A friend of my husband and I offered to give some of her son's stuff when I announced my pregnancy. She said if it's a boy she can give me a lot of stuff including breast pump she didn't use. So last week I was planning to buy some baby clothes and decided to ask her when I can take it. We arranged a date but on the day she cancelled saying her partner is not well.
She said if we could do it another time and that's it. I said it's fine and hope he feels better. A colleague of mine also said she would give me stuff but nothing so far.
I got a little annoyed from the first one and bought almost everything over the last few days. Am I being reasonable? I just find it a waste of time waiting around for people. I also wish that I didn't ask her in the first place as it seems like begging.