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AIBU to be annoyed after she offered birthday balloons then ignored me

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TheOpalFox · 28/04/2026 13:22

Would you be annoyed if someone you knew said she would do balloons for your sons birthday then started ignoring you. ? She offered …. I messaged her again and she said yes She’s doing them… and it’s a special birthday too. Well. My sons birthday is tokotrow
and il have to settle with card factory specials but why offer??? Then ignore me ? Why? Am I in the wrong to be annoyed. ?

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Smartiepants79 · 28/04/2026 13:26

Well it’s a bit weird. Who’s paying for them though? I would check one last time and tell her that if you don’t hear from her before a certain time you’ll be buying some from elsewhere.

Growagardenmom87 · 28/04/2026 13:28

Was payment mentioned? I wonder if she thought you meant could she do them for free and she felt awkward bringing up the cost?

TheOpalFox · 28/04/2026 14:06

Growagardenmom87 · 28/04/2026 13:28

Was payment mentioned? I wonder if she thought you meant could she do them for free and she felt awkward bringing up the cost?

She said she was working out the price… :( ignored me since and I haven’t ordered any other special ones just incase :( and now she’s let me down 😰😰😰

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7238SM · 28/04/2026 14:09

The whole thing sounds weird. Does she work in a party shop? Why would she offer to get the balloons for you?

foreversunshine · 28/04/2026 14:12

I don't see how she's let you down if you never even got to the stage of being given a price.

You could have ordered elsewhere and if she got back in touch you say "sorry, I couldn't hold off any longer. I've ordered from elsewhere, ta"

You're a grown up.

Coconutter24 · 28/04/2026 14:18

TheOpalFox · 28/04/2026 14:06

She said she was working out the price… :( ignored me since and I haven’t ordered any other special ones just incase :( and now she’s let me down 😰😰😰

If she’s a close friend I’d of sent a message that you need to know by X date if she’s able to do them. If you got no response order elsewhere

ColdAsAWitches · 28/04/2026 14:46

il have to settle with card factory specials

I couldn't get worked up over this. Who even notices where balloons are from? Particularly kids. They'll just see balloons or no balloons.

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 28/04/2026 14:48

Outrageous behaviour. I'd be getting my ducks in a row.

sparepantsandtoothbrush · 28/04/2026 15:40

How old is he? I doubt he'll even care where the balloons are from either way

TheOpalFox · 28/04/2026 16:26

7238SM · 28/04/2026 14:09

The whole thing sounds weird. Does she work in a party shop? Why would she offer to get the balloons for you?

She had her own balloon business

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