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To be annoyed at this child and family (on holiday)

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Blueeyedstork · 29/05/2026 00:14

We are in Spain at the moment with another couple and their kids. DH and I have one DS (13)

a bit of backstory relevant to this is when I was 11 I was pushed out of a boat on the lake in the Lake District on a school residential trip and was not allowed to get changed until the rest of the activities that afternoon were finished. So I was wet and freezing cold. It also took someone ages to respond to the fact I had been pushed out the boat, so ever since then I have had a phobia of cold water and being out my depth. It’s got to the point where a single spash can freak me out so I stay out of the pool as I know it’s unreasonable on a family resort to ask kids not to splash. it’s my problem and I deal with it.

anyway fast forward the last 2 days we have been sat on sunbeds and there is a family of 3 kids with water guns just squirting them at everyone on the sunbeds. The first time I jumped out of my skin. My husband asked them to stop and other people have asked them to stop including a family with a child with autism who was getting really upset. The parents just shrug and said we are by a pool so we should expect it. Eventually the mothers of the child with autism when to get one of the staff members and they were told to pack it in.

today they were back doing the same thing. They got me twice and once in the face which really panicked me. The staff at the pool today were not bothered and would not tell them to stop so I spend the afternoon sitting away from the pool. I had been there about 10 minutes with my eyes shut before I feel this cold water on my face and one of the little buggers and stood there spraying right in my face. Well I feel off the chair and have injured my shoulder. My husband marched up to the staff and demanded the manager of the hotel. The lifeguard then actually asked the family to stop.

Then coming back from evening meal tonight and we were suddenly all covered with water and one of the little buggers was stood outside his chalet squirting people going past but this time he has obviously been bought the biggest super soaker in the shop. The boy laughed and shouted “dad it’s the lady who screams when she is squirted” (I didn’t really scream just let out a yelp a few times). The dad burst out laughing. I had to hold DH back from confronting him. (The dad is built like a brick shit house and looks the type that would punch someone just for fun)

anyway we when to reception and reported them but the staff don’t seem bothered. I kind of feel these boys will be out to get me tomorrow as they obviously find my reaction funny. the parents don’t give a toss

we have 3 days left and I don’t want to be looking over my shoulder all the time. What can I do or am I being unreasonable about all this

OP posts:
Bonsaibaby · 31/05/2026 09:04

I was on a residential called pgl in the 80s and was being helped out of a Canadian canoe I thought and was then dunked by the leader ‘helping’ me out. I was 9. Who are these dicks?
anyway fortunately I didn’t develop a phobia of cold water and love swimming in the sea but I HATE being squirted by water pistols or splashed it just pisses me off. In fact there was a story years ago about supersoakers and the mum asking if it was ok for her to buy them for an end of term and everyone said no but she couldn’t accept it!

Booboobagins · 31/05/2026 09:38

TinyRebel · 29/05/2026 00:25

Take their toy and break it.

It's what I'd do but parents who sound like AHs would be up in arms!

I loathe people like this - bullies, no respect - the resort needs to deal with it.

Get the manager to threaten to throw them out. Once and for all this needs to stop.

Easterchicken · 31/05/2026 13:25

Are you with a travel company? If so I'd tell the reps

Id also accedentally kick the fucker in the pool and squirt the entire family with condiments

Also put an official complaint in there as I don't think anywhere takes up a complaint after the fact

They sound horrific and I bet the mum has "full time yummy mummy" as her job on facebook

Thingcanonlygetbetter · 31/05/2026 15:12

Rotten wee fuckers, and no wonder with shit parents like that. I would be fuming

SheSaidHummingbird · 31/05/2026 21:46

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Care to expand on my consistently cruel, vicious and abnormal posting history?

Everybodysinthehousetonight · Yesterday 06:15

SheSaidHummingbird · 29/05/2026 01:24

Do you really sat 'when' instead of 'went'?

🤣🤣🤣🤣
I haven't RTFT but this comment is gold🤣🤣.

Sorry OP, that sounds total shit. Scumbag family.

Harhar · Yesterday 08:21

Everybodysinthehousetonight · Yesterday 06:15

🤣🤣🤣🤣
I haven't RTFT but this comment is gold🤣🤣.

Sorry OP, that sounds total shit. Scumbag family.

I imagine this haunting @SheSaidHummingbird for years … the time I tried to be a smart arse and it backfired.

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