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Greenwitchart · 19/05/2026 17:53

Ohfudgeoff · 19/05/2026 17:47

This is why it should be paid straight into a workplace pension at source, with no opt out. There's no choice then and you cut your cloth accordingly.

I think there needs to be a better education in schools and colleges around personal finances and managing finances, including pensions within that.

Your comment is incredibly patronising.

Most people already carefully manage their finance but can't control external factors such as housing/utilities/food/transport costs.

Haven't you noticed that there is a cost of living crisis and that wages have not kept up?

I am always amazed how quickly some people love jumping in to kick people who are struggling down rather than look at the facts first and try to use a bit of common sense...

IkeaMeatballGravy · 19/05/2026 17:53

I think a lot of people now expect to work until they drop tbh.

For others it's just too far away to worry about when they are living hand to mouth.

Beyondamountainandoverthesea · 19/05/2026 17:53

Eudaimonia11 · 19/05/2026 17:29

I’ve tried so hard to keep paying into my NHS pension but it’s unaffordable. I already have 15% deducted for student loans and my rent is 51% of my take home pay so the 9.8% pension deduction is just getting me further into debt so I’m going to have to opt out of it. If housing was reasonably affordable, I’d be able to save for retirement on top of paying into my pension. Imagine that!

We’re not all feckless losers wanting to scrounge off the state in our old age. Some of us worked out backsides off to improve our financial position only for the cost of living/housing crisis to happen and make us wonder why we bothered!

Believe me you are going to seriously regret this decision in the future.

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/05/2026 17:53

Ohfudgeoff · 19/05/2026 17:47

This is why it should be paid straight into a workplace pension at source, with no opt out. There's no choice then and you cut your cloth accordingly.

I think there needs to be a better education in schools and colleges around personal finances and managing finances, including pensions within that.

you’ve got to be realistic. Someone who is forced to contribute £80 a month with an employer matching isn’t going to have a big enough pension to live on.

unfortunately this is one area where something isn’t better than nothing.

Ohfudgeoff · 19/05/2026 17:53

KurtCobainLover · 19/05/2026 17:51

That’s the issue though - some people can’t cut back anymore than they already have. If wages covered the cost of living then you wouldn’t have universal credit top ups for people in low wage jobs.

But people wouldn't be cutting back if Hey never had it in the first place because it was saved directly into a pension.

Wistfulwisteria · 19/05/2026 17:54

I fully believe that the pension age will just rise until it becomes more affordable.

No government will make it means tested because no one will ever vote for that.

It will mean most people working into their 70’s probably but it wasn’t meant to last for 20 years of retirement when it was conceived

caringcarer · 19/05/2026 17:54

Brahumbug · 19/05/2026 17:19

That's why workplace pensions need to be compulsory with no opting out.

Yes definitely money taken for pension before employee gets it. Also employers should be paying more towards pensions.

IkeaMeatballGravy · 19/05/2026 17:54

I have definately seen an increase in much older people working where I live, particularly in supermarkets.

Blundl · 19/05/2026 17:55

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 19/05/2026 17:46

How? If you have enough in a private pension you don't need a state one.

But people will know the cut off amounts and keep under them, people will be getting their pensions out at 57 so it's gone by the time they get state pension or just stop saving. Similar to how they do with tax cliff edges. There would be an absolute uproar from the public sector who get the best pensions.

Cutchemist · 19/05/2026 17:56

IkeaMeatballGravy · 19/05/2026 17:54

I have definately seen an increase in much older people working where I live, particularly in supermarkets.

Which means the young people can’t get jobs

Canonlythinkofthisone · 19/05/2026 17:56

I'll be honest with you. I was auto enrolled and paying in for years. Then I had a child. Then the cost of everything rose. I ceased deductions, thinking. When childcare costs drop, I'll opt back in. Then childcare costs dropped and the price of food went up and up. Then the bills. Then the food some more, then the bills some more, then the food, then the fuel sky rocketed. I keep saying I will opt back in. But frankly. I barely make it to payday without breaking into a sweat. I simply don't have the cash to put a couple of hundred a month into a pension pot that I may never see. I'm one of what we call the squeezed middle. I earn "enough" on paper. The reality is, I don't have enough cash. So, shoot me when I get to retirement age.

caringcarer · 19/05/2026 17:56

I told my DC to pay into a pension immediately they take their first job then increase payments each year. It's never to early to start and if they have never had money to spend it's not missed. Some people just don't bother until they are about 40 then suddenly think I have no pension.

frozendaisy · 19/05/2026 17:57

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/05/2026 17:44

If they raise it much more half of us will be dead before we claim it (although perhaps that's what they want!). They'd also have to raise the age you can claim out of work benefits and carry pip on for longer, I'm not sure it will save them money.

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But they will make PIP harder to claim.

Money from the state will become increasingly more difficult and less generous.

Everyone is aware that the state pension is not a lot of money to live on, and you don’t receive it until you are pushing 70.

Almost everyone wants to work, if nothing else people want warm, secure housing.

A functioning society has state welfare payments as a safety net it’s not a family trust fund.

Everyone past working age should get the state pension. That’s just civilised. It should be a percentage of the welfare pie divided between the number who require it.

If absolutely loaded pensioners say “keep mine” theirs should go back into that percentage to be divided between their peer group. This is just being practical because the country still needs everything else the state provides.

This is the start of a decline in the standard of living and that includes retirement. It’s the same for everyone, we are all in the same decline. The golden age of retirement is fading away.

caringcarer · 19/05/2026 17:57

Canonlythinkofthisone · 19/05/2026 17:56

I'll be honest with you. I was auto enrolled and paying in for years. Then I had a child. Then the cost of everything rose. I ceased deductions, thinking. When childcare costs drop, I'll opt back in. Then childcare costs dropped and the price of food went up and up. Then the bills. Then the food some more, then the bills some more, then the food, then the fuel sky rocketed. I keep saying I will opt back in. But frankly. I barely make it to payday without breaking into a sweat. I simply don't have the cash to put a couple of hundred a month into a pension pot that I may never see. I'm one of what we call the squeezed middle. I earn "enough" on paper. The reality is, I don't have enough cash. So, shoot me when I get to retirement age.

If you pay into a SIPP why do you think you would never see it? It would be a personal pension in your name.

Ohfudgeoff · 19/05/2026 17:58

Backedoffhackedoff · 19/05/2026 17:53

you’ve got to be realistic. Someone who is forced to contribute £80 a month with an employer matching isn’t going to have a big enough pension to live on.

unfortunately this is one area where something isn’t better than nothing.

Why would it

Greenwitchart · 19/05/2026 17:58

Apprentice26 · 19/05/2026 17:45

Why do they get to retire? They have to keep working. It’s that simple.
In whatever capacity they can manage, topped up by universal credits if necessary but they need to be subjected to the same conditions as single mums are back to work after 12 months of giving birth

I think we seem to get dumber and dumber as a nation...

Are you really unable to understand why people who reach old age and are seeing their physical and mental capacity decline drastically can no longer work?

Or that employers will not employ people in their 60s/70s or 80s?

You will get old one day. Maybe then you will understand.

BoredZelda · 19/05/2026 17:58

FernFaery · 19/05/2026 17:22

I agree but there are millions not in work and the number is rising.

2 million of those “millions” are people who have retired early or chosen to leave the workforce because they are financially stable

frozendaisy · 19/05/2026 18:00

Blundl · 19/05/2026 17:55

But people will know the cut off amounts and keep under them, people will be getting their pensions out at 57 so it's gone by the time they get state pension or just stop saving. Similar to how they do with tax cliff edges. There would be an absolute uproar from the public sector who get the best pensions.

State pension is deducted from public pensions. Well not deducted, sort of included in their pension amount.

HoskinsChoice · 19/05/2026 18:00

FernFaery · 19/05/2026 17:27

So you can’t afford to be self employed? Should you be looking for a job with a workplace pension?

It's not about affordability, it's about risk. When you're self employed, you're much more vulnerable to economic circumstances beyond your control. Covid is the obvious example. The recent change of government is another. So the self-employed can't risk sticking money into a pension as much as an employed person can.

It would be interesting to know how many of the self-employed people that they say don't have a pension do have money elsewhere so that it is still saved for the future but more accessible in an emergency. I'm a good example of this. My pension is mediocre against my earnings but I have considerably more assets than many. It would be crazy for me to put everything into a pension when it is totally inaccessible.

museumum · 19/05/2026 18:01

yellowhatonacapybara · 19/05/2026 17:26

The big problem for the self-employed (and I am one of them) is that given my income fluctuates significantly and I need to put aside money to live during the times I have lower incomings, locking money away, even with the tax benefits, feels like a very bad idea.

I put most of my retirement savings into a pension but also some into an investment isa. This is because there's no point in having a great pension but going bankrupt in my late 50s. I'd advise anybody self-employed to have a pension pot but also a 'hopefully won't be dipped into till retirement' savings pot that can be if the worst were to happen before then.

Kirbert2 · 19/05/2026 18:03

I can't work but it's something I try not to think about because it's one of several things that keeps me up at night if I think about it for too long.

MinglyMadly · 19/05/2026 18:04

yellowhatonacapybara · 19/05/2026 17:26

The big problem for the self-employed (and I am one of them) is that given my income fluctuates significantly and I need to put aside money to live during the times I have lower incomings, locking money away, even with the tax benefits, feels like a very bad idea.

Appreciate the feeling.

But the effect of compound interest over time is huge. Pay little if you must but pay something. Even a little put by over say 30 years can rack up to something very worthwhile.

Apprentice26 · 19/05/2026 18:04

Greenwitchart · 19/05/2026 17:58

I think we seem to get dumber and dumber as a nation...

Are you really unable to understand why people who reach old age and are seeing their physical and mental capacity decline drastically can no longer work?

Or that employers will not employ people in their 60s/70s or 80s?

You will get old one day. Maybe then you will understand.

Employers will have no choice but to employ the 16 and 70-year-olds because there aren’t any babies being born to replace them
They will have to work with what they’ve got
I’m quite old, actually.
I’m fully intend to milk the system for all it’s worth whilst we still can but I’m also making provision to ensure that my youngsters don’t end up in many of the situations we see described day and day out on Mum’s net because people are self-employed when they don’t actually really have a purposeful job?
People have the second child that they can’t afford
Then the third and then the fourth
It will take a generation or 2 to sort itself out, but people will learn the hard way

caringcarer · 19/05/2026 18:04

Ohfudgeoff · 19/05/2026 17:47

This is why it should be paid straight into a workplace pension at source, with no opt out. There's no choice then and you cut your cloth accordingly.

I think there needs to be a better education in schools and colleges around personal finances and managing finances, including pensions within that.

I agree, not all parents set a good example or educate their DC about the importance of savings and pensions therefore schools could fulfil this gap in PHSE.

binliner · 19/05/2026 18:05

Housing costs eat into incomes & the old pension schemes don’t exist for most now, the current ones are often not enough particularly in the private sector.