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to be utterly sick of protests, marches, rallies, and riots

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NameChangeMay2026 · Today 01:47

What happened today in Belfast was dreadful. Of course it was.

When Sarah Everard died, there were marches. But a day before she died, an Indian woman Sarah's age was knifed to death in the street in Leicestershire. It was an "honour" killing, I think.

Where was HER lantern on the doorstep of Downing Street? Where was HER march?

My point is, dreadful things happen every day and I am so sick and tired of news items sparking so much public rowdiness. It used to be that the media could report on current events without starting a riot. I know that we have always had riots, but they were the occasional one. And because they were not common, they helped effect change. They were a desperate measure reserved for when nothing else had helped.

Now, together with marches, rallies, and protests, society is constantly disrupted, and I am so, so sick of it. I live in a major city and I can't go anywhere without checking what march, rally, protest, or riot is happening, especially at the weekends. And they are so common that they don't help effect change anymore.

The riots are terrible. Thousands and thousands of pounds' worth of lost property in fires, injured bystanders, police calld away from other duties to attend them. And there are "professional" rabble-rousers who travel to marches, protests, and riots. It's not because they're passionate about a cause. They're just passionate about causing trouble.

I travel for work to major American cities and it's even worse over there. Another day, another riot/protest/march/rally.

They have become a feature of today's society, and I wish they would just stop.

Edit: I actually stay in more because of them. I don't go out of my hotel as much when staying in America, and I don't go to the city centre where I live as much. It's so bad when regular people are put off from walking around city centres because of all these annoying dickheads.

I think it is worse in America, and I'm tired of feeling scared to go out when there, in case I run into an uncontrolled crowd - where the police have guns, and the protestors might, depending on the state.

The burning buildings in Belfast are a disgrace. It's not the owners' fault that this happened.

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smallglassbottle · Today 13:57

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 13:55

Don’t be ridiculous

Not ridiculous I'm afraid.

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 13:58

smallglassbottle · Today 13:57

Not ridiculous I'm afraid.

It is. Unless you can name certain topics that are banned by law, you’re talking out of your arse.

Frugalgal · Today 13:58

smallglassbottle · Today 13:51

Suffice to say the end game is very ugly and even the leftists will be left weeping into their vegan handkerchiefs.

Oh it will be ugly alright. But the street thugs burning down houses and attacking police will pay in the end when Farage gets in, to serve his billionaire paymasters as he has been paid to do, and they lose their benefits.

Pineforests · Today 13:59

PigletAdventures · Today 13:51

The data may suggest that, but stats can be manipulated. Who is exactly leaving the UK? Who is coming in? From discussions on here and msm, medical graduates for one, who can't find training posts within the nhs as it's easier and cheaper to issue visas to overseas applicants who have that experience as opposed to newly qualified grads. That's troubling to me. Who's coming in? Immigrants to work in vape shops or butchers, when these jobs can be performed without extensive training or expertise, and as such will never be high tax payers.

Have you ever tried to get a visa for an overseas doctor? In what ways exactly is it easier and cheaper?

smallglassbottle · Today 14:00

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 13:58

It is. Unless you can name certain topics that are banned by law, you’re talking out of your arse.

Nope. Some things are so taboo that it's just not going to be possible. The law? No, just a deletion and ban.

BrightShaker · Today 14:01

Cherriesandapples1 · Today 13:52

If I used social media to try whip up some hatred online suggesting that someone sets fire to someone's house and it happens... I would expect to be put in prison.

I mean what you just said happened didn't actually happen did it?

So not sure why you'd think you or anyone should go to prison for it.

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:02

smallglassbottle · Today 14:00

Nope. Some things are so taboo that it's just not going to be possible. The law? No, just a deletion and ban.

So you don’t have any examples.

AmberTigerEyes · Today 14:04

Firetreev · Today 02:15

Yanbu. It's disgusting, and it's being orchestrated by Musk and Putin. Where is Tommy Robinson right now? In the Kremlin with Musk's father.

There will have been tens of stabbings across the country in the last few days. Many carried out by white men. Where is the outrage? What separates the violent man who stabbed the man in Belfast and the thugs out rioting setting fire to innocent people's homes with them inside? Absolutely nothing, they're all scum!

I agree.
There will have been an average of 130 stabbings per day in the UK with 2 deaths from stabbing every 3 days.

The protests aren’t against knife crime and the government not acting.

They are racist progroms against foreigners living in the UK or anyone British who looks foreign because that’s who is being scapegoated.

The far right are opportunistic scum whipping up civil unrest. Farage was saying pure cold rage and civil war. Him and Tommy Robinson and several dozen key media figures all need to be arrested and locked away with no access to journalists or ability to communicate outside for inciting violence before we have a Rwanda genocide level of violence going on in our own country.

For those who don’t know, the Rwanda genocide was whipped into being by a media personalities doing the exact same thing Farage, Robinson and other media personalities are doing.
https://idrc-crdi.ca/en/books/media-and-rwanda-genocide

BackToLurk · Today 14:06

FoldItIn · Today 13:46

The problem is, on this site, even using the term honour killing is deemed racist as you well know. How would it go if i started a thread about honour killings on here? You know the answer.
The 'left' attempt to gaslight everyone in to thinking it isn't a problem, nothing to see here.
To discuss forced marriage and honour killings (and the thousands upon thousands of women and young girls, who live in fear of both in this country) apparently means you are far right.
Please, do not attempt to educate me about how the 'left' view violence against women. We are not allowed to discuss violence against women unless it is committed by a white male.
Any attempt to deny this is disingenuous and I will not engage with anyone who is unwilling to discuss it openly.
I have grown to despise people who put their need to feel morally superior over the safety of women and children. They do not want change, they do not care about victims, they care more about shouting 'racist' and 'fascist' at people.

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The problem is, on this site, even using the term honour killing is deemed racist as you well know. How would it go if i started a thread about honour killings on here? You know the answer.
The 'left' attempt to gaslight everyone in to thinking it isn't a problem, nothing to see here.

Simply not true. Thankfully this 'woke, leftist' government is doing something about it.

karmanirvana.org.uk/campaigns/current-campaigns/define-hba/#june-2026--push4change-celebration-event-in-the-house-of-lords

to be utterly sick of protests, marches, rallies, and riots
YankSplaining · Today 14:06

I’m with you, OP. I live in Minnesota and my nearest city is Minneapolis, where people thought the death of George Floyd was a great opportunity to burn homes, businesses (several immigrant-owned) and a police station to the ground. The sickeningly ironic part was that protesting the death of one black man led to the death of another black man - Oscar Lee Stewart Jr., who was trapped inside a pawn shop rioters had set on fire. He was a thirty-year-old father of five young children. No one protested his death.

PigletAdventures · Today 14:10

Pineforests · Today 13:59

Have you ever tried to get a visa for an overseas doctor? In what ways exactly is it easier and cheaper?

Have you not read my post in its entirety? Is it not easier and cheaper to employ an overseas Dr who has that experience, rather than train a recently qualified UK medical grad? These training posts do not exist.

grindergirl · Today 14:11

There was a strident female politician from N. Ireland on Newsnight last night. Think she was SDLP. She was arguing that the debate about immigration had to be amongst the different parties. No mention of the ordinary people who do not want mass immigration and whose thoughts have been ignored for so long. Some of us are old enough to remember when our towns and cities did not resemble third world outposts.

Cherriesandapples1 · Today 14:12

BrightShaker · Today 14:01

I mean what you just said happened didn't actually happen did it?

So not sure why you'd think you or anyone should go to prison for it.

She called for people to set fire to the hotels with asylum seekers in... People did try to set fire to hotels with asylum seekers in. Details in the news article below. It put people's lives in danger. People should be accountable for their actions

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce83pj1ggmeo

A smiling Lucy Connolly looking directly down the camera. She has shoulder length, dark brown hair and brown eyes. She is seen indoors, in what appears to be a kitchen, with a white tiled splashback and work surface behind her. The edge of a hob extrac...

Lucy Connolly: Woman jailed for race hate post says she was political prisoner

She gives her first newspaper interview after being released from prison.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce83pj1ggmeo

Falcor · Today 14:13

I am so sorry that other peoples pain is affecting you so much 🙁

MrsMurphyIWish · Today 14:14

I’m concerned of protests turning into riots. I live in an area of high immigration but I’m fearful of the rage that is evident on my local community FB groups, all from 50+ white men. As a PP said, “watch Tip Toe”. I read an article that said the most indoctrinated group of people ore 50+ white men who are watching conspiracy theory videos on social media and believe SM news to be “truth”. I worry for my neighbours and the children I teach - many whom are immigrants or are children of immigrants.

Sardaukar · Today 14:15

I've seen a picture of the guy's facial injuries, and they're horrific. I'm sure he's very sorry to inconvenience you by being assaulted and horribly mutilated. People who are angry, frustrated, frightened, and feel let down have a right to vent their anger. They feel as if they've been abandoned by their Government to fend for themselves against these barabaric savages.

Imaginary86 · Today 14:16

Cherriesandapples1 · Today 14:12

She called for people to set fire to the hotels with asylum seekers in... People did try to set fire to hotels with asylum seekers in. Details in the news article below. It put people's lives in danger. People should be accountable for their actions

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce83pj1ggmeo

She said “set fire to them for all I care”

BackToLurk · Today 14:17

Sardaukar · Today 14:15

I've seen a picture of the guy's facial injuries, and they're horrific. I'm sure he's very sorry to inconvenience you by being assaulted and horribly mutilated. People who are angry, frustrated, frightened, and feel let down have a right to vent their anger. They feel as if they've been abandoned by their Government to fend for themselves against these barabaric savages.

'The guy's' (he actually has a name) family

We are aware of the tensions and talk of protests following this incident. We want to make it absolutely clear that overnight unrest is not welcome, and peaceful protest is the only way forward. We have many migrants who make a deeply valuable contribution to our country, including in our healthcare system and hospitality sector and we depend on them to make our country work. We do not want this terrible tragedy to be used to divide people or fuel hostility.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:17

grindergirl · Today 14:11

There was a strident female politician from N. Ireland on Newsnight last night. Think she was SDLP. She was arguing that the debate about immigration had to be amongst the different parties. No mention of the ordinary people who do not want mass immigration and whose thoughts have been ignored for so long. Some of us are old enough to remember when our towns and cities did not resemble third world outposts.

I live in an area of high immigration and I have no alternative but to agree with you, sad as that is. The landscape of my home town has changed out of all recognition, there is overpopulation, crime has soared and the things the politicians tell us simply aren’t happening as a result of migration, we see happening every day. People are sick of being gaslighted by those who live in ivory towers and don’t suffer the consequences of their failures.

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:17

Sardaukar · Today 14:15

I've seen a picture of the guy's facial injuries, and they're horrific. I'm sure he's very sorry to inconvenience you by being assaulted and horribly mutilated. People who are angry, frustrated, frightened, and feel let down have a right to vent their anger. They feel as if they've been abandoned by their Government to fend for themselves against these barabaric savages.

And I’ve seen images of children being led out of their home as it burns. Equally horrific.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:18

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:17

And I’ve seen images of children being led out of their home as it burns. Equally horrific.

Were they blinded ? Did they have life changing injuries ? If not, that is a ridiculous statement.

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:18

Falcor · Today 14:13

I am so sorry that other peoples pain is affecting you so much 🙁

It’s not pain. It’s racism.

Dandelionsalad · Today 14:18

Jellox · Today 13:42

This is why I hate people like Farage and Tommy Robinson.

They pick on those who are easy targets and make those who easily led blame immigrants and people on benefits for their problems, instead of the real issues.

Tommy Robinson bangs on about how much he loves this country but doesn’t even live in this country.

Farage wants to cut benefits and privatise the NHS (affecting the most vulnerable in society) yet people are still supporting this tool and it’s often the ones who are going to be at a massive disadvantage if these things are put in place.

He wanted people to leave the EU, knowing that it would increase immigration and decrease emigration, knowing the NHS would struggle, knowing it would make the cost of living increase and knowing that it would impact society’s most disadvantaged.
And yet these people are still supporting him!

I’m all for discussing immigration and how we can find a balance between helping people and hurting ourselves.
But I do not think idiots like Farage and TR who prey on those with lower IQs should be allowed to spread their lies and manipulate people.

It is interesting that Farage represents the most deprived ward in the country (not one of the most, it is the most deprived). They support him because they are already the most deprived, because they are the white working class males who are the most underachieving demographic. But they are still told they have ‘white privilege’ and that other groups need support more than they do.

Sardaukar · Today 14:19

BackToLurk · Today 14:17

'The guy's' (he actually has a name) family

We are aware of the tensions and talk of protests following this incident. We want to make it absolutely clear that overnight unrest is not welcome, and peaceful protest is the only way forward. We have many migrants who make a deeply valuable contribution to our country, including in our healthcare system and hospitality sector and we depend on them to make our country work. We do not want this terrible tragedy to be used to divide people or fuel hostility.

People are worried and frightened that they'll be the next to be attacked by some foreign, mentally ill maniac.

ijustwanttoworkout · Today 14:19

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:18

Were they blinded ? Did they have life changing injuries ? If not, that is a ridiculous statement.

I think the attempted murder of young children is horrific. Sorry you’re so lacking in empathy that you don’t.