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to be rather shocked at 7 year old neighbour's child coming asking for cigarettes for her mum?

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FoulOlRon · 22/06/2008 19:33

??
''she's only got one left, have you got any she can have?''

Stunned...

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FoulOlRon · 22/06/2008 19:34

obviously neighbour is not 7, her child is.

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tiredemma · 22/06/2008 19:36

My mom used to send me around to the neighbours to ask for "a fag"

FoulOlRon · 22/06/2008 19:38

I mean it's not as if I am on matey terms with this mum or anything. She never speaks to me!

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Hecate · 22/06/2008 19:39

Addiction is a terrible thing! Maybe she's desperate and out of cash?

edam · 22/06/2008 19:40

that is rather old-fashioned. What did you say?

FoulOlRon · 22/06/2008 19:40

I do have some epmpathy, I am a smoker myself occasionally but to send a little kid round??

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Hecate · 22/06/2008 19:40

I suppose the child isn't trying to get some for herself/an older mate? - I know 7 is bloody young, but I've seen a few....

Twiglett · 22/06/2008 19:40

buggerit millenium an' shrimp

findtheriver · 22/06/2008 19:40

Bloody awful way to treat her child, and damn rude to you as well!!

FoulOlRon · 22/06/2008 19:41

hecate - that's what I wondered, which is why i just said no, point blank.

I do have some rolling baccy and papers somewhere in the house but...

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Twiglett · 22/06/2008 19:41

anybody noticed that the OP must be a .... da-da-daaaaaaaa..... smoker ... and in public too for the neighbour to know ...

FoulOlRon · 22/06/2008 19:41

@ Twig

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FoulOlRon · 22/06/2008 19:43

I don't in public, but the mum has caught me in the garden once. I hide it from mine.

And evenas a filthy smoker, I'd not send me kid out blagging them

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findtheriver · 22/06/2008 19:44

twig - that was my first thought, and then I thought I shouldnt make assumptions! Perhaps the neighbour told her kid to knock on every door til she found a fag.

Piffle · 22/06/2008 19:47

bad form for mum not to come and do her own cadging...
my mum used to send my brother and I down to the shops for 20 rothmans when I was oh 6-7 yrs old

And trust me even being as young as 6-7 you have a vested interest in making sure your ma has enough fags.

Piffle · 22/06/2008 19:48

oh to shops with the money, we were not ordered to lift them or owt

FoulOlRon · 22/06/2008 19:50

but as a smoker, if I run out, I do without! Surely?

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Hecate · 23/06/2008 07:42

HAHAHA you're clearly not a 'proper' smoker! Some folks would sell their firstborn for a dog-end!

FoulOlRon · 23/06/2008 08:52

now she'll never speak to me, will she

I'm quite shocked more of you lot weren't shocked!
Think I'll send my youngest round for a bottle of gin tonight.

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Hecate · 23/06/2008 18:44

Ah well, now you see.. if she had come round to ask if you had a spare fruit shoot, we'd all have been fecking outraged!

TheHedgeWitch · 23/06/2008 18:46

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