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to be utterly sick of protests, marches, rallies, and riots

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NameChangeMay2026 · Today 01:47

What happened today in Belfast was dreadful. Of course it was.

When Sarah Everard died, there were marches. But a day before she died, an Indian woman Sarah's age was knifed to death in the street in Leicestershire. It was an "honour" killing, I think.

Where was HER lantern on the doorstep of Downing Street? Where was HER march?

My point is, dreadful things happen every day and I am so sick and tired of news items sparking so much public rowdiness. It used to be that the media could report on current events without starting a riot. I know that we have always had riots, but they were the occasional one. And because they were not common, they helped effect change. They were a desperate measure reserved for when nothing else had helped.

Now, together with marches, rallies, and protests, society is constantly disrupted, and I am so, so sick of it. I live in a major city and I can't go anywhere without checking what march, rally, protest, or riot is happening, especially at the weekends. And they are so common that they don't help effect change anymore.

The riots are terrible. Thousands and thousands of pounds' worth of lost property in fires, injured bystanders, police calld away from other duties to attend them. And there are "professional" rabble-rousers who travel to marches, protests, and riots. It's not because they're passionate about a cause. They're just passionate about causing trouble.

I travel for work to major American cities and it's even worse over there. Another day, another riot/protest/march/rally.

They have become a feature of today's society, and I wish they would just stop.

Edit: I actually stay in more because of them. I don't go out of my hotel as much when staying in America, and I don't go to the city centre where I live as much. It's so bad when regular people are put off from walking around city centres because of all these annoying dickheads.

I think it is worse in America, and I'm tired of feeling scared to go out when there, in case I run into an uncontrolled crowd - where the police have guns, and the protestors might, depending on the state.

The burning buildings in Belfast are a disgrace. It's not the owners' fault that this happened.

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ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:19

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:18

It’s not pain. It’s racism.

Oh oh, there’s that word again. Won’t be long before it loses all meaning.

Cherriesandapples1 · Today 14:21

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:18

Were they blinded ? Did they have life changing injuries ? If not, that is a ridiculous statement.

They could've been burnt alive!

If someone set fire to your house but you didn't actually die is that just fine then?
How can you not see that both things are horrific?
Why is only one side of this an issue for you?

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:21

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:19

Oh oh, there’s that word again. Won’t be long before it loses all meaning.

What do you call burning roadblocks, stopping the occupants of cars to determine if they’re migrants? The targeting of houses owned by foreigners for fire bombing? Targeting foreign owned businesses?

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:22

Cherriesandapples1 · Today 14:21

They could've been burnt alive!

If someone set fire to your house but you didn't actually die is that just fine then?
How can you not see that both things are horrific?
Why is only one side of this an issue for you?

I genuinely cannot believe that people think the attempted murder of a baby is fine.

BackToLurk · Today 14:22

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:19

Oh oh, there’s that word again. Won’t be long before it loses all meaning.

Yea, you're right. Burning down the homes of people based on their skin colour definitely isn't racist. Several different threads later and we still haven't discovered what the "You just call everything racist" people actually would consider to be racist. Lynchings maybe. Would that meet your criteria?

Persephonia1966 · Today 14:22

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:18

Were they blinded ? Did they have life changing injuries ? If not, that is a ridiculous statement.

His family have said (with his agreement presumably) that they don't want the attack to be used as an excuse to cause further violence.

It's not about concern for him.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:22

Dandelionsalad · Today 14:18

It is interesting that Farage represents the most deprived ward in the country (not one of the most, it is the most deprived). They support him because they are already the most deprived, because they are the white working class males who are the most underachieving demographic. But they are still told they have ‘white privilege’ and that other groups need support more than they do.

And this is one of the biggest issues facing the UK at the moment. But how often do you hear it talked about outside of half hour discussion shows on channel four ?

LessonsinChemistryandLove · Today 14:22

BrightShaker · Today 13:01

At what point? what does eventually mean?

The home secretary said last year that more than 50% of refugees are on benefits 8 years after being given leave to remain.

How long do you want the country to wait before they 'contribute positively'?

And at what point does their contribution prove a net positive for the UK given the years where they were just taking out from the system?

Being on benefits doesn’t mean you are not working and contributing to society.

Sardaukar · Today 14:24

LessonsinChemistryandLove · Today 14:22

Being on benefits doesn’t mean you are not working and contributing to society.

'Being on benefits doesn't mean you are not working...'

Oh, don't we know it...

Dandelionsalad · Today 14:25

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:19

I think the attempted murder of young children is horrific. Sorry you’re so lacking in empathy that you don’t.

So you are saying the person setting fire to the house knew the children were in there and set out to kill them? Where is the evidence for that? Have they been charged with attempted murder? Setting fire to a house is very different from specifically setting out to murder a child.

FoldItIn · Today 14:26

BackToLurk · Today 14:06

The problem is, on this site, even using the term honour killing is deemed racist as you well know. How would it go if i started a thread about honour killings on here? You know the answer.
The 'left' attempt to gaslight everyone in to thinking it isn't a problem, nothing to see here.

Simply not true. Thankfully this 'woke, leftist' government is doing something about it.

karmanirvana.org.uk/campaigns/current-campaigns/define-hba/#june-2026--push4change-celebration-event-in-the-house-of-lords

Karma Nirvana are a fantastic organisation and this is a brilliant step forward BUT what do you think will actually change?
Look at the statistics, how many young girls and women even dare THINK about reporting? I know of at least two women in my tiny little pocket of earth who should report and I would encourage to do so but what do I know? I can never appreciate how deeply embedded these abhorrent practises are in some cultures.
What do you think happens when a young girl or woman attempts report honour based violence, rape within marriage or domestic abuse?
We know that the agencies that are meant to protect are reluctant to get involved due to a fear of being labelled as racist. We know this due to report after report of said agencies saying so after yet another preventable death.

This is a fantastic step forward for women and children though and I am proud of Labour for working alongside Karma Nirvana. Any step forward is a positive.
Next step, let's start talking about it openly without fear of being called 'far right'.

Vse500 · Today 14:26

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 07:28

You’re literally saying that you think we should accept certain levels of crime, as long as they’re British born criminals.

I couldn’t give less of a shiny shite about single sex spaces. It’s another issue created by the right wing press to distract from the actual issues in this country

That’s not what is being said by the poster at all.
They are saying violent crime will always exist which is never ok - but why on earth would you add to it by allowing mass illegal immigration from countries with no adequate checks on people. You are literally exacerbating the problem of violent crime by doing so.

Dandelionsalad · Today 14:26

LessonsinChemistryandLove · Today 14:22

Being on benefits doesn’t mean you are not working and contributing to society.

A result of wages being driven down.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:26

Persephonia1966 · Today 14:22

His family have said (with his agreement presumably) that they don't want the attack to be used as an excuse to cause further violence.

It's not about concern for him.

There is a reluctance on this thread to accept that two things can be true at once. People are outraged by the incident that sparked the violence and people are also outraged by the response. Citing ‘these poor children’ as comparable to a man who has experienced severe and life changing injuries isn’t helpful.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:28

Dandelionsalad · Today 14:26

A result of wages being driven down.

In part by the wholesale propping up of the wages bills of rich corporations being propped up by the tax payer, via UC.

Persephonia1966 · Today 14:28

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:26

There is a reluctance on this thread to accept that two things can be true at once. People are outraged by the incident that sparked the violence and people are also outraged by the response. Citing ‘these poor children’ as comparable to a man who has experienced severe and life changing injuries isn’t helpful.

No....
People have absolutely been trying to excuse the rioting. Maybe not you. But people have been doing it.

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:29

Dandelionsalad · Today 14:25

So you are saying the person setting fire to the house knew the children were in there and set out to kill them? Where is the evidence for that? Have they been charged with attempted murder? Setting fire to a house is very different from specifically setting out to murder a child.

Quite literally what do you expect to happen when setting fire to a house full of occupants

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:29

Vse500 · Today 14:26

That’s not what is being said by the poster at all.
They are saying violent crime will always exist which is never ok - but why on earth would you add to it by allowing mass illegal immigration from countries with no adequate checks on people. You are literally exacerbating the problem of violent crime by doing so.

Well said.

Pineforests · Today 14:30

PigletAdventures · Today 14:10

Have you not read my post in its entirety? Is it not easier and cheaper to employ an overseas Dr who has that experience, rather than train a recently qualified UK medical grad? These training posts do not exist.

No it isn't.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:31

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:29

Quite literally what do you expect to happen when setting fire to a house full of occupants

I didn’t say I had no empathy with those whose homes have burned did I ? You made that up to support your narrative. Two things can be true at the same time.

PigletAdventures · Today 14:31

Pineforests · Today 14:30

No it isn't.

Care to elaborate?

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:32

Persephonia1966 · Today 14:28

No....
People have absolutely been trying to excuse the rioting. Maybe not you. But people have been doing it.

There is no ‘excuse’ for the rioting and the violence that took place, and which has taken place after every such incident in recent years. But there are reasons for it, which is entirely different.

Pineforests · Today 14:34

PigletAdventures · Today 14:31

Care to elaborate?

How much medical recruitment and how many medical visa applications have you done?

Dandelionsalad · Today 14:34

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:29

Quite literally what do you expect to happen when setting fire to a house full of occupants

You might think the occupants will escape and their property destroyed. You might think the property is empty. You might have little care for the occupants. You might not think at all. You might suffer from a mental illness. Isn’t it funny how pp jumped to using mental health as an excuse for the attacker trying to behead someone but give no consideration to it being a reason for arson?

Cherriesandapples1 · Today 14:37

Dandelionsalad · Today 14:34

You might think the occupants will escape and their property destroyed. You might think the property is empty. You might have little care for the occupants. You might not think at all. You might suffer from a mental illness. Isn’t it funny how pp jumped to using mental health as an excuse for the attacker trying to behead someone but give no consideration to it being a reason for arson?

If you set fire to a house, you do so knowing there may be people inside and they might die a horrific death. The person who tried to behead the man was also doing it knowing the person could die a horrific death.
Both things are horrific. Can you not see that?

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