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To think people treat you differently when you’re thin?

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definitelybothered · Yesterday 21:05

A few years ago I lost a lot of weight. At my lightest I was 7 stone - it probably went too far and wasn’t sustainable as I gained most of it back again.

But what I noticed was how differently I was treated by others. Colleagues and strangers seemed to be more considerate - people at work changed towards me and didn’t seem to want to offend or upset me. People in public seemed more polite and courteous. But when I gained weight it’s gone back to how it was before. Has anyone else experienced something like this?

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AlexaStopAlexaNo · Today 12:28

It’s because slim people are more attractive and people like attractive people more.

Allders · Today 12:50

I’ve noticed that people dislike big sized people, like they resent how much space they take up, as if it’s inherently impolite to be bigger. I actually think people dislike bigger cars too.

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