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Worried about future generations lack of personal history

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Allonthesametrain · 06/06/2026 00:17

Just had a big family get together and sharing experiences of growing up. GPs stories of WW2, growing up on rations, real history dialogue, which we as DC know, also our DC were enthralled.

Us as parents, growing up in the 1970s and 1980s in our youths, we tell them how we lived before major technology, they listen to our music and love some if it.

I do wonder, our DC will share their experiences of growing up and, not all I know, but had a gender reveal, had princess outfits every birthday, told how beautiful I was every day on SM by parents and everyone.

Just such a vast contrast when as kids we were expected to be not seen and heard to being the centre of attention.

So going forward, being the centre of attention within the sphere of adoring parents and all attached, is this realistic for expecting everyone else in the real world our DC has to go in to?

Of course not. Our DC and are indeed the centre of our world but posting on SM every birthday, how amazing he/she looks, does set a predecent to expectations.

Our DC know first hand about the struggles of the past, but go forward a few generations, no matter what has been passed on, it's irrelevant.

Am I being a bit concerned that several generations from now, not for all but many people, will only know the newest false eyelashes, plastic surgery, pumped up lips, following a sheep fashion of long straightened hair or whatever is in vogue for model perfection.

I know this is beyond my time on earth but it's natural to worry about what the future holds for our future world 🌎

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mondaytosunday · 13/06/2026 00:06

What? You think ‘history’ stopped when you were a kid? My children have loads of stories to tell their kids and grandkids when the time comes (Covid comes to mind). And you think just because we haven’t been in a war or that having a secure upbringing means they don’t have anything to say? How ridiculous. I mean I was born in the 60s but how is my history any more colourful than the current generation??

MsAmerica · 14/06/2026 00:02

Allonthesametrain · 12/06/2026 21:52

Indeed and hearing it first hand makes it real and, as you say, inspiring. Just hope future generations do realise the difference about what real hardship means and appreciate what we all have now.

And as I was watching awful footage on television of Palestinian refugee children, desperate to go to school, scabbling in rubble, I knew that so many people intentionally avoid looking at anything "upsetting," and only have the vaguest idea of the horrors that so many people endure.

MsAmerica · 14/06/2026 00:04

Greengage1983 · 12/06/2026 23:49

When I was about 9 I had a bit of an existential crisis / panic / meltdown because my mum had so many exciting stories about her childhood whereas I had comparatively few in (or so I thought then).
Of course, what I didn’t realise then, was that I was only halfway through my childhood. Also, my mum was looking back through 20 years and cherry picking the best 10 or so stories, whereas I, at that moment in time, was focusing on the boring day-to-day of my life at that time (mostly going to school every day, having my tea and then bed). But looking back now, I have loads of stories to tell about my childhood, and I’m sure this generation will too.

Love that story.

:)

MsAmerica · 14/06/2026 00:05

mondaytosunday · 13/06/2026 00:06

What? You think ‘history’ stopped when you were a kid? My children have loads of stories to tell their kids and grandkids when the time comes (Covid comes to mind). And you think just because we haven’t been in a war or that having a secure upbringing means they don’t have anything to say? How ridiculous. I mean I was born in the 60s but how is my history any more colourful than the current generation??

I hope you're not saying that being caught in the middle of a war isn't much worse than ordinary crises, like penny-pinching for groceries or being bullied by other kids.

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