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AIBU to report racist comments made by a couple the GP waiting room?

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rhomb · 08/05/2026 15:47

At the GP practice this morning. The practice has screens around the waiting areas which come up with name of patient, medical staff and room number when called up.

I was sitting behind a couple who did a running commentary between them. They used racist terms on the foreign sounding names. Then when a name came up such as John Pearson “ooh a proper name”.

I moved seats as I got fed up with the racism. They decided to move (unsure why) next to me. Then carried on. I was in two minds whether to report them. The couple would know it was me that reported them.

I am sick of racist people.

OP posts:
MrsTerryPratchett · 08/05/2026 17:05

100 posts, OP not back. Racism, virtue signaling and the local elections.

Cop on everyone.

Dodorogers · 08/05/2026 17:05

NotAnotherScarf · 08/05/2026 16:59

Ahhh the thought police... report to whom? I don't agree but mil had a hospital appointment last year, she was 96 at the time and she couldn't understand a word the person said. I entered the cubicle and managed to translate...so I can understand perhaps where they were coming from

This is literally nothing to do with it. Also would you rather your mother had not seen any doctor???? Fuck me. Every doctor I have seen recently that has listened and been empathetic has been BAME and every GP I have seen that has been totally awful and lacking any care has been middle class white women

alexandrasm · 08/05/2026 17:06

Sad how many people seem to be okay with racism

nomas · 08/05/2026 17:07

MrsTerryPratchett · 08/05/2026 17:05

100 posts, OP not back. Racism, virtue signaling and the local elections.

Cop on everyone.

Given the pile on to OP, I’m not surprised if she doesn’t come back.

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:07

alexandrasm · 08/05/2026 17:06

Sad how many people seem to be okay with racism

Agree - the treatment of the Jewish community has been awful these last two years.

charactershoes · 08/05/2026 17:10

You should have said something at the time.

Reporting them now won’t help at all, it will be your word against theirs. Why would the GP surgery ban someone when there is no proof they did anything wrong?

The2ndMrsMaximDeWinter · 08/05/2026 17:12

Why on earth didn’t you say something? I honestly don’t understand people who hear/see bad stuff, keep quiet at the time then go on to “report” it or worse ask a bloody forum if you should “report it”.

Why are you passing responsibility on to someone else, is it just so you can absolve yourself of the guilt you now feel?

If you come across bad behaviour then act, if you really feel unsafe acting (in a situation that really does not sound unsafe) then work on why for next time.

BatchCookBabe · 08/05/2026 17:12

Reliablesource · 08/05/2026 15:51

Report them to whom, for what offence? Making fun of non-British names is childish and rude, but it’s not a criminal offence. Do you want the GP to throw them off the surgery list? Would you like to see them being denied NHS treatment?

Stop clutching your pearls and get a grip.

100% this. ^ Why did you not say something to them@rhomb ?

BatchCookBabe · 08/05/2026 17:13

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:07

Agree - the treatment of the Jewish community has been awful these last two years.

This. ^ Some awful anti-semitism in this country right now. Dreadful...

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:14

BatchCookBabe · 08/05/2026 17:13

This. ^ Some awful anti-semitism in this country right now. Dreadful...

Indeed - that's what my focus is on.

BatchCookBabe · 08/05/2026 17:16

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:14

Indeed - that's what my focus is on.

Well yes, it is rife now isn't it?

Dreamcatcherat50 · 08/05/2026 17:16

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 15:47

Report them to who?

The practice manager so they can be barred from the surgery. Also the police.

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:16

BatchCookBabe · 08/05/2026 17:16

Well yes, it is rife now isn't it?

sadly yes

alexandrasm · 08/05/2026 17:17

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:14

Indeed - that's what my focus is on.

Ah, you’re the fat phobic commenter from another thread!

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:17

Dreamcatcherat50 · 08/05/2026 17:16

The practice manager so they can be barred from the surgery. Also the police.

😂

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:17

alexandrasm · 08/05/2026 17:17

Ah, you’re the fat phobic commenter from another thread!

Do you have an issue with me supporting Jewish people?

alexandrasm · 08/05/2026 17:18

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:17

Do you have an issue with me supporting Jewish people?

No but I do have an issue with you being horrendously rude to me on another thread for no reason other than my size.

user2848502016 · 08/05/2026 17:18

I don’t like racists either but do you really think they shouldn’t be entitled to healthcare?

Feis123 · 08/05/2026 17:18

Read up on Meirion Thomas, NHS doctor. He has a lot to say about the abuse of our NHS.

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:18

alexandrasm · 08/05/2026 17:18

No but I do have an issue with you being horrendously rude to me on another thread for no reason other than my size.

I was shocked, and I have deleted comment.

Apologies.

KilkennyCats · 08/05/2026 17:19

thepariscrimefiles · 08/05/2026 16:00

I presume to the GP surgery who could remove them as patients. They do sound like racist arseholes. Objecting to racism and racist insults directed at staff and patients isn't 'being the morality police'. It creates an intimidating environment for non-white patients which is unacceptable.

No surgery would “remove them as patients” on op’s say so.
What planet are you on?

alexandrasm · 08/05/2026 17:19

coulditbeme2323 · 08/05/2026 17:18

I was shocked, and I have deleted comment.

Apologies.

I find it funny. It’s always those who are “concerned about Jewish people” who are the nastiest.

Unforgettablefire · 08/05/2026 17:19

So you want to report a private conversation you were eavesdropping in on because you didn’t like what they were saying?
Good luck.

alexandrasm · 08/05/2026 17:19

KilkennyCats · 08/05/2026 17:19

No surgery would “remove them as patients” on op’s say so.
What planet are you on?

My GP makes it clear that anything like that will not be tolerated and that they can de-register you for racism.

Dodorogers · 08/05/2026 17:20

Unforgettablefire · 08/05/2026 17:19

So you want to report a private conversation you were eavesdropping in on because you didn’t like what they were saying?
Good luck.

It’s not private if it is loud enough for people around to hear.