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To think most people don’t want solutions, they want someone to blame?

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AccountabilityAverse · 21/05/2026 14:10

Solutions require responsibility. Complaints don’t.

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InveterateWineDrinker · 21/05/2026 14:13

I think this is partly true, but it's more that they want other people to resolve issues, rather than make the effort themselves.

Passaggressfedup · 21/05/2026 15:21

Summed up perfectly in a few words.

NevergonnagiveHughup · 21/05/2026 15:22

Just read the thread on the day out being hijacked by the DS and girlfriend and this sums it up perfectly.

Amirina · 21/05/2026 15:25

Quite often they just want to say their piece. 90% of dealing with customer complaints is let them talk and show that you have listened.

Terrellium · 21/05/2026 15:40

I think there are a lot of people who revel in victimhood, or who expect the government to bail them out of every situation.

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