that they could use and send to the person trying to get the property off them/

Dear Mr [Surname],

We write in response to the unsolicited letter you delivered to our home addressed to us personally.

We wish to make our position absolutely clear: we have no interest whatsoever in selling our home, and this will not change. We have lived here for 58 years and have no intention of leaving under any circumstances.

We do not wish you to visit us on Thursday or at any other time. You do not have our permission to call at our property. Should you do so regardless, we will treat it as harassment and report the matter to the police accordingly.

We are also concerned about how you obtained our personal details, including our full names linked to our address. We are looking into this matter further.

This letter is our final word on the subject. Please do not contact us again by any means.

Yours faithfully,

[Mr & Mrs Surname]

I suspect you may not have realised that the original letter had no contact details apart from a name on it.

godmum56 · 16/06/2026 17:19

NotThisShitAgain121 · 16/06/2026 13:30

Here is a letter template that they could use and send to the person trying to get the property off them/

Dear Mr [Surname],

We write in response to the unsolicited letter you delivered to our home addressed to us personally.

We wish to make our position absolutely clear: we have no interest whatsoever in selling our home, and this will not change. We have lived here for 58 years and have no intention of leaving under any circumstances.

We do not wish you to visit us on Thursday or at any other time. You do not have our permission to call at our property. Should you do so regardless, we will treat it as harassment and report the matter to the police accordingly.

We are also concerned about how you obtained our personal details, including our full names linked to our address. We are looking into this matter further.

This letter is our final word on the subject. Please do not contact us again by any means.

Yours faithfully,

[Mr & Mrs Surname]

there are no contact details on the letter.

godmum56 · 16/06/2026 17:20

Besafeeatcake · 16/06/2026 14:33

There is a lot of detail missing. Every upsetting thing isn't a police matter. Their names were almost certainly on the electoral registry. The letter was probably sent to a number of people.

Mountain out of a molehill. Let the little things go.

so they are going to turn up at everybody's houses?

TheSmallAssassin · 16/06/2026 17:25

ProfessorSlocombe · 16/06/2026 14:43

I suspect you may not have realised that the original letter had no contact details apart from a name on it.

I think it's the AI that @NotThisShitAgain121 has used to generate her replies that has missed that. People should state they have used AI and always double check what it says is correct (I have been burnt by this...)

godmum56 · 16/06/2026 18:48

TheSmallAssassin · 16/06/2026 17:25

I think it's the AI that @NotThisShitAgain121 has used to generate her replies that has missed that. People should state they have used AI and always double check what it says is correct (I have been burnt by this...)

I did wonder......and what an apt username!

Oldmamabear · 16/06/2026 23:01

I think they need to arrange for a friend or friends or family members to be there and when these cheeky arrogant pratts turn up let them read them the riot act, tell them in no uncertain terms they have absolutely zero right to write let alone turn up at the property, then get nerf guns out and shoot at them still they leave.

Oldmamabear · 16/06/2026 23:03

I think they need to arrange for a friend or friends or family members to be there and when these cheeky arrogant pratts turn up let them read them the riot act, tell them in no uncertain terms they have absolutely zero right to write let alone turn up at the property, then get nerf guns out and shoot at them still they leave.

Merida46 · Yesterday 01:03

She should smear the letter with dogshit and send it back!😡

jimmyhill · Yesterday 18:50

Merida46 · Yesterday 01:03

She should smear the letter with dogshit and send it back!😡

The original letter wasn't a matter for the police, but this would be!

JustJugglingCats · Yesterday 19:55

Merida46 · Yesterday 01:03

She should smear the letter with dogshit and send it back!😡

Who should she send it back to?

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