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NHS now saying stuff is free.

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MixMaxChop · 04/06/2026 11:18

Dear Mrs Chop

Welcome to NHS breast screening. We would like to invite you for your free mammograms. We have made you an appointment in a hospital that is not local to you in the arse end of a city that does not have any access from the railway station and parking is strictly limited and none of your previous mammograms have ever been in this city before but that’s not the point.

Free??

A) it isn’t free. My NHS contributions have paid for this many times over.

B) Surely “free” is the whole point of the NHS

C) are they craftily prepping us to have to start paying for services now in a stealth move to privatise the NHS?

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ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 09:59

BIossomtoes · 07/06/2026 09:42

That’s been our experience too. Cancer treatment is the NHS at its stellar best.

Agree. I had quite an advanced breast cancer only found on routine mammogram. Got a call back within two days and from then on it was like a well oiled machine had swung into action. Prompt treatment plan, clear explanations of next stages and what to expect, and support and advice at every stage.

I think part of the problem is that with routine, non urgent conditions the priorities are lower and the wait time is longer, patients tend to get passed around, appointments are cancelled/rearranged etc, so the perception is that the service is below par. I think that’s understandable, but we need to remember that we can only work with what we have and we can’t prioritise everything. In general the UK taxpayer wants excellent service from the NHS at all levels, but doesn’t want to pay what that will actually cost.

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 10:01

Msmeowski · 06/06/2026 18:51

No. They are not just for ‘complaints’, they are there to actually avoid this as complaints ARE time consuming, costly and don’t help the person in the moment. They are there to improve patient experience and feedback is part of this. They can take feedback,
acknowledge in a quick mail and pass it on to the group/department who can action it - if they choose.

now, this will really flabbergast you and all the others who are happy to bow and scrape and be ‘ever so grateful sir’; there’s even a publicly funded group called ‘health watch’ whose whole raison d’etre is do exactly that, take feedback on the nhs. One of the recent topics they have been investigating is hospital parking but they will also accept feedback.

It’s a shame that the poster didn’t write to PALS then, instead of writing directly to the service provider with a pathetic nit picking and ill thought through complaint.

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 10:16

BIossomtoes · 06/06/2026 21:25

Richard Tice, deputy leader of Reform.

Oh, that well known luminary, eh...? We're shaking in our shoes....

Edit for spelling.

BIossomtoes · 07/06/2026 10:19

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 10:16

Oh, that well known luminary, eh...? We're shaking in our shoes....

Edit for spelling.

Edited

Anyone with any interest in UK politics knows who Tice is. I’d be embarrassed if I were you.

Msmeowski · 07/06/2026 10:25

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 10:01

It’s a shame that the poster didn’t write to PALS then, instead of writing directly to the service provider with a pathetic nit picking and ill thought through complaint.

Edited

Actually, the OP contacted the hospital only to change the appointment. They just raised the issue of the wording on here for discussion; or this is as much as her posts state.

Essentially, any communication needs to be clear to achieve its intended objective. This one evidently isn’t. As you can see on here, everyone has their own interpretation of why that piece of information is included, what the motivation is, what the meaning is. If a letter is provoking discussions that are not relevant to its objectives, then that is distracting and it is not a good communication and PALs/Health watch should know.

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 10:27

BIossomtoes · 07/06/2026 10:19

Anyone with any interest in UK politics knows who Tice is. I’d be embarrassed if I were you.

You're not, though, but thanks for the concern. Don't look at me in my local or you'll be absolutely affronted, especially if it's karaoke night on a Friday.

BIossomtoes · 07/06/2026 10:30

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 10:27

You're not, though, but thanks for the concern. Don't look at me in my local or you'll be absolutely affronted, especially if it's karaoke night on a Friday.

What’s that got to do with political ignorance?

RedToothBrush · 07/06/2026 10:31

BIossomtoes · 06/06/2026 20:59

If you choose private care you can travel to a location where it’s available. I don’t suppose The Portland cares where you live.

Edited

Still not true.

If you have a baby or you have serious complications at the Portland you will still be transferred to an NHS hospital because they don't have the ability to cope with such cases.

Nice try but this ignorance shows up a problem of saying 'oh well you have a choice'.

No you do not. We do not have comprehensive private healthcare in the UK.

BIossomtoes · 07/06/2026 10:42

RedToothBrush · 07/06/2026 10:31

Still not true.

If you have a baby or you have serious complications at the Portland you will still be transferred to an NHS hospital because they don't have the ability to cope with such cases.

Nice try but this ignorance shows up a problem of saying 'oh well you have a choice'.

No you do not. We do not have comprehensive private healthcare in the UK.

And why do you think private hospitals transfer complicated cases of all kinds to the NHS? Because ITU care costs a fortune and is unaffordable for private healthcare providers.

It’s not ignorance anyway. If you want private maternity care it’s available, you may have to travel to access it.

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 10:48

BIossomtoes · 07/06/2026 10:30

What’s that got to do with political ignorance?

You said you'd be embarrassed if you were me. I advised you not to be. Political ignorance is quite different from not caring about that which is irrelevant.

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 11:06

exse24Londoner · 06/06/2026 20:22

what makes you think she hasn't

There were no mentions of 'NHS Death Panels'. Remember that ludicrous shite from her?

exaltedwombat · 07/06/2026 12:15

Yeah. And some people like to split hairs over whether their pension is a ‘benefit’. Just be glad we get it!

Imdunfer · 07/06/2026 14:50

Msmeowski · 07/06/2026 10:25

Actually, the OP contacted the hospital only to change the appointment. They just raised the issue of the wording on here for discussion; or this is as much as her posts state.

Essentially, any communication needs to be clear to achieve its intended objective. This one evidently isn’t. As you can see on here, everyone has their own interpretation of why that piece of information is included, what the motivation is, what the meaning is. If a letter is provoking discussions that are not relevant to its objectives, then that is distracting and it is not a good communication and PALs/Health watch should know.

In what way was the message not clear?

It was an appointment for a mammogram, not an analysis of the funding of the NHS.

The OP got a clear message about the first when she seems to have wanted the second.

If "free at point of use" had been used there would have been a raft of people thinking that meant that there would be an invoice along later in the post. Anything else would have required a paragraph of unnecessary text about something that everyone already knows, the NHS is funded from tax.

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:19

Msmeowski · 07/06/2026 10:25

Actually, the OP contacted the hospital only to change the appointment. They just raised the issue of the wording on here for discussion; or this is as much as her posts state.

Essentially, any communication needs to be clear to achieve its intended objective. This one evidently isn’t. As you can see on here, everyone has their own interpretation of why that piece of information is included, what the motivation is, what the meaning is. If a letter is provoking discussions that are not relevant to its objectives, then that is distracting and it is not a good communication and PALs/Health watch should know.

I wasn’t referring to the OP. My comment was in respect of the poster who said she wrote back to the service responsible for sending the letter to ask why they used the word ‘free’. And in my opinion the use of the word ‘free’ actually is intended to be clear and achieve its intended objective. Because, as has been pointed out numerous times, there are many levels of comprehension and understanding - wrapping up the intended objective in complicated language means not everyone will understand, letters will end up in the bin, important screening will be missed as a result, and people will die. But hey - what the hell. At least the nitpickers will have got their way.

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:24

Imdunfer · 07/06/2026 14:50

In what way was the message not clear?

It was an appointment for a mammogram, not an analysis of the funding of the NHS.

The OP got a clear message about the first when she seems to have wanted the second.

If "free at point of use" had been used there would have been a raft of people thinking that meant that there would be an invoice along later in the post. Anything else would have required a paragraph of unnecessary text about something that everyone already knows, the NHS is funded from tax.

Absolutely this. I’ve been trying to say in the gentlest possible terms that these communications have to be couched in terms that everyone will understand - not just the seemingly super intelligent MN users who can’t seem to understand that, to put it bluntly, not everyone is as bright as them, and that ‘free’ makes it clear there is no upfront charge. It’s a ridiculous, nit picking non issue.

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:28

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 10:48

You said you'd be embarrassed if you were me. I advised you not to be. Political ignorance is quite different from not caring about that which is irrelevant.

In what way do you think Reform is irrelevant, given the recent local election results ?

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 15:31

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:28

In what way do you think Reform is irrelevant, given the recent local election results ?

Are they anywhere near power in any area? No, they've virtually no influence anywhere.

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:31

RedToothBrush · 07/06/2026 10:31

Still not true.

If you have a baby or you have serious complications at the Portland you will still be transferred to an NHS hospital because they don't have the ability to cope with such cases.

Nice try but this ignorance shows up a problem of saying 'oh well you have a choice'.

No you do not. We do not have comprehensive private healthcare in the UK.

But this isn’t just true of maternity services is it ? It’s true across the board where private medicine is concerned. Anything goes wrong, any complications need sorting out as a result of botched private surgery and it’s the NHS who sort it out. It’s not because they don’t have the ability to cope - it’s for the same reason as there are no private accident and emergency services. The cost is simply prohibitive.

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:32

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 15:31

Are they anywhere near power in any area? No, they've virtually no influence anywhere.

I hope you’re right come the general election.

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 15:36

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:32

I hope you’re right come the general election.

Mind you, they gained 17 Parliamentary seats in Scotland, though...

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:37

exse24Londoner · 06/06/2026 20:22

what makes you think she hasn't

She’s too busy shooting wild pigs from a helicopter !!

Msmeowski · 07/06/2026 16:10

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 15:19

I wasn’t referring to the OP. My comment was in respect of the poster who said she wrote back to the service responsible for sending the letter to ask why they used the word ‘free’. And in my opinion the use of the word ‘free’ actually is intended to be clear and achieve its intended objective. Because, as has been pointed out numerous times, there are many levels of comprehension and understanding - wrapping up the intended objective in complicated language means not everyone will understand, letters will end up in the bin, important screening will be missed as a result, and people will die. But hey - what the hell. At least the nitpickers will have got their way.

The clearest message would have been one not mentioning ‘free’ at all. Sufficient for this to be an NHS communication. I have received no communications from the NHS with this on ever. That is why many suspect an agenda. As I’ve seen no evidence that this framing is part of any sort of ‘nudge’ theory driving attendance, it seems odd. Indeed, with no evidence that women are missing appointments because they are concerned they will have to pay, and no clear motivation for this information, you might argue that it creates a lack of clarity around other similar letters/services from the NHS that are also ‘free’ but don’t come with that reminder!

Badbadbunny · 07/06/2026 16:14

AlternateLook · 07/06/2026 15:31

Are they anywhere near power in any area? No, they've virtually no influence anywhere.

They are in control of several councils and are making changes! So, yes, they do have influence, certainly at a local level. And the way the polls are going, they'll get a lot more MPs and a lot more influence at the next GE. (Unless Labour and Tories get their fingers our of their arses and start listening to people, their wants and feelings rather than their superior attitude of "we know what's best for you").

Badbadbunny · 07/06/2026 16:15

Msmeowski · 07/06/2026 16:10

The clearest message would have been one not mentioning ‘free’ at all. Sufficient for this to be an NHS communication. I have received no communications from the NHS with this on ever. That is why many suspect an agenda. As I’ve seen no evidence that this framing is part of any sort of ‘nudge’ theory driving attendance, it seems odd. Indeed, with no evidence that women are missing appointments because they are concerned they will have to pay, and no clear motivation for this information, you might argue that it creates a lack of clarity around other similar letters/services from the NHS that are also ‘free’ but don’t come with that reminder!

Nail on the head. As you say, it's why many believe this is an "agenda".

ThreadGuardDog · 07/06/2026 20:02

Msmeowski · 07/06/2026 16:10

The clearest message would have been one not mentioning ‘free’ at all. Sufficient for this to be an NHS communication. I have received no communications from the NHS with this on ever. That is why many suspect an agenda. As I’ve seen no evidence that this framing is part of any sort of ‘nudge’ theory driving attendance, it seems odd. Indeed, with no evidence that women are missing appointments because they are concerned they will have to pay, and no clear motivation for this information, you might argue that it creates a lack of clarity around other similar letters/services from the NHS that are also ‘free’ but don’t come with that reminder!

Nope. It’s been explained multiple times why the word ‘free’ makes it clearer for those whose comprehension doesn’t meet MN standards. The only agenda I can see, coming at it from the perspective of one who has had a recent breast cancer diagnosis and treatment (as the result of mammogram - an advanced cancer I didn’t even know was there and had it not been discovered I would be dead by now) I personally don’t give a flying fuck how the letters are worded as long as women know that this scan won’t cost them anything and can potentially save their lives.