AIBU to feel annoyed after a friend called me constantly negative?

[TheOpalFox]

Would you be annoyed if a friend turned round and just said im
constantly negative? And full of drama? In a horrible way? Yet she’s always got something going on her in life too??? Feeling a bit annoyed :(
or is she right!????

Well, is she right 🤷‍♀️

How the heck do we know if she’s right?

Looks like she nailed it. 🤷‍♀️

My irony meter overloaded

Your post sounds pretty negative especially with so many passive aggressive ????

Yep! Is “everyone a’ginst you”?..🤨

We know neither you nor your friend, so it's pretty impossible to judge.

But since your response to this is to post what comes across as an angry rant with way too much emotional punctuation, I suspect she has a point.

Maybe try some self reflection: in what ways could she be right, and how might you change if she were? And then try out being that person for a while, because you might find it makes you happier to be less negative/dramatic/easily offended.

is she right? I have a friend who constantly moans about everything - her job, her DH, the service at a restaurant, other people around us…if I have a problem, she has one bigger. it’s exhausting to be honest.

We don't know you so don't know whether she's right. You could:
Ask her for examples and see if they are accurate.
Ask your mum or sister if that sounds like you to them.
Reflect on whether anyone else has ever accused you of similar.

Maybe check it out with other people. I have a friend who is really negative. I honestly think she doesn't understand how much she moans and how draining this is.

The irony!

I think it can become a bit of a habit .
Is this friend someone you offload to and now you’re stuck in a bit of a conversational rut ?
If its more a generalised personality trait I’d recommend a daily gratitude practice.
I believe we attract the energy we put out .
Gratitude can be life changing , look into it .

How could we possibly know if she’s right? Chances are there’s something in it, so maybe you should reflect on it.

I think she may be right.

I recognised your username so did an advanced search. Based on what I found, I would say your friend is correct.

What you do with that is up to you.

She may be right but does she have any right to criticise you?

This.

Sounds like she has hit a nerve?

Perhaps you are? Most people are unlikely to snap and say such a thing unless its true.

My DH is a very negative person and it can be really draining.

Nothing worse than a 'mood hoover' !

Quite a shitty comment from her especially if she let's off steam to you or she seeks support from you about her problems.

Yes this!!!!!

But she’s probably more negative than me?????

She’s probably more negative than me lol joke

She’s probably a lot more negative than me that’s the joke

She knows you well, op…