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AIBU to feel shaken after being criticised for blacking out at the airport?

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doorss · 08/05/2026 08:28

Last night I returned back from a foreign holiday last night. I went with my parents and my godmother

At the foreign airport, DM cut her leg badly somehow with the either a luggage trolley or the barriers around the trolley park. Blood going everywhere. I have a phobia of blood and blacked out almost immediately. A couple of passengers ran into the terminal getting help. Whilst DF and GodM were getting tissues they had in their hand luggage. Another woman went up to my GodM and looked at me saying I’m a disgrace.

DM got first aid attention and was taken around the airport with assistance (airport was quiet). I recovered.

The four of us had a coffee, past security, and I went to the toilets with GodM. The woman who said I was a disgrace was there. She had a go at me. I said I have a blood phobia. She said I don’t care!

This woman’s attitude was horrible. I am not sure which flight she went on. She could have been on my flight- sitting on the opposite end of the plane.

I am still shaking from this woman’s attitude. I may not see her again.

OP posts:
PixieTales · 10/05/2026 12:13

SorcererGaheris · 10/05/2026 12:10

@PixieTales

It's not a case of the person growing up. They have a condition. As has already been explained to you, the fainting is something they cannot control.

It would be reasonable to suggest that the OP consider getting some help/treatment for her phobia. But it is unkind to tell her she's pathetic when she has zero control over how her body will react in this situation. She has a phobia. These are extreme fears. She didn't choose to faint; her body did that by itself.

Edited

Oh do piss off with your fluffy woe is her energy.

honestly people like you make problems that weren’t even there. In the real world we just carry on.

thebabessavedme · 10/05/2026 12:16

Well you are having a rotten Sunday aren't you @PixieTales 😂I suppose an empathy bypass must be a bit painful?

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 12:17

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 12:13

Oh do piss off with your fluffy woe is her energy.

honestly people like you make problems that weren’t even there. In the real world we just carry on.

Edited

Oh a condition boo bloody hoo. Grow up live with your emotions this a joke now.

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 12:18

thebabessavedme · 10/05/2026 12:16

Well you are having a rotten Sunday aren't you @PixieTales 😂I suppose an empathy bypass must be a bit painful?

Nah just calling spades a spade

thebabessavedme · 10/05/2026 12:20

No actually @PixieTales you are not calling a 'spade a spade' you are making yourself sound rather silly.

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 12:21

thebabessavedme · 10/05/2026 12:20

No actually @PixieTales you are not calling a 'spade a spade' you are making yourself sound rather silly.

Bless.

You feel triggered?

thebabessavedme · 10/05/2026 12:28

No @PixieTales I'm just a nicer person than you. Bye

SorcererGaheris · 10/05/2026 13:09

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 12:17

Oh a condition boo bloody hoo. Grow up live with your emotions this a joke now.

@PixieTales

You tell people to "grow up", but you're not exactly acting in a very mature way yourself. (i.e. telling people to "piss off.")

So why not take your own advice and be a bit less puerile?

SorcererGaheris · 10/05/2026 13:10

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 12:13

Oh do piss off with your fluffy woe is her energy.

honestly people like you make problems that weren’t even there. In the real world we just carry on.

Edited

@PixieTales

And also in the real world, there is something called "manners".

seanconneryseyebrow · 10/05/2026 15:53

thebabessavedme · 10/05/2026 12:05

My Dh is no drama llama but he is a fainter, always has been, his Db is exactly the same, mere sight, mention of blood or operations leave them out on the floor, Dh has caused some hilarity over the years with it though, he passed out when our dear old moggy had to be put to sleep, went down and smashed his head on a old beam (vets was a tudor building) so a trip to A&E and he passed out there as well, my first colonoscopy he passed out when the Dr was discussing the results with us ( I was the poorly person but all attention was on him😂) Passed out when someone got air sick on our holiday😂Had to lay down on the living floor after the the first few minutes of The Excorsist, despite me telling him it was fake blood, I could go on😂He really tries not to do this and certainly doesn't enjoy it, Op that woman was a nutcase, ignore ignore ignore!

I mean really? I would get the massive massive ick.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 10/05/2026 15:55

She sounds ridiculous!

But she’s just an isolated person. Doesn’t sound like anyone else had an issue with you.

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 16:28

SorcererGaheris · 10/05/2026 13:09

@PixieTales

You tell people to "grow up", but you're not exactly acting in a very mature way yourself. (i.e. telling people to "piss off.")

So why not take your own advice and be a bit less puerile?

Edited

I’m not the one sobbing at an airport because of a cut on someone’s leg. Seriously how pathetic.

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 16:33

I recovered.

😂😂😂

SorcererGaheris · 10/05/2026 16:34

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 16:28

I’m not the one sobbing at an airport because of a cut on someone’s leg. Seriously how pathetic.

@PixieTales

No, but I would say you're being pretty rude. I don't think that's a very grown-up way to behave.

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 16:43

SorcererGaheris · 10/05/2026 16:34

@PixieTales

No, but I would say you're being pretty rude. I don't think that's a very grown-up way to behave.

It’s not very grown up to ‘pass out’ at the sight of a small amount of blood that needed to be dabbed with a tissue. It’s ridiculous and over dramatic.

SorcererGaheris · 10/05/2026 17:48

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 16:43

It’s not very grown up to ‘pass out’ at the sight of a small amount of blood that needed to be dabbed with a tissue. It’s ridiculous and over dramatic.

@PixieTales

Even if I agreed with that (which I don't), my point is that you yourself are not behaving in a grown-up way either (with your bad manners) so when you berate others for supposedly not being grown-up, you are being quite hypocritical.

And why have you ignored the comments which have explained that passing out at the sight of blood is an involuntary reaction caused by processes that take place in the body? You talk as though the OP fainted on purpose. She didn't. It was completely out of her control.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 10/05/2026 17:49

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 16:43

It’s not very grown up to ‘pass out’ at the sight of a small amount of blood that needed to be dabbed with a tissue. It’s ridiculous and over dramatic.

What on earth do you expect them to do about it? They passed out through no will or wish of their own - it’s just a reaction that they can’t help!

Confuserr · 10/05/2026 17:57

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 10/05/2026 17:49

What on earth do you expect them to do about it? They passed out through no will or wish of their own - it’s just a reaction that they can’t help!

Sure. But "still shaking" about some random woman's comment hours/days later is pretty wimpy.

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 18:07

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 10/05/2026 17:49

What on earth do you expect them to do about it? They passed out through no will or wish of their own - it’s just a reaction that they can’t help!

It’s pathetic and over the top. I agree with the women who witnessed it.

SALaw · 10/05/2026 18:12

Don’t let random obnoxious people get to you.

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 18:19

SorcererGaheris · 10/05/2026 17:48

@PixieTales

Even if I agreed with that (which I don't), my point is that you yourself are not behaving in a grown-up way either (with your bad manners) so when you berate others for supposedly not being grown-up, you are being quite hypocritical.

And why have you ignored the comments which have explained that passing out at the sight of blood is an involuntary reaction caused by processes that take place in the body? You talk as though the OP fainted on purpose. She didn't. It was completely out of her control.

Bless you do seem very naive.

Do you honestly think a grown arse woman would faint at a little sight of blood?

No OP is being over dramatic looking for attention (the fact she hasn’t returned speaks volumes) She is attention seeing and looking for sympathy at to be honest yes it is embarrassing and cringry.

SALaw · 10/05/2026 18:22

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 18:07

It’s pathetic and over the top. I agree with the women who witnessed it.

Would you feel the need to say it to a random stranger or her companion or would you roll your eyes and get on with your own day?

ButterYellowFlowers · 10/05/2026 18:23

Confuserr · 10/05/2026 10:53

Passing out, no. Sounds like you can't help that. But OP managed to hear rude stranger's comment to her godmother, so who knows if she was actually passed out or just feeling woozy.
I'm afraid coupled with the comment that OP is "still shaking" about a rude comment and worrying about maybe seeing this rando again - I'm leaning towards wet lettuce too. But maybe like @seanconneryseyebrow I'm a bit of a dick.

Yes there is time between starting to feel faint and blacking out. And you also wake up after but can’t stand straight up for a good 10 minutes (because if you do you’ll pass out again as the blood leaves your head). Plenty of time to hear her around the unconscious 10 seconds that is the actual faint

ButterYellowFlowers · 10/05/2026 18:26

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 12:08

It’s actually embarrassing, what if that were here children? Grow the hell up it’s a bit of blood. The dramatics are cringey.

Not much you can do even if it’s children. It’s not about growing up it’s a nervous system response that cannot be controlled. You might as well tell a paraplegic to stand up or a schizophrenic to just be better.

ButterYellowFlowers · 10/05/2026 18:27

PixieTales · 10/05/2026 18:19

Bless you do seem very naive.

Do you honestly think a grown arse woman would faint at a little sight of blood?

No OP is being over dramatic looking for attention (the fact she hasn’t returned speaks volumes) She is attention seeing and looking for sympathy at to be honest yes it is embarrassing and cringry.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/vasovagal-syncope/symptoms-causes/syc-20350527

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