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AIBU to think my neighbours are inconsiderate late at night?

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BreezyRubyShark · 03/05/2026 14:12

Neighbours like to get drunk and laugh/shout from 1-3am nearly every weekend. No loud music but audible TV.

Semi-detached with very poor sound insulation.

There's no chance they're not aware that the sound travels.

I feel uncomfortable making any loud noise close to 10pm. AIBU for thinking they're inconsiderate?

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Endofyear · 03/05/2026 14:30

Have you told them that the late night noise is disturbing your sleep and asked them nicely to keep it down? If you have and they're still being inconsiderate, maybe you should start hoovering and playing music at 6am for a bit so they get a taste of their own medicine?

ComtesseDeSpair · 03/05/2026 14:41

Have you spoken to them about it? They possibly aren’t aware the sound transfers so much, particularly if you feel uncomfortable about making noise and they’re simply assuming you do make noise but they can’t hear any of it.

Brinny · 03/05/2026 22:39

I would speak to them and say you are getting disturbed sleep would they mind lowering the volume, hope they are amenable.

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