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Matt Walsh.. but is he right about this one?

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Walkyrie · 30/05/2026 22:28

Yes it’s Matt Walsh but I thought this was an interesting post. What do you think? I somewhat agree with him although I can think of a handful of things that will probably live and die in the 2020s (socks over leggings, hopefully).

Matt Walsh.. but is he right about this one?
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footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:17

It seems to be just wide legged jeans or sweat pants with a tight t shirt and UGGs or skinny trainers. A basic 90s vibe but quite pared back.

UGGs are a good example, so in the first wave in the early 00s I remember that they were ubiquitous but there was a wide variety of styles and colours, some people worn long ones, some short, some rolled them over, knit ones etc Now I see 6 girls in a group wearing the exact same pair.

Im a 90s tween/teen so am into trainers but again there was a variety, some wore Nikes, some wore Adidas etc and within that a number of different styles. I was at the Emirates stadium recently wanting for the toilet and in the queue of 30 ish woman 90% were wearing Samba’s

Sweetbeansandmochi · 30/05/2026 23:19

So I can think of some styles - so young men about 22 -32. They go to the gym, have fit physique, totally hairless and have these hairstyles where they shave around their head and have no side burns and floppy hair on top.

Then for the younger women there has been a real casual trend where everything looks comfortable. Although to me it looks sloppy. However, that I don’t understand it - is the mark of a good generational difference imo.

There has also been a death blow to the stiletto heel. People of course still wear them (me) but they look old fashioned.

Walkyrie · 30/05/2026 23:20

TooBigForMyBoots · 30/05/2026 23:17

Avengers. All the movies, especially the last ones.Sad
Taylor Swift.
Inside No.9.
Breaking Bad.
Game of Thrones.
Walking Dead.
Black Mirror.
Beyonce.

That's just off the top of my head. I was in my 30s and 40s in the 2010s so not exactly young, cool and plugged in.Blush

Taylor Swift has been around a good 15 years now kind of proving my point! The rest of your list is all 2000s or at the very latest 2012.

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footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:22

When I was a teenager In the 90s, the clothes I wore were completely different from the clothes my mum wore in the 60s and 70s which were clearly from a totally different era. There are trainers for sale in JD Sports which haven’t changed in 30+ years!!

@floppybit yep I have some Nike Airs that I still wear that all the boys students are wearing. Lots of them have the same backpack DH wore to school and
Is it because we haven’t grown up?! 😆

footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:24

Blimms · 30/05/2026 23:10

Older generations always have a habit of thinking that things were better in their own youth. Better music, better clothes, better style etc.

London in the 90s was amazing for a teen & I don’t think that’s just because I was young.

Itsanewdawnitsanewdayitsanewlife4me · 30/05/2026 23:24

Is it not more that different decades had different levels of rebellion and now we are in 2026 and there is nothing to rebel against anymore as everything is more normalised now? Music was seen as rebellion as was clothing and styles. We had to 'respect our elders' even if they were complete abusive fuckers and now nobody has to just go with the flow anymore they can say and do what they want without being told they are being rebellious etc.

footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:27

Beyonce

I listened to Destiny Child at 6th form in the late 90s

Sweetbeansandmochi · 30/05/2026 23:28

Well I was wearing jeans and a hoodie aged 14 and I still wear that outfit sometimes. Both my sons would wear a similar outfit. In fact today, my husband and two sons all wore the same outfit - white t shirt and black shorts- and that was unplanned.

It’s very homogenous and samey.

Walkyrie · 30/05/2026 23:28

footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:27

Beyonce

I listened to Destiny Child at 6th form in the late 90s

Lose My Breath!

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tttigress · 30/05/2026 23:29

It does seem odd that movie stars from the 1980s/1990s for example Tom Cruise are still be promoted for action roles.

That is historically not normal

footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:29

@Sweetbeansandmochi good point about young men, they differently look different & are more grown up looking some how.

footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:31

tttigress · 30/05/2026 23:29

It does seem odd that movie stars from the 1980s/1990s for example Tom Cruise are still be promoted for action roles.

That is historically not normal

Isn’t he considered the last “movie star” because you don’t really get that actor or actress nowadays that is in a string of hits & people buy movie tickets just to see them.

footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:37

Actually one trend I can think of in recent years in the Korean influence eg K Pop, TV like Squid games Demon hunters, food choices, K beauty etc

Sweetbeansandmochi · 30/05/2026 23:37

With this kind of thing you have to follow the money. Don’t like three big companies own most of the brands?

Walkyrie · 30/05/2026 23:37

Are bands still fashionable? Are there any current favourites? The last one I can think of is 1 Direction…

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footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:39

Walkyrie · 30/05/2026 23:37

Are bands still fashionable? Are there any current favourites? The last one I can think of is 1 Direction…

I suppose it’s just the K-Pop ones

Wonder why there aren’t any UK ones & we haven’t seem to have had a proper super famous solo female pop star in years

fashionqueen0123 · 30/05/2026 23:40

Walkyrie · 30/05/2026 22:49

Yes I do miss everyone watching Eastenders in simultaneous suspense then chatting about it the next day!

I think this is partly what made the Traitors so successful

footbeds · 30/05/2026 23:42

Oh there is Dua Lipa but she seems so mediocre, I don’t understand why she has no competition.

Sweetbeansandmochi · 30/05/2026 23:43

I went to see The Devil Wears Prada 2 and one of the things was there was an edge to the first one. No one in fashion wanted to have anything to do with it because Anna Wintour was spitting. So they had to be creative.

Devil Wears Prada 2 was a scene by scene recreation with some mix and match locations added in. And it was embraced by the fashion establishment and was a product placement dream. There was something safe and uncreative about it.

Hiwever, the actresses looked hardly any older and in some ways better 20 years on…that’s not normal.

fashionqueen0123 · 30/05/2026 23:45

floppybit · 30/05/2026 23:09

Yes!! I’ve been saying this for years and not heard anyone else say it until now. The thing that brought it home to me was having children and watching them wear the same clothes and trainers that I wore when I was younger ( and still wear now). It’s like time has stood still in that regard since the arrival of the smart phone. When I was a teenager In the 90s, the clothes I wore were completely different from the clothes my mum wore in the 60s and 70s which were clearly from a totally different era. There are trainers for sale in JD Sports which haven’t changed in 30+ years!!

And the trainers fashionable now are ones you wouldn’t have been seen dead in back in our childhood!

Wishiwasincornwall · Yesterday 00:02

Beige/nude mum, dad and children matching outfits. Young men with the mullets, mustache, black nose ring, ear stretcher, patchwork tattoo combo. Girls going clubbing in casual clothes and trainers. Hallyu (Korean skincare/kpop/kdramas/korean food),

MaidMiriam · Yesterday 00:13

Walkyrie · 30/05/2026 22:56

I mean I can definitely think of a few things which are ‘local’ to the last few years, or 10 years ago. But it feels like we can look at a photo and instantly know if it’s from the 70s, 80s, 90s, 2000s. But then it kind of stalls and I actually don’t know? The look seems much more generic (and flattering!). But you don’t really see people with interesting hair or fashions any more, and the colours are very muted.

I think we just need a bit more time and distance for each decade to feel distinctive. I felt about the 90s and 2000s how you do about the 2010s, but now can easily date photos from that time, and my DD is into 'Y2K' fashion.

OooPourUsACupLove · Yesterday 00:21

I think it's streaming. Because everything is always available all the time, people are as likely to be watching or listening to something from 10 years ago as now. So there's no real sense of "now" anymore in popular culture.

MightyDandelionEsq · Yesterday 00:28

The thing I noticed from around 2015-2017 was how miserable everything got and far too serious.

TV got super serious and most shows have to have some form of titillation or message. I miss the more carefree light shows of the early/late 2000s like Desperate Housewives & Ugly Betty. Or the many 30 min comedies like How I met your mother or Big bang theory or Friends. Even the camera colours now are grey whereas there used to be a lot of colour. There’s a reason IMO that older shows like those mentioned above are still the top streaming shows, they’re fun.

Music also got really bloody boring and samey. There was a sound to 2000-2014 that was more fun and upbeat. I struggle with the top 40 now and I don’t think it’s age, I think most of the music is just boring.

Decor also got really grey and even buildings look so cold and boring. Every new build or new office looks so drab and uninspiring. The grey and white trend of most household interiors is also deeply miserable to me.

Even fashion isn’t fun. Bring back the glitter and the fun colours of the 90s I say.

Suzanne678 · Yesterday 00:58

I think ubiquitous tattoos are a marker of this generation. I remember looking at Taylor Swift's engagement photos and thinking it's so unusual now to see a young famous man who doesn't have them.