I’m a little younger (though really by not very much!) so I can relate to much of what you say about the era.
BUT the fact is, there are advantages and disadvantages to being born into any generation. Like you, when I had children there were no free childcare hours or wraparound school care. Maternity leave was 12 weeks! I returned to work with a bf baby and for several years while our children were tiny, all my pay went on childcare. When our eldest started school it was a proper juggling act, spending hours finding someone who could do before school care, another provision for after school - the school based wraparound care didn’t exist. One of the main reasons I remained in work was for my occupational pension, because even though at this point in time, I was eligible for the state pension at age 60, I always felt it was my personal responsibility to not solely rely on that.
here I am, many years later, and I’m not eligible for my state pension until 67. But by working full time for pretty much my whole adult life (bar short mat leave and a couple of years working 3 days) I’ve put myself in a good position for retirement.
My adult dd certainly has some things tougher. House prices, student debt. However, should she have children, she’ll get a whole year on mat leave rather than 12 weeks. Shell then be eligible for a damn good chunk of childcare paid for once she returns to work.
like I say, upsides and downsides for every generation. The thing which grinds many people’s gears with the WASPI women is that many of them seem to have spent years out of the workplace or only working part time, often made possible by having a husband working full time (while never having the option of state pension at 60!) They will also have had free higher education if they went to university. And now they’re bleating about ‘not knowing’ that they wouldn’t be able to ‘retire’ at 60… even though some of the WASPI age women I know were not even working full time in their fifties anyway, so god knows that they thought they were retiring from!