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AIBU to feel jealous of families with gardens in summer?

54 replies

RheaTheaShea · 27/05/2026 14:29

AIBU to be jealous of the people who have gardens in this heat and summer in general?

I’m a single parent with a 5 year old and we live in a block of 10 flats. There’s no balcony, only a tiny small shared garden or more of a courtyard actually. And everytime summer comes around I’m so jealous of people posting their gardens and kids in a paddling pools with mud kitchens and generally having a great time.
I know 100% people will say “just move!!” but sometimes it’s not that easy. I definitely had a look into it but now, at this very moment it’s not possible. I just wish i could give my child the joys of outdoor space and a pool and not relying on always going out when it’s so bloody hot and it’s not even enjoyable .

OP posts:
reelcat · 27/06/2026 19:21

I totally get it! One thing that works really well is a small blow up sand tray. Put in on a towel and either use it as a hair salon/spa for barbies/dolls but of shampoo and conditioner and my little one will play for hours, or a car wash for all of their toy cars

Netcurtainnelly · 27/06/2026 19:34

C080889 · 27/05/2026 15:35

Maybe pop a post on a local FB group re use of a garden? A bit out there but I would be more than happy to let someone use my garden for a couple of hours in summer for their little ones to enjoy!

In fact I am going to do this over summer when I am at work.

Do they come in your house and use your toilet too. Mi would have thought this was a safety risk unless you know the people well.

Chocolattecoffeecup · 27/06/2026 19:36

YANBU but you could go to the park and take some kind of shade / sun umbrella for some outdoor time? I realise it's not the same and we're lucky to have a good size garden

Mumwithagreenhouse · 27/06/2026 19:43

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 27/05/2026 18:04

Yanbu
I adore sitting in my garden, tending to my plants, listening to birdsong.
One of my favourite things to do.

How the heck is this helpful or kind, for OP to hear!?

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