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Is a St George cross an underlying sign of passive racism?

330 replies

ThatCyanJoker · 28/04/2026 19:04

Walked past the house of a relatively new friend today and was surprised to see they’ve put up a huge flagpole, complete with St George cross flag flying high. I am generally patriotic , and put out the bunting for notable occasions without a second thought. I would probably be pleased had it been a Union Jack, but the St George has an undertone of racism to me, unless it’s flown for the football World Cup or something.
AIBU to reconsider friendship?

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Giraffeandthedog · 28/04/2026 23:09

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 28/04/2026 23:05

What has the English flag got to do with people feeling safe?

I don’t feel unsafe in Spain surrounded by Spanish flags??

Arguably someone from the Basque region might feel intimidated by a group of people wearing Spanish flags. It’s about nuance and context.

BiteSizedLife · 28/04/2026 23:09

Dappy777 · 28/04/2026 22:54

Outrageous. How dare someone fly an England flag in England!

I am done with this country. I really am. I was born into a very English family, and even have the letters my great grandfather wrote home from WW1, but I feel nothing for modern Britain. My sense of identity and belonging has taken a long time to die, but it is dead.

The Left have achieved what Pol Pot failed to do. You only have to read some of the posts on this thread to see that. They have swept away the past and created a cultural ‘Year Zero’. And the new country they are building in its place means nothing to me. Nothing. I will pay my tax and obey the law, but that’s it. I feel zero loyalty or affection for modern Britain. It’s just somewhere I live.

You can’t have it both ways. You can’t tell someone their history is shameful, impose a new identity on them, and then expect them to care. I care about myself and my loved ones, that’s it. What has been done to the people of this country is a f-ing crime. They have had a new identity imposed on them without any vote or referendum. It’s staggering.

Had a really interesting chat with an American once who couldnt understand why the Brits were so ashamed of their past (and ofc other people who shame Britain for its past)

...and said but yet no one really talks like that about The Spanish who were just as brutal (and powerful) historically.

😦 << me. "Oh yeah. Good point. I never thought about it like that."

CurlewKate · 28/04/2026 23:09

Dollymylove · 28/04/2026 22:15

No its because the hard left Corbynista type England haters that have decided our flag is racist. No other country in the world would be expected to remove their flag because it offended the snow flakes. They would be told to fuck right off.
Perhaps they would be more comfortable living in the likes of Iran or Afghanistan. I would happily contribute to their one way tickets

Was it the “hard left corbynista types” who devoted themselves to lining the streets with St George’s flags and storming migrant hotels?

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 28/04/2026 23:19

Mojitoscoladas · 28/04/2026 22:51

Exactly this.

I don’t doubt that those ‘I’m not a racist’ St George-waving PPs tell themselves they’re just patriotic, but by deliberately ignoring today’s context and nuance with their faux naivety, they usefully show their true colours (if you’ll excuse the pun) in the same way that the MAGA cap wearers did/still do in the US.

As another poster said, naff and grim - we all know we’re not going to suddenly start losing more world sports if people refrain from waving the England flag whilst it holds such insidious connotations.

Or maybe people just reject the nasty slurs and connotations put on to our flag and pride in our country and don’t really care what you think?

Dollymylove · 28/04/2026 23:25

When was the last terrorist attack on British soil perpetrated by men wrapped in England flags?

Hallamule · 28/04/2026 23:28

Dollymylove · 28/04/2026 22:15

No its because the hard left Corbynista type England haters that have decided our flag is racist. No other country in the world would be expected to remove their flag because it offended the snow flakes. They would be told to fuck right off.
Perhaps they would be more comfortable living in the likes of Iran or Afghanistan. I would happily contribute to their one way tickets

Lol no, it's because of all those years when it was the symbol of the Far Right. Remember the National Front?

Yowlers · 28/04/2026 23:29

ThatCyanJoker · 28/04/2026 19:04

Walked past the house of a relatively new friend today and was surprised to see they’ve put up a huge flagpole, complete with St George cross flag flying high. I am generally patriotic , and put out the bunting for notable occasions without a second thought. I would probably be pleased had it been a Union Jack, but the St George has an undertone of racism to me, unless it’s flown for the football World Cup or something.
AIBU to reconsider friendship?

Are you coming back to the thread OP or Is this just to stoke fires?

You can assume whatever you want and end a friendship for any reason, but why wouldn’t you just bring it up in conversation and get their views first then you’ll know for sure?

Eg. Say you hate Farage/Reform/the daily mail and see their reaction. Simple.

Greenandyellowday · 28/04/2026 23:30

Vulgar, tacky, and also very probably racist.

Yowlers · 28/04/2026 23:31

CurlewKate · 28/04/2026 22:14

Are some people genuinely unaware of the fact that the St George’s flag has been weaponised and used to intimidate by some people over the past year? Unaware of the people who hoist flags on lamp posts and then -very patriotically- leave them dangling there to be shredded by wind and weather? And are unable to see the difference between this and flying a flag for St George’s Day, or a football match? Because I have to say, I don’t believe you.

Yeah there’s a lot of faux outrage and naivety about this.

Unless someone is an immigrant and didn’t grow up here they must know why some people are wary of the flag.

I did get a sinking feeling when I saw someone had painted them at a local roundabout.

BreakingBroken · 28/04/2026 23:32

i'm another person from another country who finds it very sad that people can't fly their national flag with pride. history is in the past, learn from it and move on.

Underthinker · 28/04/2026 23:32

CurlewKate · 28/04/2026 23:09

Was it the “hard left corbynista types” who devoted themselves to lining the streets with St George’s flags and storming migrant hotels?

Is this referencing the incident where 5 men broke away from a protest at a migrant hotel and tried to enter it, scuffling with police in the process?
Is your view that all people flying or wearing an England flag approve of such behaviour?

Giraffeandthedog · 28/04/2026 23:34

Dollymylove · 28/04/2026 23:25

When was the last terrorist attack on British soil perpetrated by men wrapped in England flags?

30th October 2022

PinkyFlamingo · 28/04/2026 23:37

CoffeeCantata · 28/04/2026 20:02

I genuinely don't know how flag associations work in Scotland (except for the obvious use of the St Andrew's cross denoting indepence) - is it really the case that the Union Jack would imply racism there?

Or just people who are unionists and don't want independence? Genuine question - I hadn't realised it might have other connotations.

I don't think the poster meant a Union Jack is racist in Scotland more likely a Rangers fan.

Yowlers · 28/04/2026 23:39

BreakingBroken · 28/04/2026 23:32

i'm another person from another country who finds it very sad that people can't fly their national flag with pride. history is in the past, learn from it and move on.

What is more sad is people failing to have empathy for those who grew up in the 70s,80s and 90s being intimidated and terrorised by those waving that flag. Not to mention we have all witnessed ugly scenes of racist mobs in the past few years where the flags are everywhere.

I am by no means saying everyone who displays that flag is racist but I don’t get why you can’t understand why some are worried by it due to its past and present use by racists.

You say you’re an immigrant, well just to give you some context, being hypervigilant about the flag being displayed in certain neighbourhoods and redirecting yourself was literally a way a lot of Black and Asian people kept themselves safe from the national front and BNP in some areas of England as recently as the 90s.

No-one wanted them or their children to end up as the next Stephen Lawrence. And if you’ve not heard of him he was a young Black boy killed by a gang of racist white men in south London back in the early 90s.

DrCoconut · 28/04/2026 23:42

Flagpoles in gardens are really cringey and naff though. I'd much rather see garden gnomes.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 28/04/2026 23:55

Ooh another "wind em up and watch em go" flag thread. 🙄
Where did the OP go?

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 28/04/2026 23:58

CurlewKate · 28/04/2026 22:14

Are some people genuinely unaware of the fact that the St George’s flag has been weaponised and used to intimidate by some people over the past year? Unaware of the people who hoist flags on lamp posts and then -very patriotically- leave them dangling there to be shredded by wind and weather? And are unable to see the difference between this and flying a flag for St George’s Day, or a football match? Because I have to say, I don’t believe you.

Oh, I think they're well aware.

Zennia · Yesterday 00:46

It's all about context isn't it? A union flag hanging from a lamppost in a loyalist estate in Northern Ireland has a different vibe and communicates a different message from a union flag displayed at a British embassy.

DeathNote11 · Yesterday 03:07

This is absolutely lunacy & it's attitudes like this that are driving reasonable people to the right wing parties.

Milothebunny · Yesterday 04:33

Utterly pathetic, grow up!!

toodisorganisedforschool · Yesterday 04:36

Dappy777 · 28/04/2026 22:54

Outrageous. How dare someone fly an England flag in England!

I am done with this country. I really am. I was born into a very English family, and even have the letters my great grandfather wrote home from WW1, but I feel nothing for modern Britain. My sense of identity and belonging has taken a long time to die, but it is dead.

The Left have achieved what Pol Pot failed to do. You only have to read some of the posts on this thread to see that. They have swept away the past and created a cultural ‘Year Zero’. And the new country they are building in its place means nothing to me. Nothing. I will pay my tax and obey the law, but that’s it. I feel zero loyalty or affection for modern Britain. It’s just somewhere I live.

You can’t have it both ways. You can’t tell someone their history is shameful, impose a new identity on them, and then expect them to care. I care about myself and my loved ones, that’s it. What has been done to the people of this country is a f-ing crime. They have had a new identity imposed on them without any vote or referendum. It’s staggering.

What on earth are you going on about? Who is “the left” that you are comparing to Pol Pot?? Have you been to the killing fields?!
The “Raise the Colours” campaign only highlights how the George Cross and Union flag have been co-opted by right wing groups. Can I have my British identity back from them, please? All this faux outrage that “British identity is gone” “not allowed anymore” is pathetic. Blame Tommy Robinson and his forebears for many of us not wanting to be associated with symbols that they’ve tainted.

xanthomelana · Yesterday 04:49

TheWonderhorse · 28/04/2026 19:59

Welsh person here.

I think it is certainly a warning sign that the person who lives there is racist. Of course there are non-racists that fly flags, but the St George's Cross has been waved by the worst of England's people far too often.

In Wales the racist arseholes would most often use the Union Flag instead, our own flag is untainted in that regard. I wouldn't fly a Union Flag in my garden for money. There are other reasons for that, but even if they didn't exist, I would hate to think that I was doing a hideous "Britain for the British" dick move.

That’s absolutely not true where I live. When the flags started going up around the UK it was Welsh flags here, not a Union Jack in sight.

cotswoldsgal1234 · Yesterday 04:59

12345onceIcaughta · 28/04/2026 19:07

Yes it’s 100% racist. I couldn't be friends with someone like that.

Don’t be so ridiculous. Why is displaying our own flag being racist? So every human being in any country who flies their flag is a racist?

BeanQuisine · Yesterday 05:38

I assume most of the people who raise these flags do so thinking, "I'll put up a St George flag so that the lefties will call me racist, then I'll say "No I'm not," and call them a snowflake."

Sort of interaction that makes some people's lives feel less empty, I suppose.

VashtaNerada · Yesterday 05:54

It completely depends on the context and timing. If it goes up for a sporting event and then comes down, probably not racist. If it goes up shortly after a known racist in the media encourages you to put one up, racist.
People can pretend to be wide-eyed and claim that their flag has absolutely nothing to do with the sudden spate of racist flags that went up about a year ago but the rest of us aren’t buying it.