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Prepper stupidity?

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Tuxedomaddness · 27/05/2026 09:01

All these people who prep for society breakdown, supply chains broken.

Humans will just break in and steal.your stuff?
If society went down surely it's better to be fit (zombie apocalypse) than have a pantry full of flour and pasta??

OP posts:
Allisgoodtoday · 28/05/2026 07:54

I have stocks in for emergencies but I'm not a prepper. I have health problems and never know when I might not be able to get out to the shops.
We live very rurally and every so often have a power cut...I have food that doesn't need to be reheated, plenty of batteries, torches and so on.
From time to time even the water goes off so I have a stock of those large water barrels too.
For economy reasons I bulk but items when they're on offer - bin bags, washing powder, toiletries and so on, it really helps to save money.
I also keep a well-stocked freezer, lots of home-cooked food. Healthy, economic, easy to take out and defrost. In hot weather when I don't want to cook for hours, nice to just take out a whole meal and reheat quickly.
Therefore, all sorts of reasons to stock up, not just apocalypse prepping.

Cheeseandquackers21 · 28/05/2026 07:59

My dad made sure during covid to bring his toilet rolll in from the car at night to stop any neighbours seeing! And it wasnt even stockpiling just one or 2 packs 😅

Cheeseandquackers21 · 28/05/2026 08:00

But also for just times when youre ill etc if you have a few packs of bread flour and csnt get to shop you can make some etc.

anniegun · 28/05/2026 08:01

Given what is happening in Kent a decent amount of bottled water seems like a sensible precaution at the moment

PurpleThistle7 · 28/05/2026 08:03

Having a few cases of water isn’t exactly an intense pepper mindset. My in-laws live rurally and lose power often. They lose water when the power is out so they always have loads of filled jugs of water stashed. They also live down a narrow road in a place where it snows a lot (they’re in the states) so they have 2-3 week’s of canned and shelf stable food as that’s just responsible in their situation.

I panic bought at the start of covid - went running around Waitrose (shelves were empty at Sainsbury’s!) frenetically grabbing toilet roll and pasta. It wasn’t my best moment but we did use it all and we got to avoid the chaos over the next month (and share with our neighbours because I have no idea why I thought we needed a lifetime supply of pasta).

KitKatPitPat · 28/05/2026 08:21

I find some of the posts on here quite strange - people mocking peppers and talking about how extra bags of pasta won’t save you from zombies. I don’t think any preppers are planning for a zombie apocalypse - on prepper discussion sites that phrase is sometimes used as a kind of jokey shorthand for total societal breakdown, but even that’s not what most preppers are worried about.

As a lot of other people on here have said, we prep so that if there’s an issue like power cuts, cyber attack or terrorism or incompetence stopping safe water supplies, shipping delays, or a dangerous virus making it safer to stay home, we have what we need to stay in our homes while the problems are resolved.

meltingmoaner · 28/05/2026 08:24

some preppers definitely prep for an apocalypse

KitKatPitPat · 28/05/2026 11:26

Yes some preppers are indeed preparing for an apocalypse, like a total societal breakdown. The vast majority are not. The preppers who are preparing for a full apocalypse probably aren’t on mumsnet, as they’re busy growing their own crops at their secluded rural hideaways. I suppose my point is that some of the criticisms on this thread are mocking people buying extra pasta as though that will protect them from zombies - but the people buying extra pasta aren’t trying to do that at all, so it’s a silly criticism.

meltingmoaner · 28/05/2026 11:39

Yes but you said no one was…

I don’t think anyone is laughing at the “prepper” storing food because they live rurally and get snowed in or whatever.

mindutopia · 28/05/2026 11:49

I’m not at all a prepper. I don’t have stocks of anything. Except that I have a chest freezer full of pork because we raise pigs. And during COVID I did have a 20 kg sack of potatoes and 2 emergency butternut squash (which lasted me a year btw, until I decided the emergency was probably over and made soup).

The thing is that people like to shop and hoard stuff. But they don’t actually think through what it would really take to survive a difficult situation. The will have 500 bottles of water and a pantry full of tins. But have not given any thought to what they would actually do if they needed to use them.

500 litres of water isn’t going to last you super long in a disaster. Much better to have and know how to use a water filtration system. I don’t have a pantry full of food (beyond what I’d normally have for day to day use). But I do grow my own food, have animals that could be eaten, have the capacity to hunt. I have a generator. I have an outdoor kitchen that I can cook on using only wood (which I have an entire barn full of).

I used to live in an earthquake prone area and my employer required me to take an earthquake survival course. There was no emphasis on stockpiling. They focused on making sure you knew where your stopcock to turn off the mains water and gas were. And recommended everyone keep a supply of cash in small denominations in the house in case of power cuts or failure of the banking network. No one is going to want to eat beans from a tin for 2 months. I think I’d rather the zombies took me than that. It’s about actually having the infrastructure and skills in place to survive if the conveniences you rely on suddenly disappear. Self sufficiency rather than stockpiling. And I say this as someone who doesn’t really give two shits about prepping.

Lavender14 · 28/05/2026 11:53

I think it's really fascinating. I loved the doomsday preppers TV series but one thing that really stood out to me was that the vast majority of the preppers had experienced some degree of trauma or serious instability in their lives.

I do wonder if prepping, certainly to that extent, is actually akin to a form of hoarding and is more around poor mental wellbeing/ptsd/ocd than just a lifestyle as such.

Cobrakainerd · 28/05/2026 11:54

I only know one prepper couple. They are convinced there will be a complete societal breakdown by 2030. They are prepping around that down to planning on getting weapons ( knives, crossbow etc) to protect themselves and hunt. Utterly nuts.
Oh and live in suburban 3 bed semi. Not sure how much hunting for food they think they will manage to do!

KitKatPitPat · 28/05/2026 12:31

meltingmoaner · 28/05/2026 11:39

Yes but you said no one was…

I don’t think anyone is laughing at the “prepper” storing food because they live rurally and get snowed in or whatever.

I actually said no one is prepping for a zombie apocalypse.

meltingmoaner · 28/05/2026 12:35

Some people are though…

Marycontrarygarden · 28/05/2026 12:38

Walnutslooklikebrains · 27/05/2026 10:43

Depends on the type of 'apocalypse' you're talking about. In a nuclear war we would all be fucked. In a zombie apocalypse we would all be fucked. Societal collapse some of us would be ok, but it would require extreme violence.

People who prep in the UK aren't usually prepping for any of these things. It's more along the lines of fuel, power and grocery prices skyrocketing or another lockdown. In which case it would be useful to have supplies.

I'm not a prepper per se, but I do have skills and supplies to stay alive if needs be.

A particular set of skills?

KitKatPitPat · 28/05/2026 12:39

Ok I’m not sure that anybody out there is actually seriously preparing for an attack by zombies, but I haven’t personally checked with every prepper in the world so I suppose it’s possible.

My point is - it’s silly to mock preppers for thinking extra pasta will save them from an all out societal breakdown, when actually there are no preppers thinking that way. There are serious hardcore preppers who are setting up for apocalypse by going off grid and entirely self sufficient. Then there are people buying a bit of extra pasta. They are not the same people.

meltingmoaner · 28/05/2026 12:43

Ok I’m not sure that anybody out there is actually seriously preparing for an attack by zombies, but I haven’t personally checked with every prepper in the world so I suppose it’s possible.

That’s all

GasPanic · 28/05/2026 13:01

mindutopia · 28/05/2026 11:49

I’m not at all a prepper. I don’t have stocks of anything. Except that I have a chest freezer full of pork because we raise pigs. And during COVID I did have a 20 kg sack of potatoes and 2 emergency butternut squash (which lasted me a year btw, until I decided the emergency was probably over and made soup).

The thing is that people like to shop and hoard stuff. But they don’t actually think through what it would really take to survive a difficult situation. The will have 500 bottles of water and a pantry full of tins. But have not given any thought to what they would actually do if they needed to use them.

500 litres of water isn’t going to last you super long in a disaster. Much better to have and know how to use a water filtration system. I don’t have a pantry full of food (beyond what I’d normally have for day to day use). But I do grow my own food, have animals that could be eaten, have the capacity to hunt. I have a generator. I have an outdoor kitchen that I can cook on using only wood (which I have an entire barn full of).

I used to live in an earthquake prone area and my employer required me to take an earthquake survival course. There was no emphasis on stockpiling. They focused on making sure you knew where your stopcock to turn off the mains water and gas were. And recommended everyone keep a supply of cash in small denominations in the house in case of power cuts or failure of the banking network. No one is going to want to eat beans from a tin for 2 months. I think I’d rather the zombies took me than that. It’s about actually having the infrastructure and skills in place to survive if the conveniences you rely on suddenly disappear. Self sufficiency rather than stockpiling. And I say this as someone who doesn’t really give two shits about prepping.

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I've got a load of tinned beans and yes I would eat them cold for 2 months to stay alive and probably a lot longer.

I see maybe three points to prepping. One is to be prepared for small scale disasters that might mean you can't by food or have services for say a month.

The other is to allow maybe medium term survival. The point of this is to store enough so that everyone else out there who is unprepared dies and society reestablishes some sort of equilibrium, thus lowering competition for resources and making it easier for you to survive. In this instance you need to store quite a bit maybe 6 months worth.

The third is to allow long term survival/fully independent living forever. This obviously requires a lot of kit and know how - expensive. Storing food to last you forever is impossible.

I think 1 is pretty low involvement and can be done at very low cost, so it makes little sense not to do it. 2 is harder work, requires the storage space and logistics, but probably isn't so expensive to implement so long as you rotate food etc. 3 is very costly and requires time to be devoted to learning skills, and for many people the equipment will have no dual use so you could be spending a lot of money on something that never happens.

With a bit of thought and low cost you can buy the kind of things that will see you through but you do need to apply a few brain cells. Water purifying tablets are more useful than bottled water for example, which would just get used up in no time and take up huge amounts of storage space.

The problem is people just aren't capable of thinking of what they need to do. For example my friend has a load of tinned steak and kidney pies. Great if they can be cooked, not so great to eat cold (you could eat them but they would taste foul). I wouldn't trade them for my tins of baked beans and rice pudding because I want something that I could keep down.

warmsmell · 28/05/2026 13:02

Tuxedomaddness · 27/05/2026 09:01

All these people who prep for society breakdown, supply chains broken.

Humans will just break in and steal.your stuff?
If society went down surely it's better to be fit (zombie apocalypse) than have a pantry full of flour and pasta??

Indeed. It doesn't matter what you store, someone with a gun will take it away from you.

PenelopePinkerton · 28/05/2026 13:07

I do some basic prepping. I live in a secluded area and have excellent security. I have a natural spring and I grow my own fruit and veg.

MyAutumnCrow · 28/05/2026 18:14

meltingmoaner · 28/05/2026 12:35

Some people are though…

I want their names and addresses.

SurreySenMum26 · 28/05/2026 18:16

Tuxedomaddness · 27/05/2026 09:14

Well people would just target wealthy neighbourhoods first?

Your presuming peppers are wealthy. No one is going to break into my house for my 38p Tesco value 2l spring water stash, nor did they when we had no water for two weeks.They will look at my 2014 plate car outside and rightly presume we are piss poor.

Also in our leafy village we don't get hoards of crime. Sure, come and try to get into my house for my 38p water and stash of 20p dried pasta. But you need to get past the reason I have it in the first place. 4 males over 5, 8 minimum. Either way this never crosses my mind.

When our village lost water people was offering decanting their hot tub for water to flush the loo. No one was contemplating rushing the manor house at the edge of the village.

WonderingWanda · 28/05/2026 18:23

I mean what good is prepping if you are at work when the zombies attack and you get eaten on your way home.

If I was at work when a nuclear bomb went off I'd probably die quite quickly because my classroom has very poorly fitting windows so all the radioactive dust would get in anyway.

Or like in War of the World's, my kids would be listing to music on their airpods and would be oblivious to all the alien drama.

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 28/05/2026 18:46

@Tuxedomaddness- is full “zombie apocalypse and complete society collapse” what you think preppers are prepping for?

I remember pre Covid, the prepping threads on here were focussed on their view the “just in time” logistics approach in the uk supermarkets would be very vulnerable to any shock. They were planning for the threatened hard Brexit that didn’t seem to think about putting delays on every lorry going in and out of Dover would trash food and groceries supplies. In the end, they were right when Covid shock hit the system, it didnt take much to lead to empty shelves and also they were right that it would only be a few weeks before stocks got back to normal.

And then you get preppers like @mindutopiawho is prepping for total social collapse and it being a long term problem, not a couple of months then back to normal. Realistically because I’m not prepared to move house, I can only ever do the “2-3 months” prep.

Walnutslooklikebrains · Yesterday 10:05

Marycontrarygarden · 28/05/2026 12:38

A particular set of skills?

I will find you... 😉

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