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To feel slightly sad for Labour and Keir?

226 replies

Wellwhatnowbellaboo · 08/05/2026 03:14

Aibu to feel sad for Labour's results so far ? I've not historically been a Labour voter but I think Keir has done a good job on some things but on others he was never going to be popular...and no one would be ! I like that he's the first leader recently to appear to have a moral backbone and consistency (if he truly wasn't informed about Mandelson I might add).
How do you feel about the state of play particularly if you've been lifelong labour and did you swing to a different vote this time round ?

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EasternStandard · 08/05/2026 14:52

SquirrelSoShiny · 08/05/2026 14:48

I think Labour's every move is being smeared by the right wing press and idiots are falling for it. Starmer is fundamentally a decent human being but our increasingly stupid and vapid population want a narcissistic entertainer rather than a grown up at the helm. Labour have made mistakes, not least on their stupid obsession with gender ideology. It amuses me that some of Reform's loudest supporters will be most shafted by a Reform government. It's 'Leopards won't eat MY face!' all over again.

I think this stuff is just falling away for most. He’s not decent and the press isn’t the cause of Labour’s issues.

Castellio · 08/05/2026 14:54

For goodness sake! Punching down on pensioners? Get a grip! Pensioners have the most disposable income of any demographic. They are wealthier than any working person on average. And yet you think that it’s ‘punching down’ to take away money from those where at least one of the couple has more than £35k a year and usually no housing costs. That is often a couple on £60k-ish a year with no mortgage etc getting free money and it’s ’punching Down’ to take a winter fuel allowance off ten? Attitudes like yours are very much the problem. My parents added it to their cruise fund. My uncle put it towards a new motorbike. Friends of my parents used it to go to a Michelin starred restaurant. You are crazy if you think this is a good use of taxpayers money.

Bertiebiscuit · 08/05/2026 14:54

CurlewKate · 08/05/2026 08:30

I’m always able to feel sorry for people who get what they want and find it’s possibly not what they wanted after all. A bit like Prince Charles.

Boohoo😭All that power, money, luxury flying round the world being wined and dined, must be awful.

LondonSymphony · 08/05/2026 14:55

I don’t feel sorry for him, he gets an unduly hard time. That said, he’s not been great, has zero vision, and has been abject disappointment. That wouldn’t be so bad if the main beneficiaries weren’t a bunch of grifters with fascist tendencies.

I do feel sorry for any hardworking and decent councillors who are out of office, through no real fault of their own.

hairbearbunches · 08/05/2026 14:55

SisterTeatime · 08/05/2026 11:51

I totally agree. When I think back to the 90s and how New Labour prepared to be in government, it’s like night and day. I know things are different today but WTAF did this government think would happen when they got into power???

Most of what they have done either makes little sense, or makes little sense when packaged up and communicated to the electorate.

I wouldn't be giving New Labour that much credit to be honest. Blair had a massive mandate and changed very little of Thatcherism. He could have done so much and he squandered it. Truly squandered it. He was lucky that house price inflation was about to go through the roof and it made the economy look as though it was booming but it was nothing but smoke and mirrors. Blair is as responsible for where this country has ended up as the wankers who came after him.

ilovebrie8 · 08/05/2026 14:57

Bertiebiscuit · 08/05/2026 14:51

Yes, for a supposedly Labour politician he's the worst elitist ever, he certainly doesn't like working class people or women. Or older people. Or small business people. He really only seems comfortable amongst the elites of the world, the ones who give him free designer clothes and wine and dine him as he jets around the globe. Anywhere but the UK and us plebs.

Yep all of this, he doesn’t like mixing with the plebes he gives of an air of snootiness and sneering like it’s beneath him to deal with the little people.

Which for the son of a tool maker is hilarious. He lacks empathy and a personality that’s a huge issue for him aside from u turning on almost everything.

Unphased · 08/05/2026 15:01

Castellio · 08/05/2026 14:54

For goodness sake! Punching down on pensioners? Get a grip! Pensioners have the most disposable income of any demographic. They are wealthier than any working person on average. And yet you think that it’s ‘punching down’ to take away money from those where at least one of the couple has more than £35k a year and usually no housing costs. That is often a couple on £60k-ish a year with no mortgage etc getting free money and it’s ’punching Down’ to take a winter fuel allowance off ten? Attitudes like yours are very much the problem. My parents added it to their cruise fund. My uncle put it towards a new motorbike. Friends of my parents used it to go to a Michelin starred restaurant. You are crazy if you think this is a good use of taxpayers money.

Do you honestly think all pensioners are wealthy, the average income for a pensioner is £14,500, that includes the state pension, not many Michelin starred meals on that,

smallglassbottle · 08/05/2026 15:08

Bertiebiscuit · 08/05/2026 14:51

Yes, for a supposedly Labour politician he's the worst elitist ever, he certainly doesn't like working class people or women. Or older people. Or small business people. He really only seems comfortable amongst the elites of the world, the ones who give him free designer clothes and wine and dine him as he jets around the globe. Anywhere but the UK and us plebs.

He doesn't give a shit about this cou try. His orders come from elsewhere.

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Bertiebiscuit · 08/05/2026 15:11

Hallowedturf · 08/05/2026 08:06

Agreed.

The Gazan issue is fake empathy, and performative nonsense, designed purely to attack the RW.

Ask any one of these people to actually do something to help the Gazan’s, and you are met with silence or excuses.

It’s all bullshit.

And conveniently feeds into endemic Left wing antisemitism. Useful racist fools.

EddyF · 08/05/2026 15:12

I find him disappointing however, I do feel sorry for him.

Castellio · 08/05/2026 15:22

Unphased · 08/05/2026 15:01

Do you honestly think all pensioners are wealthy, the average income for a pensioner is £14,500, that includes the state pension, not many Michelin starred meals on that,

I’ll say it again, they have on average the largest disposable income after housing costs than any other demographic group. Do you think giving them free money is a good use of funds?

Unphased · 08/05/2026 15:33

Castellio · 08/05/2026 15:22

I’ll say it again, they have on average the largest disposable income after housing costs than any other demographic group. Do you think giving them free money is a good use of funds?

Do you think after they have paid out living expenses, housing expenses, vehicle expenses, medical necessities and tax they have a lot of free income?

smallglassbottle · 08/05/2026 15:35

Unphased · 08/05/2026 15:33

Do you think after they have paid out living expenses, housing expenses, vehicle expenses, medical necessities and tax they have a lot of free income?

No, but neither does anyone else and other people have got children to raise, nursery fees etc.

Pensioners need to be means treated as a matter of urgency. I'd rather the money went on defence.

Castellio · 08/05/2026 15:46

Unphased · 08/05/2026 15:33

Do you think after they have paid out living expenses, housing expenses, vehicle expenses, medical necessities and tax they have a lot of free income?

No but they have more than the rest of us.

WorkCleanRepeat · 08/05/2026 15:54

This was inevitable. The welfare bill was already a joke and then he lifted the 2 child limit. I just can't take labour seriously after that.

Nearly50omg · 08/05/2026 16:47

Mintine · 08/05/2026 03:23

I don't dislike Kier but they should have done something about the ballooning PIP, they shouldn't have introduced how much you can pay into your pension before paying national insurance, or reduced the ISA amount, they shouldn't be making it more costly for businesses to employ people. I could go on! But no I do not feel sorry for him, I don't dislike him but I do dislike so many things that labour have done. Another gem, building on greenbelt and farmland. They are terrible sadly. I have voted labour in the past but I won't be doing for the foreseeable future.

“Ballooning pip??!!” WTF are you on about? Do you have any idea what the average payment people actually receive is? It’s not enough for a monthly food shop let alone anything else!

Boomer55 · 08/05/2026 16:51

Nearly50omg · 08/05/2026 16:47

“Ballooning pip??!!” WTF are you on about? Do you have any idea what the average payment people actually receive is? It’s not enough for a monthly food shop let alone anything else!

I’m all for PIP, and I did benefit advocacy. But it’s not about food shops. It’s supposed to be about the extra costs of disability. Normal benefits are for food etc.

The PIP bill is ballooning, but it’s about the ever increasing number of claimants, not individual payments.

gingercat02 · 08/05/2026 17:20

hairbearbunches · 08/05/2026 14:55

I wouldn't be giving New Labour that much credit to be honest. Blair had a massive mandate and changed very little of Thatcherism. He could have done so much and he squandered it. Truly squandered it. He was lucky that house price inflation was about to go through the roof and it made the economy look as though it was booming but it was nothing but smoke and mirrors. Blair is as responsible for where this country has ended up as the wankers who came after him.

Blair was Tory lite and a war criminal.

Castellio · 08/05/2026 17:30

gingercat02 · 08/05/2026 17:20

Blair was Tory lite and a war criminal.

What’s wrong with being ‘Tory lite’? Surely that just means trying to better people’s lives while not discincentivising work and growing and inspiring business. The Blair years were great.

gingercat02 · 08/05/2026 17:36

Castellio · 08/05/2026 17:30

What’s wrong with being ‘Tory lite’? Surely that just means trying to better people’s lives while not discincentivising work and growing and inspiring business. The Blair years were great.

They were great because he spent us into huge national debt, leading to the many layers of Tory austerity.
I was in my early twenties and I agree it was fabulous, but sadly I had no idea of the consequences 😢

Castellio · 08/05/2026 17:51

gingercat02 · 08/05/2026 17:36

They were great because he spent us into huge national debt, leading to the many layers of Tory austerity.
I was in my early twenties and I agree it was fabulous, but sadly I had no idea of the consequences 😢

Not for the first 5 years or so. There was a surplus year after year. The ‘prudence’ years were very successful. Then came the global financial crisis bailout which was obviously expensive. www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-32549892

Threeyearoldkids · 08/05/2026 17:55

nam3c4ang3 · 08/05/2026 11:41

Nah - he’s a mega loser who welched out on almost everything he promised… I didn’t think he would be great but he has certainly surpassed my expectations of being one of the worse PMs really. BUT - at least we got to put the extra VAT on private schools, right? That’ll teach them! 🤣🥴 - I don’t feel sorry for him - he’s a clown. And everyone is laughing him.

That has all gone quiet hasn't it?

How much net gain have they generated from the tax on private schools in total?

Seymour5 · 08/05/2026 20:57

Castellio · 08/05/2026 14:54

For goodness sake! Punching down on pensioners? Get a grip! Pensioners have the most disposable income of any demographic. They are wealthier than any working person on average. And yet you think that it’s ‘punching down’ to take away money from those where at least one of the couple has more than £35k a year and usually no housing costs. That is often a couple on £60k-ish a year with no mortgage etc getting free money and it’s ’punching Down’ to take a winter fuel allowance off ten? Attitudes like yours are very much the problem. My parents added it to their cruise fund. My uncle put it towards a new motorbike. Friends of my parents used it to go to a Michelin starred restaurant. You are crazy if you think this is a good use of taxpayers money.

You missed out ‘some’ pensioners…

Nice for your parents and their friends, but they certainly don’t reflect all pensioners. DH and I have around £20k pa. We are older pensioners, so don’t get as much basic state pension as those who retired post 2016. About £50 a week less, My small occupational pension puts us above the Pension Credit limit, but not by much. DH has a health condition that means he doesn’t go out much, and he feels the cold, so for a couple like us the £200 was a big help. He has just got an extra 25p a week now he’s 80, and I’ll get that soon too. Wow! And we’ll get £300 this year due to his age.

We are representative of people who always worked, didn't earn much, but tried to do the right thing, and we are penalised for it. If we had nothing but our State Pensions, we wouldn’t be much worse off as we’d get Pension Credit and council Tax benefits.

Castellio · 08/05/2026 21:00

Seymour5 · 08/05/2026 20:57

You missed out ‘some’ pensioners…

Nice for your parents and their friends, but they certainly don’t reflect all pensioners. DH and I have around £20k pa. We are older pensioners, so don’t get as much basic state pension as those who retired post 2016. About £50 a week less, My small occupational pension puts us above the Pension Credit limit, but not by much. DH has a health condition that means he doesn’t go out much, and he feels the cold, so for a couple like us the £200 was a big help. He has just got an extra 25p a week now he’s 80, and I’ll get that soon too. Wow! And we’ll get £300 this year due to his age.

We are representative of people who always worked, didn't earn much, but tried to do the right thing, and we are penalised for it. If we had nothing but our State Pensions, we wouldn’t be much worse off as we’d get Pension Credit and council Tax benefits.

You still get it though so what’s the issue? I’m saying the likes of my parents and their friends don’t need it. You get it if your pre tax income is less than £35k. That’s each. So pensioner ihouseholds with income of £69k get it. Do you think that’s reasonable and a proportionate use of funds? Of course not.

Seymour5 · 08/05/2026 22:51

Castellio · 08/05/2026 21:00

You still get it though so what’s the issue? I’m saying the likes of my parents and their friends don’t need it. You get it if your pre tax income is less than £35k. That’s each. So pensioner ihouseholds with income of £69k get it. Do you think that’s reasonable and a proportionate use of funds? Of course not.

We didn’t when Labour withdrew it. Only those on means tested benefits such as Pension Credit got it that year. When the givernment changed their minds and reinstated it we got it again. I’d agree with you however, they set the cut off too high.