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Dweetfidilove · 19/05/2026 18:32

Brahumbug · 19/05/2026 17:19

That's why workplace pensions need to be compulsory with no opting out.

The discussion I was listening to says you need to be contributing a minimum of 10% over your working life. I imagine it would be pretty difficult to mandate people pay that much in, when so many are struggling.

NotTheOrdinary · 19/05/2026 18:33

Brahumbug · 19/05/2026 18:31

But imagine you and DH with no resources when retired and no way of doing anything about it

Imagine not being able to pay your rent/mortgage/fuel bills right now.

Lifeomars · 19/05/2026 18:33

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/05/2026 17:33

Lots of people can't afford to.

I'm a carer and whilst I do I work very part time and pay into my work pension it's not a lot. Luckily my state pension has been protected by the fact I get carers allowance.

This was me in a similar way. I was a single parent and the father of my child managed to evade paying any child support and I needed every penny I earned to cover the bills. I worked part time when they were very little, no help with child care in those days (and yes I do think that child care these days is a staggering expense and there needs to be more help) and at times I was so skint I had to skip meals. Also back in the mists of time ery few work places offered a pension scheme so I had the double bind of no money and no scheme other than through a private provider which was unaffordable Fast forward and I could only afford to start paying in at a much later stage in my life, but thank heaven I was able to as the only reason I get by as a retired person is because I have a small pension alongside my state one. With the cost of everything these days I do not know how many people could afford to put in an extra 10%. A lot can barely cover essential costs.

Passaggressfedup · 19/05/2026 18:33

Both my young adult kids are working for the NHS at entry level jobs. They work hard and after paying for their rent, bills and car (got to travel between sites), they genuinely have little left and feel hard done by compared with some others f their friends who haven't gone to uni.

When I find them that at least they are starting to contribute towards their pension, they look at me like I am an alien. I don't blame them, pension was a very far minded concept in my 20s too. I'm so so glad I just paid into it young and didn't question it so that I was able to retire early and go PT in a much less stressful and rewarding job.

I do get though that they can't see it now as I myself do. I hope it will be worth it for them when they reach older age and they can look forward to a comfortable retirement.

Stoicandhappy · 19/05/2026 18:33

So many young people are struggling to pay rent and eat. They simply can’t afford to pay into pensions.

Samysungy · 19/05/2026 18:34

Most will be women who cannot afford as they are single handedly paying for childcare. All the while the husband puts into his....

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/05/2026 18:34

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:32

What could you do to rectify it? It won’t magically change! You need to be proactive!

I know! She needs to do what a stranger on the internet tells her to, they’re bound to know more than she does about her life!

Kirbert2 · 19/05/2026 18:35

Brahumbug · 19/05/2026 18:31

But imagine you and DH with no resources when retired and no way of doing anything about it

If you are struggling financially then you have little choice but to think of the now rather than the future. Bills need to be paid now so for people struggling financially, those current bills will take priority because your landlord isn't going to take kindly to ''Sorry, I didn't pay the rent this month because I saved it for my pension instead''.

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:35

Passaggressfedup · 19/05/2026 18:33

Both my young adult kids are working for the NHS at entry level jobs. They work hard and after paying for their rent, bills and car (got to travel between sites), they genuinely have little left and feel hard done by compared with some others f their friends who haven't gone to uni.

When I find them that at least they are starting to contribute towards their pension, they look at me like I am an alien. I don't blame them, pension was a very far minded concept in my 20s too. I'm so so glad I just paid into it young and didn't question it so that I was able to retire early and go PT in a much less stressful and rewarding job.

I do get though that they can't see it now as I myself do. I hope it will be worth it for them when they reach older age and they can look forward to a comfortable retirement.

If rent is a struggle could they not move home for a few years and save ? So many young adults moving out of home too soon without the means to financially support themselves properly. Are they in a house share or living alone?

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:37

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/05/2026 18:34

I know! She needs to do what a stranger on the internet tells her to, they’re bound to know more than she does about her life!

Finding affordable rent is too much like common sense then ? Ok

LashesZ · 19/05/2026 18:37

I pay in to my pension but at this rate the state pension age will be 80 and I’ll probably be in the ground by then.

JJkate · 19/05/2026 18:39

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:25

Of course I know how expensive rents are in some areas. I rented for years in my twenties. Could only ever afford a room in a shared house! No one should be paying 51% of their wages on rent and if they are, they either they live alone when they could rent a room or they are living in a area in which accommodation is much too expensive for their salary. I could never afford afford to live in London for example. So I don’t!

Where I live in the north, most rooms in shared houses are £700 to £800 a month mostly sharing with 4 or 5 others.

frozendaisy · 19/05/2026 18:39

Stoicandhappy · 19/05/2026 18:33

So many young people are struggling to pay rent and eat. They simply can’t afford to pay into pensions.

Yeah this is so true
the people reaching pension age now lived in a much easier economic climate regarding basics and periods of steady economic growth - job market - if they only have the state pension that’s not because they didn’t have numerous opportunities to save - they chose not to or couldn’t when times were good - expecting younger generations to do the same is ignorance

HowdoyoureallyKnow · 19/05/2026 18:40

@frozendaisy charities are trying to plug the gap and also the times paper has a crusade to get financial education into schools.

I'm saying it again parents get a sipp open for your children !

PinkyFlamingo · 19/05/2026 18:42

Greenwitchart · 19/05/2026 17:45

It is hardly surprising.

Many people simply don't have enough money left at the end of the month after paying extortionate rents, utility bills, transport and food costs.

We have stagnant wages and less job vacancies as well.

I am sure most people would love to be able to save for a pension but the reality is that many simply can't afford to.

This is it in a nutshell. I'm a top band 6 nurse in NHS Scotland and have never been able to afford the pension contributions. I feel sick thinking about it but I don't don't have the £350 a month it would cost me

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:42

JJkate · 19/05/2026 18:39

Where I live in the north, most rooms in shared houses are £700 to £800 a month mostly sharing with 4 or 5 others.

Where ?

Lopella · 19/05/2026 18:43

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 19/05/2026 17:24

The report I heard said that this is not sufficient, and we should be saving at least 10% of our income monthly.

I have opted out because I can't afford to pay my bills otherwise. While I'm still paying 30% of my wage for childcare (don't qualify for UC) there isnt a mission of me saving 10% of my wage on my pension. Removing opt out would tip me over the edge.

Sylv10249012 · 19/05/2026 18:44

Brahumbug · Today 17:19

That's why workplace pensions need to be compulsory with no opting out.

I agree in principle but even having a private pension that you have contributed to is no guarantee of anything. I confess to being scared about the financial future in old age.

Plenty of pension funds run into trouble or have deficits or are victims of Robert Maxwell style frauds. A pension is just a form of investment and any company that is an investing company can go bankrupt - no matter how big or how much it looks 'too big to fail'.

Anyone remember when Maersk bought Sea-Land Services and said it had no intention of funding the deficit in the pension plan because it wasn't legally required to? Sea-Land Services’ UK members were facing a loss of up to 50% of their future pensions. In fact, they later did a u-turn because of bad publicity (but also because they could afford to) and funded the deficit but stories like this really worry me.

I fear that the state pension which is part of my long term planning will get abolished before I get there...

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:44

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:42

Where ?

Where exactly other than somewhere like Manchester would a room in a shared house be £800?

nearlylovemyusername · 19/05/2026 18:44

Lougle · 19/05/2026 17:29

According to the National Office for Statistics, the percentage of working age people who are out of work is hovering at 4.9-5% this year. The percentage of working age people who were out of work in 2016 was 4.9-5.1%. So there's not a big change at all.

???
22% of working age population are economically inactive. Means they don't work and aren't looking for work

Lifeomars · 19/05/2026 18:47

NotTheOrdinary · 19/05/2026 18:11

Have you any idea how expensive rents are?

I swear some people on MN live in some sort of bubble with no idea how much of a struggle it is for some people to get through the month.

Exactly this. I live in a bad area and the rents here for two up two down houses with no garden, no parking other than the street is around £1,200 a month and you should see the state of some of the houses. If you were on the national minimum wage and renting alone (which is all but unaffordable) you would be left with about £550 a month for all your other bills This is why many of these little houses are unofficial HMOs and are overcrowded, the consequences of very high rents go wider than people struggling to make ends meet. There are five adults in the house next to me. There is a community kitchen near me which does a free hot meal once a week and the queues stretch down the street. Likewise for the local food bank which has now moved into permanent premises, a sad sign of the times

frozendaisy · 19/05/2026 18:48

nearlylovemyusername · 19/05/2026 18:44

???
22% of working age population are economically inactive. Means they don't work and aren't looking for work

So?
If they don’t need to earn money and don’t need benefits, what’s the problem?

Lougle · 19/05/2026 18:48

nearlylovemyusername · 19/05/2026 18:44

???
22% of working age population are economically inactive. Means they don't work and aren't looking for work

Yes, but that doesn't tell you much. Economically inactive will be a mixture of mothers who are SAHP, carers, disabled people who can't work, those who have made their fortune and are living the dream, students, etc.

Apprentice26 · 19/05/2026 18:49

Samysungy · 19/05/2026 18:34

Most will be women who cannot afford as they are single handedly paying for childcare. All the while the husband puts into his....

If they married him, they divorced him and take half but most of them are too daft to get the paperwork done before the babies come along

Bollixtothat · 19/05/2026 18:50

Lifeomars · 19/05/2026 18:47

Exactly this. I live in a bad area and the rents here for two up two down houses with no garden, no parking other than the street is around £1,200 a month and you should see the state of some of the houses. If you were on the national minimum wage and renting alone (which is all but unaffordable) you would be left with about £550 a month for all your other bills This is why many of these little houses are unofficial HMOs and are overcrowded, the consequences of very high rents go wider than people struggling to make ends meet. There are five adults in the house next to me. There is a community kitchen near me which does a free hot meal once a week and the queues stretch down the street. Likewise for the local food bank which has now moved into permanent premises, a sad sign of the times

No one on min wage can afford to rent alone. They’d be daft to even think it’s possible. And minimum wage jobs are plentiful so there’s the option to move somewhere where the rent isn’t £1200 a month ?

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