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To think that Scarlett's first 2 children are one of the most overlooked bits of Gone With The Wind?

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Jane379 · 25/05/2026 17:11

I was rereading it a few days ago and it struck me how at the end, Scarlett is totally focused on getting Rhett back, nothing else. What happens to poor Wade & Ella afterwards are anyone's guess - especially as Melanie has died and Rhett seems to have checked out, and they were previously acting as surrogate parents. I suppose Mammy would probably end up looking after them?
It's hardly Scarlett's fault that she was expected to have kids despite no desire to, but she should have treated them better once they were born. I think the film toned down her attitude to them a lot, probably because it was seen as too shocking and damaged her heroine sstatus.A retelling in retrospect by Wade or Ella would be an interesting spin-off idea...

Rhett seems a pretty negative parental figure too, I think he's often assessed too positively & romanticised. Unbelievable he had Bonnie jumping like that at only 4,..the whole thing with him & Bonnie was weird, at the end he essentially says he treated her as a substitute for Scarlett.

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XelaM · 28/05/2026 19:53

I won’t think of it now, tomorrow is another day. I use that mentality quite a bit in life.

Literally my life's motto! 😂

KiIIingMeDeftly · 29/05/2026 14:38

This has all prompted me to reread the book!

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