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To wonder why people choose to live in London?

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Cantbloodyrememberthenameonthread · 12/05/2026 09:36

I always wonder. And reading a recent thread prompted me to ask the question. Why do people do it by choice? People complain about the house prices (rightly), ulez, nursery fees, cost of everything being more expensive, commutes, tubes etc.

if you’re not absolutely tied to London for work or health or I guess family. Why do you choose to live there when there are so many cheaper easier lifestyle options in the country?

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JassyRadlett · 14/05/2026 17:27

user73654823 · 14/05/2026 17:27

No, I don't understand improperly constructed, incomprehensible ones.

Still waiting for your proposed solutions to the problems you're seeing.

And also some enlightenment on how you, a Londoner, moving out of London and driving up prices and taking a space from someone born where you now reside, is any different?

Well obvs Original Londoners get a special past for being morally superior beings.

goodej862 · 14/05/2026 17:38

TiredBeans · 14/05/2026 14:53

I feel like posts like the one above - ‘dirty, cramped, high buildings, consumerist’ etc - are based on a few trips to Oxford Street in the rush hour on a bank holiday 🤣

Not at all. I have family in zones 1 through to 3. It’s all over priced craziness.

allchange5 · 14/05/2026 17:43

The traffic in London is no worse than other urban parts of the SE. It's 20 mph now on most roads anyway. I find it terrifying driving on 60 mph roads in the countryside - especially at night when you're always having to dip your lights and hope whatever is coming round the next bend does the same.

No idea how the poster is getting black fingernails - unless she's doing unsolicited gardening or something in her day trip. I wonder what happens to her in other cities. Heaven forbid she ever walks the streets of Paris or NYC.

GlamDress · 14/05/2026 18:12

Ginmonkeyagain · 14/05/2026 15:22

I get the impression @Goldenbear moved out of London and has never got over it.

Also how the fuck are people visiting getting black during under their fingernails and black snot? What are you all doing - licking tube tunnels or something?

There is certainly a massive angry chip on shoulder there.

GlamDress · 14/05/2026 18:17

goodej862 · 14/05/2026 15:53

Sure it does but the city is clean, safe and the Japanese are nicer people. Tokyo has cooler art and food and music scene than London.

My son has just come back from Tokyo. He said it was cool and busy and enormous! He felt it was much uglier than London but he loved it nonetheless. He prefers London, but I don’t think you can compare anywhere you see as a tourist with your hometown.

We love London but we see a very different side than many tourists who come for a weekend. My son will not have had a real idea of what it’s like to live in Tokyo, by visiting briefly as a tourist so it’s not a fair comparison in my view. I think you probably need to live somewhere to really understand the place.

In the UK we could def learn from the Japanese about litter and manners in public…

Aluna · 14/05/2026 18:30

goodej862 · 14/05/2026 15:53

Sure it does but the city is clean, safe and the Japanese are nicer people. Tokyo has cooler art and food and music scene than London.

I love Japan but “x is cooler than y” is a very teenage approach.

The art, food and music in Tokyo and London are completely different.

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 18:32

user73654823 · 14/05/2026 17:27

No, I don't understand improperly constructed, incomprehensible ones.

Still waiting for your proposed solutions to the problems you're seeing.

And also some enlightenment on how you, a Londoner, moving out of London and driving up prices and taking a space from someone born where you now reside, is any different?

Well maybe you need to download Wordle or something, it has many cognitive benefits.

TunnocksOrDeath · 14/05/2026 19:44

ExtraOnions · 13/05/2026 07:51

My Friend lives there because they are on the Telly, and most of thier work is there. They just bought Zone 1, and it was £750,000 for a flat - which was eye watering for me. It’s not my cup of tea, I find the city busy & chaotic .. but it’s perfect for them. They have lots of friends down there, mostly in the arts - how some of them manage the expense of beyond me. They are always picking up work, and are very happy there. Horses for courses

£750k for a flat is not representative of London generally. We live in zone 3 near a huge park surrounded by good schools and quite fast trains straight into 4 central stations (Victoria, Cannon St, Waterloo & Charring Cross) and you could get a 3 bed terrace house with a garden for that here.

Thechaseison71 · 14/05/2026 19:44

Arran2024 · 14/05/2026 17:26

People born in London are the most pushed out by outsiders buying property! I know that rural communities struggle with folks from London and elsewhere buying property, but that has been happening in London for about 40 years.

My daughter has no chance of buying a property in London. Houses are bought by wealthy foreigners - three houses in my street have recently sold, all to people from Hong Kong. Outsiders affect property everywhere.

And my daughter has no chance of buying a property in her hometown

thesealion · 14/05/2026 19:48

TunnocksOrDeath · 14/05/2026 19:44

£750k for a flat is not representative of London generally. We live in zone 3 near a huge park surrounded by good schools and quite fast trains straight into 4 central stations (Victoria, Cannon St, Waterloo & Charring Cross) and you could get a 3 bed terrace house with a garden for that here.

You could get a 4 bed in my area of London for that (granted it’s an area people are snobby about but it’s cheap!) my flat cost 200k and that was only 4 years ago.

Thechaseison71 · 14/05/2026 19:56

Arran2024 · 14/05/2026 17:18

I moved here after uni for work, met my now husband and stayed. He is from round here - he doesn't want to move. We live in a nice, leafy suburb - it's not exactly a chore to live round here. London is huge and varied.

See when I lived in London it was in Canning Town, which certainly isn't green and leafy

goodej862 · 14/05/2026 19:58

Aluna · 14/05/2026 18:30

I love Japan but “x is cooler than y” is a very teenage approach.

The art, food and music in Tokyo and London are completely different.

Edited

Yes very different. And as a result, Tokyo is much cooler 😀 I’m only 18 so thanks for that. Yay.

Griff123 · 14/05/2026 20:10

Just love that last sentence!

Aluna · 14/05/2026 20:35

goodej862 · 14/05/2026 19:58

Yes very different. And as a result, Tokyo is much cooler 😀 I’m only 18 so thanks for that. Yay.

Except you’re not, so it’s a bit bizarre.

crackofdoom · 14/05/2026 20:54

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 08:23

Again, do you not think those exist in other cities, I have access to all of that where I live. I mean jeez, my MIL lives in a market town nowhere bear London and they have a Polish supermarket with the most amazing cakes I've been told.

My relatives who live in London can afford it, have it all on their doorstep, would and do go to these independent shops but the reality is they also go to Waitrose and from the looks of it, as it is heaving so do many others on a Saturday in London just like the rest of the country, who would have thought that life could be so pedestrian in London 🙄

They probably do, but your assertion was that ordinary Londoners don't shop in independent food shops. Which they very much do.

goodej862 · 14/05/2026 20:59

Aluna · 14/05/2026 20:35

Except you’re not, so it’s a bit bizarre.

👍

Arran2024 · 14/05/2026 21:23

Thechaseison71 · 14/05/2026 19:56

See when I lived in London it was in Canning Town, which certainly isn't green and leafy

Everywhere has its plus and minus points. We don't have a tube line.

user73654823 · 14/05/2026 21:50

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 18:32

Well maybe you need to download Wordle or something, it has many cognitive benefits.

Cognitive benefits can't make sense of the insensible.

You get the wrong impression then and projecting your own limited perception and critical awareness on what is 'good' and 'bad'.

user73654823 · 14/05/2026 21:54

JassyRadlett · 14/05/2026 17:27

Well obvs Original Londoners get a special past for being morally superior beings.

😂

That creates a very difficult family dynamic here. One DC was born in London, the other two weren't and neither were DH and I. I haven't told her yet about her special privileges and that she's entitled to the house. The other two were born in New York and Paris, respectively, though, so their privileges are decent too.

ConstanzeMozart · 15/05/2026 09:38

Maybe5 · 14/05/2026 15:34

I used to get the black snot 25 years ago but don't any longer, so either I've evolved some sort of pollution processing ability or the tube has got a lot cleaner.

Yes, I moved to London about 25 years ago and it was a bit of a joky thing you did to visitors: after you'd been out/on the tube etc, get them to blow their nose and look at how black it was Grin
It's not been like that for years now.

LovelyAnd · 15/05/2026 09:50

ConstanzeMozart · 15/05/2026 09:38

Yes, I moved to London about 25 years ago and it was a bit of a joky thing you did to visitors: after you'd been out/on the tube etc, get them to blow their nose and look at how black it was Grin
It's not been like that for years now.

I remember seeing the black snot as a sort of badge of my new metropolitan identity (and I was living in a squat in Kilburn!)😀

Though washing your hair a lot (I had long, thick hair) was a bit of a pain.

ConstanzeMozart · 15/05/2026 09:52

Goldenbear · 14/05/2026 14:30

There aren't internal contradictions at all? In what way? What are yo confused by?

An original Londoner is someone like in the article I linked you, if you have been born and brought up there or even lived there for a long time I certainly think those people should be considered and not just forgotten about.

An original Londoner is someone like in the article I linked you

So, a middle-class person as in the Victorian period? or a working-class person as in <<checks article>> … oh, also as in the Victorian period?
<<checks article again>> A white, working-class person like in the interwar period?
<<checks again>> or someone from the significant Caribbean settlement in the late 40s?

Going back further than the article, in about the 14th century it would have been Anglo-Saxons and Anglo-Normans.
Further back again, around the 3rd century, the inhabitants were probably mostly Romano-British (a mix of Celtic Britons and Romans).

So, who is the original original Londoner?

ConstanzeMozart · 15/05/2026 09:52

LovelyAnd · 15/05/2026 09:50

I remember seeing the black snot as a sort of badge of my new metropolitan identity (and I was living in a squat in Kilburn!)😀

Though washing your hair a lot (I had long, thick hair) was a bit of a pain.

I first lived in Kilburn too! Not a squat, but a damp basement studio. Happy days Grin

Ifailed · 15/05/2026 10:50

ConstanzeMozart · 15/05/2026 09:52

An original Londoner is someone like in the article I linked you

So, a middle-class person as in the Victorian period? or a working-class person as in <<checks article>> … oh, also as in the Victorian period?
<<checks article again>> A white, working-class person like in the interwar period?
<<checks again>> or someone from the significant Caribbean settlement in the late 40s?

Going back further than the article, in about the 14th century it would have been Anglo-Saxons and Anglo-Normans.
Further back again, around the 3rd century, the inhabitants were probably mostly Romano-British (a mix of Celtic Britons and Romans).

So, who is the original original Londoner?

Earliest evidence of Human activity dates between 4800 BC and 4500 BC at what is now Vauxhall bridge.
Later on Bronze age remains dating between 1750 BC and 1285 BC were found. Anything on the site prior to Londinium is believed to have been lost, though there has been little effort to find anything.
However, there is evidence of human ancestors in Kent dating to between 560,000 and 620,000 years ago, several 'cold events' have occurred since then so there could well have been proto-humans occupying the London area over 1/2 million years ago.

JassyRadlett · 15/05/2026 10:53

ConstanzeMozart · 15/05/2026 09:52

I first lived in Kilburn too! Not a squat, but a damp basement studio. Happy days Grin

NW6 drew a lot of us in I see! Like a London gateway drug.

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