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to be utterly sick of protests, marches, rallies, and riots

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NameChangeMay2026 · Yesterday 01:47

What happened today in Belfast was dreadful. Of course it was.

When Sarah Everard died, there were marches. But a day before she died, an Indian woman Sarah's age was knifed to death in the street in Leicestershire. It was an "honour" killing, I think.

Where was HER lantern on the doorstep of Downing Street? Where was HER march?

My point is, dreadful things happen every day and I am so sick and tired of news items sparking so much public rowdiness. It used to be that the media could report on current events without starting a riot. I know that we have always had riots, but they were the occasional one. And because they were not common, they helped effect change. They were a desperate measure reserved for when nothing else had helped.

Now, together with marches, rallies, and protests, society is constantly disrupted, and I am so, so sick of it. I live in a major city and I can't go anywhere without checking what march, rally, protest, or riot is happening, especially at the weekends. And they are so common that they don't help effect change anymore.

The riots are terrible. Thousands and thousands of pounds' worth of lost property in fires, injured bystanders, police calld away from other duties to attend them. And there are "professional" rabble-rousers who travel to marches, protests, and riots. It's not because they're passionate about a cause. They're just passionate about causing trouble.

I travel for work to major American cities and it's even worse over there. Another day, another riot/protest/march/rally.

They have become a feature of today's society, and I wish they would just stop.

Edit: I actually stay in more because of them. I don't go out of my hotel as much when staying in America, and I don't go to the city centre where I live as much. It's so bad when regular people are put off from walking around city centres because of all these annoying dickheads.

I think it is worse in America, and I'm tired of feeling scared to go out when there, in case I run into an uncontrolled crowd - where the police have guns, and the protestors might, depending on the state.

The burning buildings in Belfast are a disgrace. It's not the owners' fault that this happened.

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OneTealShaker · Yesterday 09:17

Firetreev · Yesterday 09:11

Honestly, I've reached a point where I'm okay with all those whingeing about immigrants providing vital services to stop receiving those services or go to the back of the queue.

You don't like brown immigrant doctors. Fine - you can have your treatment delayed and wait for a white British one. You're elderly and require care at home, but don't like black or Asian care workers. Fine, you can sit in your own piss until a white Brit gets to you. They're engineering a society where we won't have staff to meet the needs of the most vulnerable, and no, the average white British young person doesn't want to wipe your backside, not even for £25 per hour.

Newsflash…..it’s not the doctors and the engineers who are forming grooming gangs and raping young girls in Rochdale.

It’s not the doctors and engineers who are sexually abusing women in the reported cases.

And unless some new information comes out, the man who tried to behead someone in Belfast is not a doctor.

If you are going to try and deflect and gaslight people, you could come up with a better argument.

Clavinova · Yesterday 09:19

bafta16 · Yesterday 09:07

I don't think the sufferagettes were burning buiildings with children inside them?

They set fire to/tried to bomb several passenger trains I believe, showered children with glass in a nearby building with another bomb and booby-trapped mail boxes in the street.

OneTealShaker · Yesterday 09:20

To all the people trying to gaslight genuine people with genuine concerns, why don’t struggle to answer the simple question.

Why do we need to add more murderers and rapists to the country by bringing them in?

Pineforests · Yesterday 09:20

DancingNotDrowning · Yesterday 08:04

Your experience of the attack and your injuries would be the same but I think there is a particular anger that comes from the feeling that something could have been prevented and it wasn’t. Whether that’s because they were a rapist who was granted bail, a violent psychiatric patient who wasn’t detained or a mentally ill criminal ñ who shouldn’t have been in the country in the first place.

When British men commit dreadful crimes we have to accept it as we’re stuck with them. When we invite additional violent men into the country I think it’s reasonable to recognise that was a mistake and there is a particular horror in recognising that but for the decision to allow them to remain the incident would not have happened.

How do you propose we stop violent men entering the UK?

Do we stop all immigration, because if we did, the NHS would collapse.

godmum56 · Yesterday 09:22

riot summers are not new, check out St Pauls riots and Bristol riots. Mind you I'd put Tommy Robinson in a box and leave him there.

StandFirm · Yesterday 09:24

askmenow · Yesterday 02:46

We need to DRIVE this Government OUT, that's why we should take to the streets.
We are fed up to the back teeth of feeling poorer.

Unless this Government gets a grip of the economy there will be civil unrest. People can only take so much. Governments can only tax so much until the economy collapses.
No country has ever taxed its way to prosperity!

We need GROWTH, jobs, lower youth unemployment and less benefits paid out.

We now have the highest youth unemployment in Europe and why.... because Rachel Thieves lowered the rate at which employers have to start paying NI from £12k to £5k. All those little jobs.....gone.

Britain is a nation of small businesses and every which way she can she's taxed them to the hilt, stifling entrepreneurship. She's squeezed the lifeblood out of them instead of looking at the likes of Amazon, or going after "the big boys" who offshore profits. Profits should be taxed in the country they're earned.

Thats why there's going to be unrest! We're becoming a third world country, a basket case requiring an IMF bailout like Greece was one time.

Let's rejoin the single market. That's one way to improve the growth issue - and impose more effective taxes on the big boys.
If we drive this government out, do you honestly think a Reform (or God forbid a Restore one!) would even consider that for a millisecond? No. Their agenda is to asset strip this country for their mega billionaire handlers.

Imaginary86 · Yesterday 09:25

It’s only going to get worse

AgnesX · Yesterday 09:25

I love the apologists for the riots. It's always someone else's fault.

Anonymouseinthecity · Yesterday 09:25

If you push immigration and multiculturalism to the point where the host population feels ignored and overwhelmed, then civil disruption and conflict is what you'll get. Add in woke 'all whites are evil' ideology into every institution and you're speed-running the inevitable.

Firetreev · Yesterday 09:26

OneTealShaker · Yesterday 09:17

Newsflash…..it’s not the doctors and the engineers who are forming grooming gangs and raping young girls in Rochdale.

It’s not the doctors and engineers who are sexually abusing women in the reported cases.

And unless some new information comes out, the man who tried to behead someone in Belfast is not a doctor.

If you are going to try and deflect and gaslight people, you could come up with a better argument.

Do you think the thugs on the street terrorising people check to ask are you a doctor or a nurse or an engineer before terrorising them? No, they see that you aren't white and think you're fair game. I'm not trying to deflect. What happened is atrocious and the man shouldn't have been in the country. My point is that people are using tragic incidents, that happen every day by all races across the country, to stoke hatred and division and to excuse thuggery and mob violence.

I would say to you stop deflecting and gas lighting too. These men out rioting are nothing more than thugs who want any excuse to commit violence. They don't actually give a flying fuck about the victim. If they did they'd be out committing Street violence every time some one is stabbed or murdered or raped. Suggesting that the tracksuit brigades out on the streets are just decent, honest, concerned citizens is gas lighting!

OneTealShaker · Yesterday 09:27

Firetreev · Yesterday 09:26

Do you think the thugs on the street terrorising people check to ask are you a doctor or a nurse or an engineer before terrorising them? No, they see that you aren't white and think you're fair game. I'm not trying to deflect. What happened is atrocious and the man shouldn't have been in the country. My point is that people are using tragic incidents, that happen every day by all races across the country, to stoke hatred and division and to excuse thuggery and mob violence.

I would say to you stop deflecting and gas lighting too. These men out rioting are nothing more than thugs who want any excuse to commit violence. They don't actually give a flying fuck about the victim. If they did they'd be out committing Street violence every time some one is stabbed or murdered or raped. Suggesting that the tracksuit brigades out on the streets are just decent, honest, concerned citizens is gas lighting!

What are you talking about. It makes no sense at all. Comparing murderer and rapists to doctors. That’s what you did and it makes no sense.

StandFirm · Yesterday 09:28

The answer to criminality is better, more effective policing. Let's rebuild the police force properly and punish criminals for what they DO not who they are.

DierdreDaphne · Yesterday 09:30

Meadowfinch · Yesterday 02:29

That was my thought too.

People are having their lives wrecked or taken through no fault of their own, but the OP is fed up with the inconvenience to her domestic and social routine.

OP, also bear in mind, legitimate protest acts as a pressure valve. Without protest, anger can build up into something far more dangerous.

You don't think what we are seeing eg on the streets of Belfast is dangerous?? I think it's extremely dangerous. I am very concerned about where it is leading. I don't think there is any excuse for setting fires and rioting?

StandFirm · Yesterday 09:31

What we need is more law and order. Not emotional 'rage' like some low level politicians are calling for. We need actual growth to our economy, not ideology. A fascist revolution will not solve either points, to say the least...

MojoMoon · Yesterday 09:31

DancingNotDrowning · Yesterday 08:42

that may be correct.

I specifically referenced public stabbings which are typically gang related/youth violence.

Unlikely to be convicted as manslaughter.

Juries tend to see carrying a knife as evidence of intent. Plus they tend not to sympathetic to gang members!

Clavinova · Yesterday 09:32

Persephonia1966 · Today 07:22
Even a year ago the unrest in Belfast (and attempts at unrest in other parts of the country) were targeting Eastern Europeans (primarily Romanians and Bulgarians) because the boys accused of rape were Romanian.

Romanian/Bulgarian Roma I believe - Roma are discriminated against and marginalised in Romania, Bulgaria and Eastern Europe as well.

1dayatatime · Yesterday 09:32

StandFirm · Yesterday 09:28

The answer to criminality is better, more effective policing. Let's rebuild the police force properly and punish criminals for what they DO not who they are.

How about importing less criminals?

JasmineMac · Yesterday 09:32

Violent protest is entirely unacceptable.

There seems however to be a great deal of confusion on the juxtaposition of legal migration and mass/illegal/hostile migration. Do people genuinely not realise that the majority, the reasonable, concern relates to the latter?

It's tedium to habitually see bores online refer to same as 'racism' and 'far right' sentiment; an insult to populaces who have actually suffered under far right dictatorships. It allows the poor UK government to avoid accountability; useful idiots, as it were.

Jellox · Yesterday 09:33

Meadowfinch · Yesterday 02:08

People are angry at things that are happening every day. The protests are their way of telling politicians to get off their backsides and make the necessary changes. Or would you rather everyone was quiet and obedient, and people continued to be abused daily while the authority looked the other way and pretended it wasn't happening?
Of course building and property damage is not good, protest should be peaceful, but protest needs to happen when things are not right.

Without protest, women wouldn't have the vote, grooming gangs would still be an open secret and the Equalities Act wouldn't exist.

People are angry at things that are happening every day.

They’re not though, that’s the issue.

These pathetic idiots only choose to be angry at certain events but seemingly ignore the others.

Do you know how many stabbings have happened in the past few weeks?
Do you know how many murders?

Why is there not riots about the neo-nazi who tried to kill a random barber with an axe?

What about Alfie Coleman who was planning a terrorist attack that would have killed multiple people?

What about the 80 year old woman that was raped and killed in her own home?

There have been over 500 murders in this country this year alone, only a handful of these have been caused by immigrants (most of which did not come over in a boat).

Where are the protests and anger over the other hundreds of murders?

The riots are only concerned if they can try and spin it into something to be racist about.

Firetreev · Yesterday 09:34

OneTealShaker · Yesterday 09:27

What are you talking about. It makes no sense at all. Comparing murderer and rapists to doctors. That’s what you did and it makes no sense.

Are you cognitively challenged? My point is that those out rioting don't care what your profession is. They're out to terrorise anyone who isn't white, they want every person of colour to pay for the crimes of one evil man. When burning down houses, as happened last night, they don't knock on the door and check what your profession is first. They are collectively targeting all non white people for the crimes of one black man. The fact that you don't see this suggests one of two things. Willful ignorance or outright stupidity.

1dayatatime · Yesterday 09:35

Pineforests · Yesterday 09:20

How do you propose we stop violent men entering the UK?

Do we stop all immigration, because if we did, the NHS would collapse.

If we stopped all immigration it's a myth that the NHS would collapse. There are many UK nationals qualified as doctors and nurses and unable to get jobs in the NHS.

Yes it might cost the NHS more as it's cheaper to hire lower cost migrants than employ Uk nationals.

Boomer55 · Yesterday 09:35

I don’t mind protests etc, as they’re part of democracy. But I never quite understand why it so often means looting or attacking the police.

Too many are just rent a mob. 🙄

BackToLurk · Yesterday 09:36

Anonymouseinthecity · Yesterday 09:25

If you push immigration and multiculturalism to the point where the host population feels ignored and overwhelmed, then civil disruption and conflict is what you'll get. Add in woke 'all whites are evil' ideology into every institution and you're speed-running the inevitable.

Why? Let’s say we accept your argument. Why does this particular issue lead to the type of violent protest that we see? Where are the violent women protesting against rape culture? Where are the violent mobs protesting against cuts in mental health services? There are dozens of issues that people are concerned about. What is it about this one that seems to attract such thuggery?

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