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NHS now saying stuff is free.

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MixMaxChop · 04/06/2026 11:18

Dear Mrs Chop

Welcome to NHS breast screening. We would like to invite you for your free mammograms. We have made you an appointment in a hospital that is not local to you in the arse end of a city that does not have any access from the railway station and parking is strictly limited and none of your previous mammograms have ever been in this city before but that’s not the point.

Free??

A) it isn’t free. My NHS contributions have paid for this many times over.

B) Surely “free” is the whole point of the NHS

C) are they craftily prepping us to have to start paying for services now in a stealth move to privatise the NHS?

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Badbadbunny · Yesterday 15:29

Snakebite61 · Yesterday 12:05

Reform aren't in yet. Then it will be fully privatised and a quarter of your wages will go on health insurance like in the USA.

Ah yes! The old tripe about the only alternative to the NHS being the USA system. No mention of Australia, Canada nor European systems that work perfectly well and are affordable.

Msmeowski · Yesterday 16:44

TankFlyBossW4lk · Yesterday 13:28

You are self important. Do you really want your taxes to pay for someone to answer your petty letter. I don't. I'd rather use the money for extra nurses.

You are the reason we will lose the NHS.

Oh rubbish. There’s a whole service called PALs who invite feedback on services. There’s no need to doth your cap. It’s fine to have an adult communication.

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 16:51

Badbadbunny · Yesterday 15:29

Ah yes! The old tripe about the only alternative to the NHS being the USA system. No mention of Australia, Canada nor European systems that work perfectly well and are affordable.

In the case of Europe most countries cost the taxpayer more as well as being part funded by co payments. It’s a funny definition of affordable.

TankFlyBossW4lk · Yesterday 17:18

Msmeowski · Yesterday 16:44

Oh rubbish. There’s a whole service called PALs who invite feedback on services. There’s no need to doth your cap. It’s fine to have an adult communication.

They are for real complaints. Not silliness like this. But by all means clog the service with this rubbish.

Boomer55 · Yesterday 17:20

MixMaxChop · 04/06/2026 11:18

Dear Mrs Chop

Welcome to NHS breast screening. We would like to invite you for your free mammograms. We have made you an appointment in a hospital that is not local to you in the arse end of a city that does not have any access from the railway station and parking is strictly limited and none of your previous mammograms have ever been in this city before but that’s not the point.

Free??

A) it isn’t free. My NHS contributions have paid for this many times over.

B) Surely “free” is the whole point of the NHS

C) are they craftily prepping us to have to start paying for services now in a stealth move to privatise the NHS?

The NHS works to its own mythical agenda. It’s a overfunded inefficient monolith. 🙄

Msmeowski · Yesterday 18:51

TankFlyBossW4lk · Yesterday 17:18

They are for real complaints. Not silliness like this. But by all means clog the service with this rubbish.

No. They are not just for ‘complaints’, they are there to actually avoid this as complaints ARE time consuming, costly and don’t help the person in the moment. They are there to improve patient experience and feedback is part of this. They can take feedback,
acknowledge in a quick mail and pass it on to the group/department who can action it - if they choose.

now, this will really flabbergast you and all the others who are happy to bow and scrape and be ‘ever so grateful sir’; there’s even a publicly funded group called ‘health watch’ whose whole raison d’etre is do exactly that, take feedback on the nhs. One of the recent topics they have been investigating is hospital parking but they will also accept feedback.

Evaka · Yesterday 19:06

Agree it's to boost uptake. A useful example of why that's a good idea.

My friend's husband from a SE Asian nation with very limited healthcare recently kept quiet about bloody poo for months. When he finally admitted what was happening he said he'd delayed seeking help as he was terrified the treatment would bankrupt the family.

It's so ingrained in his mind that you pay for healthcare. Poor guy has been through surgery, they've now discovered secondary in two other places.

That's why it's a good idea to be explicit that you don't pay.

exse24Londoner · Yesterday 20:14

Boomer55 · Yesterday 17:20

The NHS works to its own mythical agenda. It’s a overfunded inefficient monolith. 🙄

absolute nonsense. Another Daily Mail reader who has been fortunate to have good health I assume

AlternateLook · Yesterday 20:16

exse24Londoner · Yesterday 20:14

absolute nonsense. Another Daily Mail reader who has been fortunate to have good health I assume

I thought Sarah Palin had wandered onto the thread....

exse24Londoner · Yesterday 20:21

Badbadbunny · Yesterday 11:53

Nail on the head. It's a national religion that people aren't allowed to criticise however crap they/their loved ones are treated.

personally I don't mind people criticising their experiences of the NHS - there is a lot that isn't right. The thing I find objectionable are the sweeping statements.... "the NHS is crap" ""overfunded" blah blah blah. Don't do the hard work for the parties that want to dismantle the NHS & then let their best friends make a shit ton of money from health care (see covid mask & PPE farce which Johnsons friends making a killing)

exse24Londoner · Yesterday 20:22

AlternateLook · Yesterday 20:16

I thought Sarah Palin had wandered onto the thread....

what makes you think she hasn't

Somersetbaker · Yesterday 20:34

If you don't like the NHS there's no reason you can't choose an alternative. The NHS is funded from general taxation, like education and roads, so you don't personally pay anything for it. I personally object to my taxes paying for grifters like Fartage and Tice but that's the price of living in a democracy.

RedToothBrush · Yesterday 20:43

Somersetbaker · Yesterday 20:34

If you don't like the NHS there's no reason you can't choose an alternative. The NHS is funded from general taxation, like education and roads, so you don't personally pay anything for it. I personally object to my taxes paying for grifters like Fartage and Tice but that's the price of living in a democracy.

This isn't true.

There are lots of things you can't get privately for health in the UK.

Unless you live in the right area (I believe there's now three in England) you simply can't go private for maternity services.

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 20:59

RedToothBrush · Yesterday 20:43

This isn't true.

There are lots of things you can't get privately for health in the UK.

Unless you live in the right area (I believe there's now three in England) you simply can't go private for maternity services.

If you choose private care you can travel to a location where it’s available. I don’t suppose The Portland cares where you live.

AlternateLook · Yesterday 21:09

Somersetbaker · Yesterday 20:34

If you don't like the NHS there's no reason you can't choose an alternative. The NHS is funded from general taxation, like education and roads, so you don't personally pay anything for it. I personally object to my taxes paying for grifters like Fartage and Tice but that's the price of living in a democracy.

Fartage? Really? What age are you... Who's Tice supposed to be, by the way...?

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 21:25

AlternateLook · Yesterday 21:09

Fartage? Really? What age are you... Who's Tice supposed to be, by the way...?

Richard Tice, deputy leader of Reform.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Yesterday 21:27

It’s ‘free at the point of use.’
We all know it’s paid for by the taxpayer.

Msmeowski · Yesterday 23:27

Somersetbaker · Yesterday 20:34

If you don't like the NHS there's no reason you can't choose an alternative. The NHS is funded from general taxation, like education and roads, so you don't personally pay anything for it. I personally object to my taxes paying for grifters like Fartage and Tice but that's the price of living in a democracy.

So go private as opposed to simply offer some feedback? That’s proportionate isn’t it? Good luck with travelling to that private a&e.

mumumental · Today 00:19

The trouble with some feedback is that it is based on ignorance.

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